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[–]TheLoner19 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
These answers suck, you can make things VERY sexual over text, especially with women <25 years old. Women will crawl over barbed wire to fuck you without even knowing what you look like if you know how to turn them on via text.
Sex was a subject that came back 2 times. It was short, just talking about experiences and personal preferences.
This is good that you're talking about sex, but you've gotta turn it up further. Don't just say "yeah I like doggy, and reverse cowgirl", say "I would make you do doggy, and then reverse cowgirl, with me". Make it about you and her.
Don't worry about being cringy, everyone needs to mess up to get reference experience.
Generally, be covert, not overt. DON'T say "Yeah I'm so horny I want to fuck your pussy so hard" (unless things have REALLY already steamed up). Instead, be a ninja and say "My mind is going blank, and my pants are suddenly getting really tight...I can't stop thinking about how relentlessly I will ravage your tight body"
Use imagery and subtext to your advantage. Read the situation.
[–]project_nl 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I didnt do that actually. Thank you. This is imo the answer I was looking for.
Generally, be covert, not overt. DON'T say "Yeah I'm so horny I want to fuck your pussy so hard" (unless things have REALLY already steamed up).
That would sound cringey as fuck lol
Instead, be a ninja and say "My mind is going blank, and my pants are suddenly getting really tight...I can't stop thinking about how relentlessly I will ravage your tight body"
Yeah this is the kind of smooth wordplay I am trying to think of. Thanks for the examples!
[–]hunterpua 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You shouldn't try to make it sexual over text if you're not the type of guy that likes to text the way a romance novel is written. It can be a real mental strain coming up with intricate descriptions of how your bodies are going to interact.
The exception to this is if the girl wants to get dirty too. Then you can go back and forth just saying you wanna do this and that with her but it has to lead to something more like phone sex or a video chat where you're basically watching each other touch yourselves because you still need to be really good at describing sensations if you wanna get each other off purely thru text.
Oh and if you haven't yet gotten the answer to how to make a girl horny over text from what I've written then let me spell it out, describe how you would fuck her the way a romance novel would. You only need to read one romance novel to understand what I mean. You don't even need to read the whole thing, just a section.
/u/TheLoner19's example is pretty good.
Thanks.
[–]RoiOstrovsky 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Try calling her instead.
[–]project_nl 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Im not a big fan of calling becuase my connection absolutely sucks where I live. Half the time I cant hear the person who's calling me or the other way around.
I know that a lot of people get sexual through messages. I just dont know how to make it not cringe worthy
[–]RoiOstrovsky 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We live in 2018 man, there's got to be a way to solve the connection problem. You can record voice messages in Whatsapp which should be just slightly more intimate than text.
[–]NKHero07 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
just heard this yesterday, but use whatsapp or something, you can send memes record picture messages or just do it over snapchat. its a little better than text.
Yeah I've been using whatsapp already.
The only thing that would help me is the smirk emoji but even then it feels just cringey.
Sending memes to become sexual or recording your voice sounds a bit... odd...
Snapchat can be a solution though.
[–]NKHero07 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You cant touch them so i would say ust think of otherways to make her tick. But sometimes just hearing thw other persons voice can be good like if she opens it in an innapropriate place it can be fun or at least make her think about you when your not there. It might rev her up a little
[–]sorry_mommy 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No no no no. Didn't you ever hear that texting is only for logistics?? You can't physically escalate over the phone so why fucking bother. You can't look into her eyes and smirk, you can't pause seductively in your conversation and look her up and down. Fuck it, arrange your next date and then ghost her texts until like 12 hours before the date.
[–]LingeringGnome 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't you have a date with her on Friday? If so, why are you spending so much time on the phone? Work on your career or the gym instead.
Where did I say that I spend a lot of time on my phone? I am a pretty busy person and she knows that because during the day I often reply really slow, sometimes intentionally.
[–]LingeringGnome 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It was apparent in your message. The phone is for appointments early on. The date is where you get to know each other, or you run the risk of just being a text pal.
[–]Steve_Savage 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I use a lot of innuendo. Women like that, especially if its clever. Like for example I talk about her "appetites" and I don't mean food... stuff like that. Girls really dig a man who knows his words.
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