So in Juliens most recent feature "tenGame" he talks about being in the frame of giving value. How would you interact with someone if your job was to give them $100 Vs take $100?

He even goes so far as to say that you can ask the same question, and depending on how you ask it you are either "taking" value or "giving" value. My question is: how do you make that distinction? How do you ask the questions differently?

I've noticed his tonality is different, with his voice going up when taking and staying flat or going down when giving. What other unique characteristics are there?