Ghosted

TheShearerComplex · 2018-04-18T17:43:56+00:00

Next her. There’s literally millions of other girls to talk to.

ImSweetness · 2018-04-18T17:49:37+00:00

Hey man believe me when I say I feel your pain. Chick ghosted me after 3 months of dating, it was all of a sudden too. The best thing you can do is move on and date other chicks, which would offset the neediness you once felt and help you have a sense of abundance. Which COULD attract her back but you need to treat it like it's done for good. It's been nearly 3 months since I got ghosted and I cut her off social media and whatnot, and I was literally thinking about her as I always do, but this chick I approached yesterday just texted me agreeing to a meetup with me..Now sure, there's a chance this one will flake, but it helped get my mind right by knowing that I can go out there, get a number, go on a date possibly, and meet other cool women.

Hope this helped. Getting ghosted sucks so bad but you gotta let it go. I should also note that I was angry towards her for just dropping me like I'm nobody, but in the end, like you, it was my own fault so forgive yourself, be thankful for what was, learn from this one, and move on to the next.

BozoCardozo · 2018-04-18T18:31:00+00:00

Live and learn. You came across as needy, so move on. Learn from the mistake.

If you're still wanting to get with the girl, maybe wait a 2-3 months and ask her out again, but definitely don't invest anything in it. Maybe around July, just a simple text midday saying something like "Hey, it's been awhile! Let's grab drinks this weekend at X place at Y time." If she accepts, awesome. Do better than this time. If she either doesn't answer or seems flaky, just delete the number and move on¹ .

^¹ ^{If she asks something about "who's this?" I wouldn't even bother answering. If she didn't save your number, she's not interested. You have too much value to chase someone who doesn't care enough about you to save your phone number. It's her unrealized loss.}

Kenic_In_MD · 2018-04-18T19:53:39+00:00

Ghosting is a part of the process. Just next her and keep looking. Ive lost count of the amount of girls that have ghosted me.

Title	Ghosted
Author	bojanglez34
Upvotes	3
Comments	13
Date	April 18, 2018 5:33 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8d7i5u/ghosted/
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