Going to Bars Alone

AFSundevil · 2015-08-14T19:41:13+00:00

I don't have any advice for you Kikomachaca, I'm in the same boat. Just marking this thread to see if you get any advice. Goodluck out there soldier. I'll be going out this weekend alone, if I uncover and tips I'll let you know.

cmiovino · 2015-08-14T20:28:09+00:00

I used to go out alone a lot. Biggest thing is acting like your having fun... or rather, actually having fun.

Think about how easy it is to talk to people or run game when you're with your bros, or friends, laughing, dancing, and having a good time. Now think of you alone, thinking all eyes are on you, sitting at the bar, looking for someone to talk to. Totally different vibe.

Literally, they shouldn't be able to tell if you're there alone or not. I do drink, just 1-2 to get started. Then talk to everyone. Ask how people's night are going, dudes, girls, whatever. This gets you talking and you might make some friends. Then jump off of those interactions.

Sorry, so specific Houston advice!

tehwolfs · 2015-08-14T21:18:15+00:00

dude your from Houston? let's go to the galleria and pick some chicks up

stayunplugdmyfriends · 2015-08-15T00:35:19+00:00

I will tell you that in the times I've gone out alone, I almost had a better time than with friends. I love meeting and learning about people so my actual interest in folks helps them be comfortable and get convo going. Guys and girls alike.

Go in. Have fun and if you aren't, play it like you are. Just talk to people. If you're intent is to get laid, most girls will smell right through it. Be interested, escalate with kino, lead her around, go outside, escalate, kiss, go back in, that ego and test boost will actually charge you up, run off that. Fun fun fun with girls, then number/back to my place.

Good luck. I finally got my fire department guys to come out so it's my first night out in a while with actual people I know. I will not fall back on them and rather use it as an absolute backup if I get totally rejected. I'll laugh it off go back with bros and laugh. And this has gotten me a hookup in the past. They don't like a lack of expected reaction. They want you to be upset about it. Instead just shake it off off off.

omziraal · 2015-08-15T04:29:17+00:00

I went to a bar alone once, I mean, I had friends earlier in the night but we all kind of split to meet up later. In the bar it was great, I didn't have any alcohol in me yet when I walked around people would talk to me, make small talk and when I saw that I started to do the same. I'd go up to someone and say "Hey man, how's your night going?" and we'd just talk about small shit. Doing it to a girl isn't much different, just got to add a flirty vibe to it. "Hey, thought you were cute so I wanted to talk to you. How's it going?" and then it flows, if not, don't make it complicated, don't even think about it, just go on to the next person.

boner-zone · 2015-08-15T09:47:51+00:00

I was the same when I was 21 and in 10 years from now the next generation will be too. It all boils down to you don't yet know what is possible and what you're capable of. It's a combination of confidence (not readily available to even the most dashing youngster) and experience. Stay out there, fail, suceed, have fun. You'll get it yet. Think about learning to drive stick, versus your parents knowing how to drive. Think about being the new person at work, vs the guy that's been working there for 2 years and knows everything.

noiwontdance · 2015-08-14T20:27:21+00:00

From my vast experience with women, I cannot reccomend negging more. It seems like you're a very nice guy which can be both a pro and a con. Try switching up your game a bit and be a little meaner and more rugged. By using negging, women feel the need to obtain your approval by having sex with you. If your game isn't going as well as you like, try calling her gay. Not only will this shock her and urge her to have sex with you, but will also obtain the attention of nearby women.

Also, I used to live around Houston. JR'S Bar and Grill is a great location for local singles. I landed 8 or 9 women there alone.

If you have any more questions PM me.

Title	Going to Bars Alone
Author	Kikomachaca
Upvotes	17
Comments	20
Date	August 14, 2015 6:48 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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