first time using tinder after my last relationship year ago. i put looking for short term-open for long cus i want casual but that may change anytime.

i just experienced getting ghosted after 2 dates/sleeping with a european dude(26m). he told me the last time to let him know when i'm free again, so i reached out 3 days ago and he never replied. i know the sex is not bad cus men in my life always comeback whether its short/long term rs.

i know i'm supposedly feel disappoined but i laughed everytime i think about someone ghosting me. i told him once i dated a black man once and he kept asking to compare his size and repeadly told him yours is big like them 😭😭😭 i gave a chance to fw a short dude now he has the audacity to ghost me

men why would do this to me. tell me how to recover