I met a girl(35) online and we've gone on 3 dates about 4 weeks ago. The first two I initiated. She initiated a third date with a text invitation to grab lunch on a Saturday. She's gone out of town twice which just really messed up my momentum. For some reason when I'm going out of town always seems to throw a wrench in the works and things usually fade.

I only text every few days and mostly just to set meetups.

I keep trying to schedule our dates where there is a high probability of me being able to get her into bed. She can't usually make those times what will counter-offer with meetups were hooking up is difficult if not impossible. (e.g. Race the next day, Early meeting )

Do you guys think she's deliberately doing this?

Should I not meet with her if I there is no chance of getting her to a bedroom?

Any suggestions for navigating this?