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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Why are you afraid of “Rejection?”im afraid of the rudeness i can handle respectful rejection | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 04:22 PM |
| 1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissNo I get this! That’s why I’m wondering how guys that have had sex on 3+ dates how did they do it | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 06:21 AM |
| 1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissThis what I’m saying and people are acting oblivious | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 06:19 AM |
| 1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissHow though? She could just like the attention / dates | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 11:15 PM |
| 1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissHow to move strategically. And yeah covid helped ALOT so many women werent trying to demand dates and all the rules and regulations dropped | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 11:15 PM |
| 1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissyour right but they try and flip it like just because you give them attention / resources doesn't mean shes obliged to fxck | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 11:13 PM |
| -1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissThin line between bold / assertive and forcing it | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 11:12 PM |
| -1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissWhat if shes inbetween too? | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 10:24 PM |
| 1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissWhy is it silly though? | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 10:08 PM |
| -1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissI don't know what she wants to be honest. I never asked exactly but in our conversations she seems like she just wants to see how things go and take it slow | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 10:07 PM |
| 0 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissYeah ive spent nearly 2k lol 🤡 never again | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 09:47 PM |
| 2 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissWaiting its not necessarily a problem the problem is not knowing if she genuinely likes you or wasting your time | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 09:46 PM |
| 2 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissWow! How many dates did you go on | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 09:45 PM |
| 1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissYeah 3 dates no sex is crazy to me especially when she said ive taken her on the best dates shes ever had on the second and third date | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 09:41 PM |
| 0 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissi would say in between i want to smash but i don't just want to do that but i do not want a long term relationship i just want to enjoy each others company and share experiences with someone i know likes me back | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 09:40 PM |
| 1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissShe does seem 50/50 to spend time with me. When we are together she is good vibes but thats how she is as a person shes social with everyone. In terms of future she just said she wants to live a peaceful happy life. | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 09:38 PM |
| 1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissAnd money lol yeah your right | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 07:35 PM |
| 1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissI want to see how it goes not causal | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 07:35 PM |
| -1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissIt’s not about expecting it’s about reciprocation | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:48 PM |
| 1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissYes okay how long do you “being” and “connecting” until she ghosts you cause she’s not interested? | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:47 PM |
| -2 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissAre you a woman? | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:46 PM |
| -12 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissLooool so what to say then? Because it’s reality. She said I’ve taken her out for the best dates she’s ever had our 2nd and 3rd date yet the guys that did less she done indoor Olympics with but I should wait? | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:45 PM |
| -1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissI have shown the actions by taking her on the 2 best dates she’s ever been on as she told me. The more they like you the more they hold off. I hear that but how do you know when it’s they holding off because they like you or they holding off cause they don’t like you? | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:39 PM |
| -1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kiss“Maybe you should look at it as I had some fun with this person and cost me money for good memories” NAH that is incel stuff🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:36 PM |
| -2 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kiss😂 at what point am I allowed to expect sex back? After 30 dates? And 30k down worth of dates? Come on I don’t see it as a transaction I see it as reciprocation. I have been trying to connect with her as a human. How long is it okay to keep trying to connect as a human 30 dates? | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:35 PM |
| -5 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissHow?🤣 actions speak louder than words | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:29 PM |
| 1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissThis what I’m thinking honestly. Are you talking from first hand experience or? I think this because for me it’s like she has said our second and third date are the best she’s ever been on yet when I try and progress to sex she says she’s not comfortable but she has had sex with guys that have done much less so for me it seems like she’s obviously not that interested | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:27 PM |
| -12 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissHow though? It just seems to me she doesn’t like me enough cause what would be stopping her? She’s obviously let guys smash that have done much less than I have. I even brought this up to her and she said just because I’ve done nice things for her doesn’t mean she has to fxck. In my mind that’s like saying she rewards bad behaviour and punishes good behaviour then | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:24 PM |
| 11 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissYes the third date was intimate she said it’s the best date she’s ever been on yet when I tried to do more than kiss she said she’s not comfortable | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:18 PM |
| 0 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissHahaha I see what you did there she can do what she wants she’s not obliged to do it. But usually in life if someone does something nice for you, you repay them. Your not obliged to and have every right not to if you don’t want to though. To give an analogy like a painter can spend 5 hours painting a person house and the woman doesn’t pay him you can turn around and say “how dare the woman not pay the painter when he clearly spent hours on her” the woman doesn’t have to pay the painter if she do… | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:17 PM |
| 4 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissI like this. But she tries to flip it like ah so you only did these really really nice dates just for sex? When that’s not the case I’m happy to do these nice things for someone that’s reciprocating and I’m sure about | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:06 PM |
| 2 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissYeah il be surprised when im £2k+ down after multiple dates just to find out she’s not interested lol. Haha im joking but my things how can I keep spending on dates if I dont know if its going anywhere? She said the our 2nd date is the best date she’s ever been on then now our 3rd date topped that and she said its the best date she’s ever been on yet when I tried to do more than kiss she said she’s not comfortable with that and wants to take things slow it’s only our 3rd date. For me thats 3 dat… | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:05 PM |
| 2 | What one thing improved your success the most ?What would you rate them out of 10😂 | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 06:53 AM |
| 13 | What one thing improved your success the most ?I boldly asked: “Wanna fuck?” She laughs and said: “Gee, I thought you’d never ask!” 😂😂 yeah good one! | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 08:51 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys talk about with women?Like what questions? and what questions would you liked to be asked about yourself | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 09:58 AM |
| 3 | What do you guys talk about with women?i asked you a straight question. "What struggles do you tell them you are dealing with?" | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 04:12 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys talk about with women?From first hand experience. What struggles do you tell them you are dealing with?😂 You think a stranger cares about your problems? | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 04:09 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys talk about with women?Like what? Do you ask questions about the man also? As you said curiosity is potent af | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 04:07 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys talk about with women?Examples? | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 04:05 AM |
| 6 | What do you guys talk about with women?Women don't like that shit😂 they say they do but really they think in their head this guy is a bxtch | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Snapchat vs phone numberIf you hesitate you will masterbate | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 06:21 AM |
| 1 | How To Ask A Woman Out On A Second Date?The issue is you evidently don’t know me from anywhere and never been on a date with me to have an opinion. Evidently some women will look you dead in the eyes and lie | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 10:18 AM |
| 1 | How do I cold approach (talking about the opener)Compliment her then ask what’s her name “You look beautiful, what’s your name” Then gauge how she responds If she’s interested she will at least ask your name back if she doesn’t it doesn’t mean she’s not interested but it’s a sign she may not be just gotta try continue the conversation to find out. | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 12:09 AM |
| 1 | How do I cold approach (talking about the opener)Loooool solid advice | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 12:04 AM |
| 1 | How To Ask A Woman Out On A Second Date?Well a wise man once said. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. So yes something needs to be tweaked but my point was mainly woman can lie in the moment can just say what you want to hear in your face to make it less awkward or anything like that | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 12:01 AM |
| 2 | How To Ask A Woman Out On A Second Date?Ive done that and had women look me dead in the eyes and say they enjoyed the night and would love to see me again to then when i texted them the following day just straight up ghost my first message i double message to try and arrange a second date and its just flaky | /r/seduction | 24/06/26 11:05 AM |
| 1 | What Do You Talk About When You Get A Woman’s NumberYes I get that but if you don’t say anything until the date she will ghost or flake | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 06:20 AM |
| 1 | What Do You Talk About When You Get A Woman’s NumberExactly you don’t decide when the woman wants to meet. So if she wants to meet you on the weekend (5/6 days away) which is perfectly normal you deprioritise her? You said you just set the date asap and don’t speak inbetween so I don’t know how you prioritise and deprioritise if you literally just set the date asap and don’t text anything till the date. I’m not talking about “extra text” so get that out your head I’m saying you have to at least bare minimum text until the date otherwise she will … | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 06:17 AM |
| 1 | What Do You Talk About When You Get A Woman’s NumberThanks for typing all of this but again you didn’t give a realistic example of how you would meet sooner. Are you saying If you meet a girl on Monday/Tuesday and she says she is free on the weekend Friday/Saturday so (4-6 days away) you will ghost her?😳 You’re not making sense😂 you’re living in a fantasy bro just typing for typings sake to sound nice. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 01:35 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Talk About When You Get A Woman’s NumberI get the point you are trying to make and I agree if a date is far out (like a few weeks) then she is likely to ghost / flake but I’m saying 5/6 days away is normal and I just explained how. You meet on Monday/Tuesday and she says she’s free on the weekend (Friday/Saturday) that is still 4-6 days away which is pretty understandable. You still haven’t told me the reality or gave a realistic example of how you would meet sooner than that. It’s as if you are saying when you meet a woman and set a … | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 10:33 AM |
| 1 | ghosted for the first timeWhat did you say when you reached out? Try calling him then text him one more time to be sure if he actually ghosted you. Maybe something could have happened to him you never know | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 06:13 AM |
| 1 | What Do You Talk About When You Get A Woman’s NumberLol are you living in the internet or real world?😂 “if a woman schedules the date 5/6 days out - she is probably planning to ghost you” how does this make sense? If you meet a woman on a Monday or Tuesday she is likely going to say she is free on the weekend like Saturday (which is 5/6 days away) how does that mean she is planning to ghost you?😂😂 that is standard logistics you’re not going to meet her today (Monday) and see her tomorrow (Tuesday) only if you’re lucky it certainly isn’t the norm.… | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 06:00 AM |
| 0 | Cold approach has changed my lifeHahaa so you don't even know what to say after that😂 | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach has changed my lifeShe: Thanks (turns away) You:....... | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach has changed my lifeHow do you open? | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:43 PM |
| 1 | How to Smash as Soon as You Meet Her“You have to talk with her and figure out if she’s down” yes you are missing out the most important part LOL what do you say?? So you start with “Yo” She: Hello (if you’re lucky she responds to that and doesn’t just ignore you or turn the other way) You:……… | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:38 PM |
| 2 | What Do You Talk About When You Get A Woman’s NumberI would love to see evidence of this in my DMs from setting the date to not saying anything for 10 days or more then till the date | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Club gamei agree with you it seems they are just trying to dance with their friends but then i see other guys pulling left right and centre i dont know what they say to these women | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 03:03 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Talk About When You Get A Woman’s Number"If you had mutual rapport" this is my point how to build that without making it a job interview. Especially when you follow up the next time to speak how do you start the conversation to make it flow from the start | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 02:59 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Talk About When You Get A Woman’s NumberHahah this sounds good in theory but in reality if you set a date ASAP, firstly you don't know jack shit about each other so even if she agrees to a date 5/6 days away if you do not build any rapport or comfort inbetween she will 95% ghost or flake. I realised this happens because she doesn't know fxck all about you apart from your name, shit she might not even know that😂 I noticed people don't talk about this much online they just say set the date asap which is all well and good but if you say … | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 02:57 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Talk About When You Get A Woman’s Number"I will just do a little comfort building, teasing, playful challenging, and flirting." Yes this is the difficult bit lol what to say though. I like the example you gave about: Her: I've been getting into pickleball recently You: Oh cool. Do you also like to go out at night? No. Dig into the pickleball. Find points where you can connect on the topic. It's easy to flirt on that topic too with lines like, "This is your fault. Now I can't stop thinking about you in a cute pickleball outfit." Yes th… | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 02:50 PM |
| 2 | What Do You Talk About When You Get A Woman’s NumberHahah this is good in theory but reality is if you met her on Monday and set the date for Saturday if you do not build up any rapport or say nothing until Saturday chances of her ghosting/flaking on Saturday is about 95% (from first hand experience). Also you forgot one more step, after "hey it was nice meeting you" She: Whos this😵💫 | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 02:43 PM |
| 3 | What am I supposed to do at the bar?This what I’m trying to understand but no one has answered your question | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 05:04 AM |
| 1 | What am I supposed to do at the bar?“Open and talk to their ear” say what exactly though??? Especially if she’s dancing with her friend | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:46 AM |
| 1 | What am I supposed to do at the bar?This is key! I don’t think people mention this enough lol I’ve noticed anytime you are timid or 50/50 you get ignored or they rudely turn around or disrespect you but when your assertive they behave it’s like women can smell the timidness lol | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:46 AM |
| 1 | How to cold approach a woman?Do you think it can come across as you get ghosted a lot that’s why you’re telling her to take your number cause you’re scared if you call her she won’t pick up or respond? | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach has changed my lifeExactly this is key | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach has changed my lifeHow comes in the warm up we get rejected then when we get warm we see more success? | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach has changed my lifeHow do you open? How do you deal with rejection when they just blank you or rudely turn around etc | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach has changed my lifeIsn’t the problem being a good communicator first and foremost if you get good at that you can interact with women | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach has changed my lifeSo soft? Yeah right😂 it’s usually rude and disrespectful yeah like you said they just rudely turn around or walk off or just ignore you it’s never friendly | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:25 AM |
| 2 | How to Smash as Soon as You Meet HerI didn’t get anything from this post I don’t understand the advice you are trying to give “isolation” obviously you need to be somewhere to have sex? But how do you get her there. Women have their guard up with complete strangers “come hang with me tonight” is that your opener? Or is that your close? What do you say to start off with? | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:21 AM |
| 1 | How to Smash as Soon as You Meet HerWhat do you she what she’s up to tonight mean😂 usually they say they are just there for the night and going home after | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Those who have success at night clubs, whats the proper mindset?Everyone says say address the whole group I’ve tried that multiple times it’s terrible advice most of the times when you try address the whole group the one you actually want thinks you want someone else and leaves you too it! Happened multiple times makes me think do people just type these things online because it sounds good or are people talking from first hand experience🤔 | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Those who have success at night clubs, whats the proper mindset?Say what exactly though | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Those who have success at night clubs, whats the proper mindset?Women can smell that shit | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Those who have success at night clubs, whats the proper mindset?But what exactly do you say - the music is loud and you can barely hear each other | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 04:05 AM |
| 4 | I want to learn how to talk to women and be charmingPeople just give generic advice i too have the same issue and the responses ive seen are not helpful | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 07:11 PM |
| 3 | I want to learn how to talk to women and be charmingi agree "just go out and be social" is not advice | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 07:10 PM |
| 2 | What are the biggest factors that stop you from cold approaching?Yes exactly humiliation ritual 😂 wait what’s happening on TikTok? | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 08:05 PM |
| 2 | What are the biggest factors that stop you from cold approaching?From experience | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 08:05 PM |
| 1 | The “Dating Game” Is Simple When You Think About It…I always hear people say entertain the friend however in my experience that can backfire sometimes because the main one you want will think you are interested in her friend and leave or use it as an excuse to exit | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 03:34 AM |
| 1 | How to know if a girl wants to hookup at clubWhat if you can’t dance? | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 06:39 AM |
| 1 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)What about in clubs? Does the same apply? | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 06:24 AM |
| 1 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)I agree he asked him to show receipts then he changed the subject just to further attack him. Can’t take anything he says seriously after getting called out to exchange evidence he folded | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 06:21 AM |
| 2 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)Shock he changed the subject when you mentioned exchanging receipts😂😂😂 some people just type for typings sake but when it’s time to back up their words with evidence they go quiet. I would like to see these receipts will dm you | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 06:19 AM |
| 3 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)I like this sales reference I ageee | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 06:08 AM |
| 2 | I practiced cold approaching last night at a club. Are women more hostile these days?ive defo experienced this aswell! but one thing i noticed its like women can smell confidence any time i go in 50/50 i get 50/50 results but when im 101% confident i am successful 80-90% of the time. Also its funny because sometimes you look around in the clubs and you see some guys getting success with multiple different women. I have heard people say this can burn you out if women see you are talking to different women but from what i seen it does the opposite women have FOMO and want to be pa… | /r/seduction | 07/06/26 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?she has came back now - so what to do now you said stick to your guns what to say now | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Yes thats my thoughts - also we have each other on snapchat shes seen i don't give af and living my life how i want to live | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Yes exactly my thoughts - this why im asking how to handle this situation in terms of teaching her how i should be treated? | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Thank you! But who said i don't have a ton of options?😂 | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Thank you! Yes this makes sense | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 01:06 AM |
| -4 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Who said i don't have success with women?😂 | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 01:03 AM |
| -4 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Exactly😂 just typing absolute NONSENSE | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?My way has "never failed me" but i decided to do it the womans way and got ghosted in the end. Are you blind or cant read😂 you must be just typing just to argue and insult. Why are you so angry - i haven't insulted you or hurt you. You must be a incel annoyed that woman are going out with another guy and not you😂 | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 01:00 AM |
| -4 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?i can see theres alot of incels in this sub and their coming out in force😂 | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 12:57 AM |
| -8 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Where did i complain about wasting money on fancy dates? Which exact comment | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 12:55 AM |
| 0 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Bro congrats | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 12:53 AM |
| -15 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Middle - she willing to spend time with me and my company and im willing to take her out. MIDDLE. Stop thinking all about sex you horny child. Yes middle can include going for a walk or drive also. But yes meeting me in the middle is some sort of effort to spend time with me REGARDLESS of what we are doing. Its not about sex so stop saying that. The interest is spending time with me not what we are doing. Every guy wants someone that wants to spend time with you for you. | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 12:51 AM |
| 0 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Buying her approval how? Did you miss the part where i invited her over to mine to hang out? | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?I didn't take her out for food.... i asked her to hang out the first time she said shes not comfortable - but shes comfortable drinking those sweet cocktails lool ah women | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 12:36 AM |
| 0 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Ok? | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?This is probably the best response and the only thing relevant to what i was asking. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?You both are right - she actually saw me not giving a fuck and living my life on snapchat posting videos and pictures of nice places probably reminded her of the nice place i took her so im wondering do i ignore and let her keep seeing me living my life (this can go two ways she get butthurt and blocks me or makes her chase more next time she would act correct) or respond but if i respond dont know how to respond | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 12:30 AM |
| -1 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?A test? Ive done the test and know what not to do next time | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 12:27 AM |
| -12 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?See this is where you got it wrong - im not inviting her over just to fuck grow up. Im inviting her over to meet me in the middle. Basically like im happy to go out and do nice things but i got to know you are serious and willing to spend time with me for me and not what we are doing - this approach has never failed me. I thought il just try it the womans way this time. Like i said she didnt have it nor saw my point of view so i said cool we will do it her way i took her somewhere nice because t… | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 12:23 AM |
| -2 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?SO HOW DO I CONTROL THE SITUATION | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Yeah, I get what you’re saying, but the thing is I already suggested the chill-at-mine vibe twice on our first date (if you look at original post) both times she wasn’t comfortable. So i dont want to say again “hey I’m kinda in the mood for chill vibes, dinner and a bottle at my place, would love it if you come over” just for her to say shes not comfortable again if you know what i mean. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:34 PM |
| -15 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?You don’t need to insult me to make your point you know? Have some respect. We’d already met once before, this was our first date but second time seeing each other. And yeah, I get that not every girl wants to come over right away, but you’d be surprised — some are fine with it if the vibe’s right. The whole point was, I told her upfront I don’t like going all out until I know someone’s serious. Then she ghosted me after anyway, which just proved exactly why I didn’t want to go out in the first … | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Yeah, 100%. Lesson learned for sure — but funny thing is, I’d actually learned this lesson before. That’s why I was hesitant to take her out in the first place, and I even explained that to her beforehand. She just wasn’t tryna see my point of view. I ended up taking her somewhere nice anyway, and she ghosted me — literally proved my point. It’s not even about the cash, it’s about seeing who’s actually genuine before investing time, effort, and resources. Appreciate the advice bro. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Yeah that’s exactly how it felt. The ghosting part just showed me where her respect level was at and i defo thought she was with another guy I’m not mad, it just confirmed what I already suspected which is why i didn't want to bother spend and take her on a nice date. She can spin the block if she wants, but the energy won’t be the same this time. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:11 PM |
| 1 | How do YOU hookup at clubs?i am not worried about what to say i dont know what to say theres a difference LOL so im simply asking people what do they say thats worked for them. I do hear you when you're in the zone and having fun things flow naturally thats happened with me and thats with anything in life not just pulling/hooking up a nightclub but you still need to know the fundamentals to start off with. So again thats why i asked what do people say that works for them? When you have a bunch of potential openers that ha… | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 11:11 AM |
| 1 | How do YOU hookup at clubs?Not been any good answers on this post so far | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 09:53 AM |
| 7 | How do YOU hookup at clubs?That’s why I asked the question because it’s a difficult scenario if it was easy or straight forward I wouldn’t ask | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 01:04 AM |
| 0 | How do YOU hookup at clubs?Exactly 😂😂 not just me I’m sure many others are in the same boat | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 09:29 PM |
| 21 | How do YOU hookup at clubs?Why didn’t you just skip the post - how does this help anyone? | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 09:29 PM |
| -30 | How do YOU hookup at clubs?That’s not what I asked……. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Got First Date Uber Home - Told Her Text Me When You Get Home But She Hasn't YetOnly one hahah | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?Hahah but this is the thing I thought that was their advice but like I said I’ve found that they actually are open to first date sex that’s the point of my post | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?This is the point of my post - so how do you successfully do it? | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Got First Date Uber Home - Told Her Text Me When You Get Home But She Hasn't Yet😂😂😂😂 and what makes you think I don’t have the same experience loooool people on this app make me laugh il be honest I prob have 3x your body count don’t assume asking questions as weakness | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Got First Date Uber Home - Told Her Text Me When You Get Home But She Hasn't YetHUH | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Got First Date Uber Home - Told Her Text Me When You Get Home But She Hasn't YetThank you! I was thinking this. At least say thank you for the Uber. Unless she’s thinking I picked her up and drove her to mine getting her a uber back is the least I could do I dunno man she seems like she likes to play hard to get and likes to be chased | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Got First Date Uber Home - Told Her Text Me When You Get Home But She Hasn't YetThank you! Thats it impossibly high standards! It’s not even realistic she said she would have blocked me if I didn’t message her in the morning. I said why couldn’t you have messaged me before making such a drastic decision she said I’m the one asking her out why the fxck should she message. I was just thinking inconsiderate | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Got First Date Uber Home - Told Her Text Me When You Get Home But She Hasn't YetThey are - I asked her why she does that she said if she doesn’t do it quickly it gives the person a chance to convince her which she doesn’t want to be convinced | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Got First Date Uber Home - Told Her Text Me When You Get Home But She Hasn't YetWhat do you mean hands are too full to text? | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Got First Date Uber Home - Told Her Text Me When You Get Home But She Hasn't YetNot hugging like a friendly hug more I’ve got my arms around her waist and she’s resting on my chest like in a sexual way. Thanks for your comments though. Now could you answer MY questions? | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 06:39 AM |
| -3 | Got First Date Uber Home - Told Her Text Me When You Get Home But She Hasn't YetNot needy I’m not fussed honestly I just want to make sure I navigate best way possible everyone is different. So if the situation occurs again I handle it the best way | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 06:28 AM |
| 22 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?No I’m implying she views me better than chad but he is just a suitable fxck buddy | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 11:18 AM |
| 4 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?how can they feel their date is a catch? | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 08:14 AM |
| 52 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?True, I’ve heard that reason before, but honestly it puts me off. You’ve been sleeping with Chad and his mates on the first date but I’m where you wanna draw the line? 😂 | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 05:59 AM |
| 2 | receding hair line and dont feel attractivemulti millionaires? | /r/seduction | 15/09/25 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Where are you guys finding the women on dating apps who just want sex?literally? never had a woman ever do this - what do you rate your looks out of 10 lol | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 03:00 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First Solo Club Night After 8 Years in a Relationship (31M)Was the girl by herself? What did you first say to break the ice? I dunno about you but in a club when a womans dancing i find it hard to speak to her because obviously shes dancing | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Girl cancelled less than 1hr before first dateShe ghosted me | /r/seduction | 13/09/25 02:48 PM |
| -1 | Girl cancelled less than 1hr before first dateThe whole point of saying something special is to let her know only 2 of us He said it intrigues them to want to find out what that something special is he said he’s had women make up BS excuses and calling their bluff playfully then ended up doing indoor Olympics same night I get what you mean when you say it sounds very needy she hasn’t bothered to respond | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 06:04 PM |
| -2 | Girl cancelled less than 1hr before first dateThanks someone else said say I planned something special for us two the reservation is for two I wasn’t expecting anyone else but if you have other plans feel free to go ahead il just cancel our reservation | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Girl cancelled less than 1hr before first dateShe said the weather is bad not as cancellation for me it was kind of in hope I say let’s do another day but I just said my cars warm don’t worry about that then when I asked for her address to pick her up she magically couldn’t make it anymore- she said she could do today (the next day) now closer to the time she’s saying she will be ready for 8 if I want to bring a friend because she’s staying at her cousins | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Girl cancelled less than 1hr before first dateRe arrange again? This was the re arrange | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Girl cancelled less than 1hr before first dateYeah seems like it- try my shot how? Obviously she cancelled yesterday and said she would be ready today? But now she talking about staying with her cousin and if i want to bring a friend | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Girl cancelled less than 1hr before first dateWhat do you mean by alternative? The plan was I pick her up at 8 - her asking if I want to bring a friend is like an alternative ? | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Girl cancelled less than 1hr before first dateThat’s what I’m saying - it’s like she’s already made plans with her cousin and doesn’t want to fully cancel so including me part of it in a way as she messed up yesterday and said she would be ready for 8pm today if you get what I mean. It’s like she forgot (or maybe didn’t forget) that she said she would be ready for 8pm today - so when I’ve asked her at 10am if she would be ready for 8pm today she responded back at 4pm (6 hours later) to say she’s staying at her cousins tonight if I want to b… | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 03:53 PM |
| 1 | When do you usually initiate physical touch on a first date?i like this! i always wait in my car but i might have to stand outside it but i dont want to be standing looking awkward especially if she takes long to come down | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 06:23 AM |
| 1 | When do you usually initiate physical touch on a first date?how would you know she seems into if its just a 1/2 second touch? | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 06:22 AM |
| 1 | When do you usually initiate physical touch on a first date?how long do you hold their wrist? | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 06:18 AM |
| 1 | When do you usually initiate physical touch on a first date?I like this lol so you do it at the table if you’re at a bar? | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 04:15 PM |
| 9 | When do you usually initiate physical touch on a first date?Yeah I get the whole ‘go with the flow’ thing, but at the same time if you don’t initiate some level of physical touch, it usually won’t just happen on its own. Someone has to break that barrier | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do women randomly ghost lolI agree but asking if I’ve seen a movie then ghosting me forever after I asked what movie is ridiculous | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Why do women randomly ghost lolI see do you usually get good reaction and keeps the convo flowing? The responses I always get are so corny from ChatGPT every now and again it at least points me in the right direction but never perfect glad it’s working for you though | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do women randomly ghost lollol I think you misunderstood what I said😂 I do engage and flirt like nothing happen till the tables turn and they’ve completely fallen for me then I give them a taste of their own medicine😂 it’s hurts them 10x more cause now they are hooked oh well shouldn’t have treated me like shit at the start | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do women randomly ghost lolYes Ino I’m direct like that but I feel the first message or 3/4 messages need to build some sort of rapport or something I usually say let’s skip the small talk and tell each other more bout ourselves over drinks but was wondering what you personally first say to be direct when you get a woman’s number | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do women randomly ghost lolI get more satisfaction when the tables turn end up falling for you then ghost them | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do women randomly ghost lolYeah exactly that’s what I want to do - so did it work 😂 And how exactly do you make them qualify themselves? | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Why do women randomly ghost lolLoool have you done this before? | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do women randomly ghost lolYes she’s very attractive | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do women randomly ghost lolI feel like this is most likely to get ghosted but if you say you personally use it and it works then il have to consider it | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do women randomly ghost lolYes I’ve realised this with dating apps you have to be direct and fast! I got this girls number in person face to face | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do women randomly ghost lolYes I agree and I’m very much direct just wondering what you say as soon as you get a woman’s number | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do women randomly ghost lolI agree with you bro and yes she defo is an 8! I understand texting is for setting shit up and I don’t waste time tryna set up a date. What do you say when you get a girls number to set up a date straight away? I feel like you gotta at least build some sort of rapport like 3/4 messages at least but sometimes you can get ghosted within those 3/4 | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 09:28 PM |
| 6 | Why do women randomly ghost lol🤣🤣🤣🤣 honestly I feel I should do that cause that’s what they basically do. How has she just ghosted me after asking if I’ve seen a movie | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do women randomly ghost lolYes I agree! One thing I’ve noticed tables always turn and when it does I treat them how they treated me at the start to teach them a lesson can’t be going around treating people like shit | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Why do women randomly ghost lolI like this and the follow up! So what are the sort of things you would say when you first start talking to a woman | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do women randomly ghost lolYeah I agree but what do you say when you reach out again | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 09:19 PM |
| 14 | Why do women randomly ghost lolHahah I hear that it’s so sad we gotta play games man lol. But ChatGPT I’ve tried it but it comes with the corniest robotic responses - like for this exact scenario where I asked her what movie is she referring to and just got ghosted I asked ChatGPT what to follow up and it weren’t great - I often find the responses are sometimes long I prefer and noticed less is more can’t look too keen as you said | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 09:17 PM |
| 33 | Why do women randomly ghost lolThis is what I’m noticing 😂 so what to say to prevent that | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl flaked the first time — now she’s back. How do you play it?It’s not desperate she’s just another number that’s why I have low / none investment this time around | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Girl flaked the first time — now she’s back. How do you play it?Yeah, it’s less about whether sex is already on the table. More like, she flaked the first time, so she doesn’t get the same treatment. I had something nice planned, she bailed, so now if she’s serious she has to come to mine, we see the vibe, and if not, we leave it at that. Keeps it simple and shows I don’t roll over for flakes. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Girl flaked the first time — now she’s back. How do you play it?Nothing serious. But how would you actually word it when you set up the meetup? Like what’s an example of how you’d tell her to just come over? | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding dinner first date — how would you guys handle this?You think so😅 even if we hardly know each other | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Avoiding dinner first date — how would you guys handle this?Coffee is fair enough | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You?Niceee solid advice man again i can see how calling them on the spot works because they get your number! So you text them there in front of them after you've called something like "Bryce the Hot Guy in the flamingo polo" or you wait till you've left each other to text that? If they text back later that same day do you find some women are willing to meet up that same day or showing they are interested? How do you word setting up the date when you text the next day? Do you ask for their availabili… | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 07:54 AM |
| 2 | The Wolf of Wall Street Taught Me More About Dating Than Any CoachWhat does not exist? | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You?It has! But it seems they have ghosted me😂🤦♂️ How soon do you text after getting their number and what do you say? | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You?Whats instant date? | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You?Bryce Preston Hayes i just want to say thank you again for sharing this! - i've used this approach twice this week and have got numbers both times! Its so simple but effective - i was a bit rusty when they asked me questions back it caught me off guard but was good to know they were engaged enough to ask me questions and they gave me their number in the end which is most important! Like i said in my original post whenever i said "can i chat to you" they would automatically say i have a boyfriend… | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 06:16 AM |
| -2 | What Are YOUR Best Questions to Ask Women When Getting to Know Themi like this | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?Fair enough, but can you share an example of how it happened? Like where you met her, what the interaction was, and how you moved it from Hi to smashing the same day. | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?This what im talking about - peoples actual experiences with this happening haha. I can see why having a swimming pool in your apartment could get her to come back with you / meet you later. So you met her at the restaurant/bar in the daytime started casually speaking she asked what your doing later and asked you if you wanted to spend time together | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?Yes im asking about YOUR personal experience - how did it happen for YOU | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 05:14 PM |
| 7 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?Okay why didn't you just scroll past the post and not say anything? | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?It happens many people have done so thats why im asking the men that have actually done it HOW DID THEY do it! | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 04:25 PM |
| -1 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?Thanks, but I’m not asking for general advice or theory — I was asking about peoples actual experiences. | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?how lol and im not referring to first date i mean cold approaches on the street at the gym at a restaurant etc | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?i wasn't referring to first date lol | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?Has being that direct actually worked for you? lol. If not, how else do you usually go about it? To be fair, I was mostly asking about daytime approaches rather than late-night bar/club pulls. | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?Thanks bro! i was referring to cold approaches | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 03:16 PM |
| 6 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?Sounds nice bro but your missing out on all the important bits how did you go from "hi" to sex hours later lol what did you say to hang out together initially how did you build the vibe to touching etc once she agreed to hangout etc | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?Thanks for the response i meant from cold openings | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?yeah exactly | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 03:11 PM |
| 4 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?Appreciate the response — but to clarify, I was hoping for more specifics. For example, in the situations where you closed same day from a cold approach: Where did you meet her (street, café, gym, etc.)? What did you actually say to move things forward that quickly? Did you suggest a spontaneous date first, or just straight to yours/hers? Were there any clear signs she was open to same-day sex? The general point about vibes makes sense, but I’m trying to understand the practical steps that led f… | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?Cold approach in the street or at a coffee shop or grocery store just randomly in the day | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You?i like this! | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 08:58 AM |
| 3 | Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You?Haha fair enough bro, what are examples of things you've got girls to do for you? | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 06:45 AM |
| 11 | Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You?Thank you bro, I appreciate this 🙏 this is exactly what I was looking for — something you personally use that actually works, not just random lines or people telling me about myself. Simple but solid, I can see how it works. This is perfect 👌 | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 06:32 AM |
| 1 | How do you get women to feel "the spark"what do you do? | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 04:01 AM |
| 5 | The Wolf of Wall Street Taught Me More About Dating Than Any CoachThis the best saying 😂 any cold approach lines that work for you? | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 03:49 PM |
| -1 | What do YOU do after first date to keep the ball rollingHow about stick to the questions first then add whatever you want to add I haven’t seen you answer these direct questions if you want to help please share your answers to the 3 questions | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What do YOU do after first date to keep the ball rollingYou just said the same thing lol - say what exactly? | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 07:31 AM |
| 1 | What do YOU do after first date to keep the ball rollingSay what exactly? | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 05:58 AM |
| 1 | What do YOU do after first date to keep the ball rollingHuh? Thats what she did lol and i was the one that dropped her home she said text me when you get home - i did then she just liked the message no response back | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 05:55 AM |
| 0 | What do YOU do after first date to keep the ball rollingThanks but respectfully i wasn't asking if what i said was too much or too little. If i did i would appreciate your 2 cents on that. You have your way of doing things, i have mine. "Acting like a normal guy" is not what got me the date in the first place its because i came across different she said she'd never met someone so quick in her life whether thats true or not is another story. Also maybe i should of added abit more context not sure if it would make a difference or not but when i dropped… | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 05:51 AM |
| -4 | What do YOU do after first date to keep the ball rollingI didn’t expect warmth I expected at LEAST a response😂 I don’t need to say anything extra I’ve learnt if a woman enjoyed herself she would say it unprovoked she don’t need me saying I enjoyed myself for her just to say “I did too” hahah but nah thanks for your advice | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What do YOU do after first date to keep the ball rollingokay elaborate😂 | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 07:46 PM |
| -5 | What do YOU do after first date to keep the ball rollingAppreciate the advice. Just to clarify—I wasn’t really asking if “home now” was dry, since another woman responded warmly to the same text. I’m more wondering if the like is a sign of disinterest or just neutral? And if I do message again, is that double messaging in your eyes? What do YOU personally say after a first date? | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 04:12 PM |
| 1 | What do YOU do after first date to keep the ball rollingThanks - so you don’t think her just liking the message instead of actually responding is a sign of disinterest or just neutral? | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | What do YOU do after first date to keep the ball rollingThanks, great advice! So you don't think her just liking the message doesn't necessarily mean she's not interested? Out of curiosity, what do you usually text after a first date? | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 03:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys build on the vibe after first dateYeah I get that, but I’m looking for the exact words or approach you use. When you say you do quick calls or light banter, what do you actually say to secure another date? Can you give a real example of the conversation or text you send after a first date to keep the vibe going and lock in the next meet-up? | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 05:51 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys build on the vibe after first dateYeah I get what you’re saying, but that’s not really what I’m asking. I don’t want advice about ‘just hit her up when you want to see her again’ or ‘don’t play games.’ I want to know what you actually do in this scenario. Like, say I drop a girl home and she only liked my message — what exactly would you text after that, and when? Also can you give real examples of what you usually say after a first date to keep to see her again | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 05:49 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys build on the vibe after first dateBro I appreciate the advice, but I’m trying to get past the generic ‘don’t overthink it’ stuff i want the practical stuff. I dropped her home after our first date and she only liked my ‘home’ message — didn’t actually respond. Is that a sign she’s not interested? Would you double message in that case, or just leave it? And more importantly, what exactly do you say or do after a date to keep the vibe going and secure the second one? I’m looking for concrete examples, not general mindset stuff. | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 05:44 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys build on the vibe after first dateYeah this is exactly why I’m asking lol I get the logic of showing interest and keeping momentum, but the key for me is what exactly do YOU say/do so it doesn’t come across needy while still building on the vibe and securing that second date? | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 05:36 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys build on the vibe after first dateYeah I get that — But how do you usually initiate after dropping her off? Do you text later that night, the next day? And what exactly do you say | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 05:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys build on the vibe after first dateYeah I like that idea — gets her to do the reaching out first but still opens the door for you. But in my case I’d already dropped her home, so I couldn’t say ‘text me when you get back.’ What would you do in that scenario? Like if she’s already home, how do you keep the ball rolling without it feeling forced? Yesterday I just texted ‘home’ when I got back, and she only liked it — so I’m wondering what kind of follow-up you’d send then to keep the vibe going. Or if she only liked the message tha… | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 05:30 AM |
| 2 | If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head…Can you share an example? At the time it feels rough lol, but how do you tell if she’s just not ready or not interested? | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 08:18 AM |
| 9 | If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head…Yeah, it is what it is my guy, plenty of fish out there | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 08:14 AM |
| 5 | If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head…I’m less looking for advice and more curious about personal experiences. Have you ever had a situation where a woman turned away from a first-date kiss but you still saw her again? How did it play out? | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 08:13 AM |
| 10 | If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head…Lets say she asked question, said the date went well, but after going for a kiss at the end, she turned her head. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 08:12 AM |
| 3 | Do you guys actually experience women initiating sex?How do you create sexual tension? | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys actually experience women initiating sex?That’s really insightful, thanks for sharing. How can i make the woman im seeing feel beautiful beyond just saying it? I tell the woman I’m seeing she’s beautiful all the time, but she often doesn’t believe me. How can I make her really feel good and desired? I like your idea of asking her directly what makes her feel wanted — I’ll definitely do that. What about you, what makes you feel good and desired? | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys actually experience women initiating sex?At least im not alone😂 | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys actually experience women initiating sex?Thanks for that — really interesting perspective. When you say ‘genuine thoughtful compliment’ or ‘moment of emotional intimacy,’ can you give some examples? Like what kind of compliments or moments work best? And then how do you pull back and go cold without it feeling weird or damaging the vibe? I get the idea of creating that craving and scarcity, but the exact way to do it is where im lacking | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 11:53 AM |
| 8 | Do you guys actually experience women initiating sex?😂 Damn, sounds like I need to hang out where you meet these 45+ women. | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 11:50 AM |
| 9 | Do you guys actually experience women initiating sex?Yeah see, that’s the part I need to crack — flirt how? Build attraction how? I think this is the key it sounds like because a few others have mentioned the same thing. | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 11:44 AM |
| 16 | Do you guys actually experience women initiating sex?You’re right, I agree — some women definitely have a higher sex drive. But I feel like even when I’m with those women, they still never initiate with me. Since you’ve experienced it plenty, how do you personally create sexual tension? I think that’s where I’m lacking. For example, if a woman I’ve already slept with comes over to mine, I’ll just put on a Netflix movie and then initiate after a while if they haven’t — but maybe I’m missing opportunities earlier. | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.This is the way to do it usually what works on girl can work on others in a similar way | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.i posted a response about this above have a look at it will give you a good indication how and others above have made good suggestions | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.4 out of 50 is not bad at all | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.Makes sense would you like to share dms of girls you successfully hooked up with from instagram? | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.lets see your instagram then could give some pointers. You dont need a well optimised page by the way that just makes things easier but with just at least one picture of yourself you can success from instagram | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.Not even - firstly do they even follow you back? Secondly what do you say? thirdly do they have loads of followers? | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.Go on guys pages look at girls who follow them or you can go on nice girls pages and see the type of guys they follow then - go on those guys pages and see the type of girls that follow them/they follow and follow just rinse and repeat before you know it you’ll find a pool of girls. You don’t really wanna follow who girls follow because it would most likely be their friends and that could backfire on you. BUT you must follow at LEAST 20 girls a day don’t shortcut this it’s abit of a grind can ta… | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.Alot of guys say "hi" or "how are you" or some generic shit like that these girls have 100s of them. You got to be direct and say something funny or relevant to their story dont say no corny shit but the dilema is something funny can come across abit corny sometimes😂 so its about balance you gotta try out different things then you'll find something that works then just rinse and repeat be direct dont waste time small talk. Personally i like to find out what works for other people then add my own… | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 10:07 AM |
| 6 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.I can confirm its 1000% possible. You just need a good conversation starter because as most people have stated these girls get bombarded with messages. if you follow 20 girls/day at least one will follow back per day you do that for a week you will have at least 7 girls follow you back - if you already got a good opener (opener is key either have a smooth chat up line or comment something relevant on their story) 5/7 girls that followed you back will respond. If you have good game and know how t… | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 09:23 AM |
| 3 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.Bro all this guessing game your doing if he is your friend just ask to see the dms you can literally see the convos with him and the girls from him getting their number to them arranging to meet up to the aftermath if they banged or not i dont know why your playing the guessing game when you can just ask to see for yourself. but not out of disbelief but to see how the play works for yourself | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.Why do you think that is? | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 09:09 AM |
| 4 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.Please share a screenshot of you successfully sliding in a girls dm | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.Whats your play when your sliding in dms? | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult?You think the women left at closing time are there because they want to go back to a guys house? | /r/seduction | 01/08/25 08:44 AM |
| 0 | Women said she has a boyfriend but gave me her snapchatMate she is open to meeting up wtf you on about?😂 she said “even though I have a boyfriend” did you not read my post | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 08:14 PM |
| -1 | Women said she has a boyfriend but gave me her snapchatWhy am I trying? She is entertaining if she didn’t want to talk she could delete or block me | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 07:40 PM |
| -1 | Women said she has a boyfriend but gave me her snapchatShe is the one that gave me her Snapchat so it’s her that should show respect to the relationship no? Woman lie all the time that they have a bf when they dont after a few good conversations you never hear about this imaginary boyfriend ever again | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 07:39 PM |
| 0 | Women said she has a boyfriend but gave me her snapchatThis is what I’m thinking just dont know how to convert because why is she still entertaining me | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 07:37 PM |
| -1 | Women said she has a boyfriend but gave me her snapchatJog on mate | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Women said she has a boyfriend but gave me her snapchatI’ve got the Snapchat I’ve been speaking to her on it | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Instant dates changed everything for meHow exactly do you insta date what do you say how long into the convo do you suggest it do you end having sex same day? | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Instant dates changed everything for memaybe because girls say everything is harassment | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Instant dates changed everything for meHow do you do this... elaborate ive never done this before lool. What do you mean cold approach then spontaneous first date | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Instant dates changed everything for mei like your responses you are a realist not no fairytale disney shit - your right women could genuinely not be able to instant date and you get her number and smash couple days later theres no one size fits all | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 01:51 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle getting no reply after you get the number?Lol what do you say after that when they respond | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 07:06 PM |
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