I feel like I've read so many PUA books and stuff, but when it comes to it, I still feel a little empty in terms of tangible advice (lots of the material focuses on 'inner game') in regards of what to do and say in set.

I don't feel that I have an 'edge' over my friends who have never heard of 'game' AT ALL - in fact, just last night one of my semi incel friends stole a girl from me as she was more into him than me (she said he was handsome and at then pretty much pulled HIM lol)

I didn't feel that any of my 'game' stuff was helping me like it's supposed too! I must be doing something wrong.

What things should we be concentrating on in terms of outergame when talking to girls. What things does someone who 'knows game' do that someone who doesn't know game doesn't do. (I always hear people say ''just learn game, bro!'' and I feel like I must have skipped the important pages in every PUA book I've read or something lol)