I'd like to ask some advice. I'm a university student (, although it's still summer right now, so campus is relatively quiet). I like to think I'm not exactly an AFC: I'm forward (and successful enough) with girls that I meet in classes, clubs, through mutual friends, etc. But, I want to meet more girls.
I feel like the solution to this is to just start cold approaching girls that I see in coffee shops, library, etc. But I just can't get over this feeling that I'm being a lecherous creep by doing so. Rationally, this feeling doesn't make sense - my life is on a pretty good trajectory. But I just can't get over this feeling?
I've read various stuff here about giving value, I'm actually being selfish by not approaching them, it's an invitation, etc. And rationally I know those things. And still the feeling persists.
tl;dr - I want to start cold-approaching women, but I feel like I'd be a creep for doing so.
How do I conquer this feeling?
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