Got ghosted after being called a fuckboy

DontTakePeopleSrsly · 2022-01-18T20:14:12+00:00

She thinks you’re playing with her emotions by not replying back in a timely manner. Girl is a virgin and hasn’t dated since she was 15. Her idealism is sky high due to lack of experience.

You need to learn to match a girls energy. If she replies right away, you reply right away. If she takes an hour, you take about an hour.

MegaManXanax · 2022-01-18T21:24:42+00:00

Not everything is a shit test

throwaway908456 · 2022-01-18T20:13:13+00:00

She got mad you wasn’t giving her attention, just tell her you was busy and follow up

Felixisnext · 2022-01-18T20:42:26+00:00

You know who you are and she doesn’t seem to know you very well. Although you agreed jokingly that you were a fuckboy, especially over text, of course she’s gonna leave you on read. She’s a virgin, she’s obviously gonna find that repulsive. From her perspective she’s dodging a bullet because you’re “playing games”. Honestly dawg, u lowkey fumbled it with joking about being a fuckboy.

Recovery time: just be real with her, chemistry is not shown through texts which causes a lot of miscommunication. I’m sure if you would’ve jokingly said you’re a fuckboy in person she’d obviously tell your sarcastic and joking about it if said right (with tone)

If you wanna keep “playing the game”, stay real and send her something along the lines (preferably a gif or meme), that says “ haven’t heard from you in a while, hope you’re doing well. “. Show empathy, if she doesn’t reciprocate then you have a clear answer of if she still cares to fw you or not. Follow up

ActuallyMy · 2022-01-18T22:00:32+00:00

Aight, everything in this thread is wrong. This girl is going to be high maintenance and needy af. You need to decide if you’re going to invest as much as she is. If you want something more casual, find another girl. If you’re want something more serious , you need to set up dates consistently. This will give her peace of mind knowing you’re invested if she will at least see you in person. She will probably then be OK texting less in this case.

Dresthegiant · 2022-01-18T19:54:19+00:00

You like her? Reach out and yeah invest more via texts. You gotta give to get. everyone is busy, you think she is just brushing her hair all day and having pillow fights at night? Sounds like she made the efforts to text you, she sounds interested. Reach out and make adjustments for her if you like her.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-18T21:38:10+00:00

Send her this message: "Hi XXx, I can't stop thinking about you. I want to see you this Thursday or Friday night."

RedPill115 · 2022-01-20T00:47:06+00:00

She started texting me everyday after the date and investing a lot via text

Dunno, honestly, whenever I see this pattern I've just started bailing, because it always blows up.

1. The person doing the texting reaches this freakout point. Their brain is trying to create emotional connection via something that is impossible to connect emotionally over, at some point their brain starts freaking out at the disconnect.

2. Or, the person sending the texts starts dominating the receivers time, which causes them to act like a sociopath (demanding attention and being completely oblivious to when it screws you over), until the receiver freaks out and blocks them.

I'm not saying this is true of all texting - I'm just talking about when there's a lack of emotional connection in person - then a push for it via text after you've left.

Title	Got ghosted after being called a fuckboy
Author	Mother-Patience3033
Upvotes	3
Comments	21
Date	January 18, 2022 7:48 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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