I live in Miami. Tons of hot chicks, dating apps are always fire, meeting women in person is very easy. I have no complaints as far as that goes. But I have noticed that I don't seem to be putting in the effort I was before and lately I have had a couple girls lose interest after a couple dates. Truthfully, I get tired of wining and dining these materialistic Miami girls. I don't mind doing it sometimes because I have had a lot of success here but I think I am just burnt out. Dating here can get really expensive if you aren't paying attention. I have the money, but I find it so repititive. I don't feeling going on date #2, #3, etc. I don't feel like texting all week just to keep her interest. I also have a problem with focusing on one girl. It is hard to keep one when you are focused on 3. Then you end up with zero. Unless a 9 or 10 comes along then they will get my full attention.

I literally am starting to hate the effort of dating and I feel like I am wasting my time. Goes like this: 1-2 dates, all good, texting, something comes up, less texting, fizzles, then a week goes by and I do the same thing with a new girl. I would much rather go out and pickup at bars. It is superior to dating here. However that being said I still find myself setting up dates because the girls are higher quality, but I still lose interest. It's like I only get pleasure from going out solo and getting ONS. I live for the chase. It's just more fun, however the quality of girls is higher if you actually date them. The dating apps are great but I find the interaction fizzles out so fast if you are not quick and if you are talking to multiple girls at once then it's so hard to focus on just one. That is my problem. The moment you take your foot off the gas another dude steps in. It's the nature of the beast.

Maybe girls can see I am not boyfriend material, or perhaps I am only in love with the chase? I like the chase more than sex. Or maybe I am just burned out.