Going out alone tonight, any tips?

seduction_thrwaway · 2021-04-01T20:58:18+00:00

After the first convo it's way less awkward

Don't be afraid to just sit and chill for a bit

overthinking_always9 · 2021-04-02T01:54:45+00:00

Just be you're self. Have drink or 2 and spark up conversation with people around you.

Comfortable_Moose794 · 2021-04-01T22:09:10+00:00

I would go to bars alone a lot. Met tons of people sitting at the bar chatting with bartenders and watching the tv behind them. People are also more likely to approach you when you’re alone. It’s such an adventure. Go to an area where you can bar hop on foot if possible. Maybe if one bar is crap just finish you drink and walk over to another. Seem approachable by making eye contact with people occasionally, keep a soft look on your face and keep the phone down. Watch the tv behind the bartender and engage them in conversation too. Wear your most flashy clothes, when someone wants to talk to you they will come by and stand beside you to order the drink. To break the ice you can comment on their drink choice. Or what they’re wearing. Always seem like a nice friendly, guy, initially you’re trying to prove “I’m not a rapist or a murderer”. You will be asked what are you doing alone, just say you got stood up and decided to come out anyway since you had the mindset.

benisBongis · 2021-04-01T21:42:29+00:00

I saw this really great post on here about social proof, here it is: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/mftimp/leverage_social_proof_while_going_out_alone/

Round_Ask_3064 · 2021-04-02T16:05:09+00:00

Sit at the bar...Don't look at or acknowledge any women that may be there.. The women will come to you. Women want what they can't have

Optymistyk · 2021-04-01T20:03:00+00:00

You probably won't listen to me but never go to the bar alone to pickup girls. What are you gonna do when you're not approaching? Awkwardly drink beer by yourself? Some girl asks you what you're even doing there, what will you do? That's not confident, that's being tryhard

Either go with a friend or stay home. Or if you want to go alone just focus on meeting people and making new friends.

Title	Going out alone tonight, any tips?
Author	calisurfer101
Upvotes	14
Comments	16
Date	April 1, 2021 7:53 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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