How do you hook and maintain conversation with a pair of women at a bar when solo?

WIA20XX · 2018-04-04T12:27:09+00:00

Let's say you're talking about who bit Beyonce's face or some other pop culture tidbit. Anne and Bertha. Whatever Bertha says, you turn to Anne and say

Is she always like this?

Turn the conversation away from neutral topics to their behavior and relationship. Never fails me.

Brostory_com · 2018-04-04T12:35:34+00:00

The key to talking to a group of girls is to relax and don't always feel to pressured to always talk. Once you can shake that award feeling of "I must be part of the convo/lead" and you can relax things will be smoother.

For example this weekend I talked to 3 American girls. They were old friends so a lot of convo I couldn't contribute at all (about their hometown etc), so I chilled, listened, made short comments and questions, laughed. Ended up being invited to dinner with them the next day.

Open the group, talk a bit then isolate someone (pref who you are attracted to).

terribleatgambling · 2018-04-04T15:48:24+00:00

also make sure to put slightly more attention into the less attractive of the two. this will throw them off their game since theyre used to it being the other way around, the lesser attractive one will be stoked and immediately like you, and the more attractive one will want your attention

IllStep · 2018-04-04T12:24:37+00:00

what does your open and teh first 2-3 minutes tend to look like, out of interest?

ramses_55 · 2018-04-04T14:42:44+00:00

Switch eye contact between them, this will make each one feel you are talking to her

Cos_7_ate_9 · 2018-04-04T15:50:22+00:00

It's easier to talk to two girls than one - Ask questions. Switch from girl to girl depending on who is interesting. The dynamic will become a competition for your attention since you are the one asking most of the questions. There are less awkward silences and if you say something stupid you just switch to the other girl and keep it flowing.

Mister-guy · 2018-04-04T16:14:10+00:00

Honestly, you shouldn't.

Chat for 2-3 mins (which you seem to have down), find a good reason to excuse yourself.

Keep having fun and talking to other ppl -- chicks def included.

Meet up with them a bit later in the night.

You'll come off as having a higher SMV this way, and have better luck.

yellowidiot314 · 2018-04-04T19:59:40+00:00

Usually one of the women is always sabotaging/cockblocking the conversation, unless the one you're hitting on is single and both seem to think ur a cool enough dude.

DinglerBerries · 2018-04-04T19:16:15+00:00

Talk about something interesting to you and it will be natural. Otherwise, it will just be boring as fuck listening to Tina and Tiffany talk about surface level shit; id rather swallow tide pods

garrypig · 2018-04-04T21:26:03+00:00

They’re drunk and like to talk. I generally am too drunk to talk so I just try to listen, nod my head and “mmhm” and then try to remember the last few words they said and be like “So where/what/why/how do you ____? Is ___ difficult/fun/ hot/etc?”

Become genuinely interested in the conversation, because when you ask things that dig deeper, they’ll ramble their mouth off and it’s pretty much effortless.

Be careful though, my ex was mad at me for zoning her out all the time. Try to retain some information.

Peter_B_Long · 2018-04-05T01:56:40+00:00

Maybe you don't have to maintain it. Once the conversation dies down, simply excuse yourself and go talk to other people.

Restricting your presence is a powerful tool in game and charisma. It shows that your presence is valuable.

tab13092 · 2018-04-05T20:37:55+00:00

My advice when talking with groups when you're solo is to always just ask/talk about things that are all around engaging.

Focus the topics of conversation on something that anyone can answer, and not just more specific things that only really relate to one person. That's about all I've got hah.

a4thpipeforsherlock · 2018-04-05T21:30:39+00:00

It's not terribly complex. I try to approach pairs or groups of women like I would if I met some dudes. You might be standing closer to one or see an item that catches your eye on that person. Comment. And then, play off of whoever responds.

Recently, I got Instagrams from two chicks visiting my city, Seattle, from Rochester, NY. I saw them near a jukebox and I fucking love jukeboxes. And they made some eye contact w me as I walked over. While trying to find songs, I motioned to them in an amused, exasperated way about how I didn't know many of the artists/songs. Invited them to look at the jukebox w me. Bingo. In.

Title	How do you hook and maintain conversation with a pair of women at a bar when solo?
Author	ImmodestPolitician
Upvotes	91
Comments	37
Date	April 4, 2018 12:12 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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