Guys, I need some help

ass_blunts · 2019-05-01T15:34:56+00:00

It sounds like you're doing everything right. Except for doubting yourself. Follow up with a "hey had a good time last night - let's get together again next week!" that's the only way you'll know if she's actually not interested. Don't doubt yourself. Women are pretty flaky, so even if she is not interested, you've gained more dating experience you can apply to the next one. I go on a date with a new girl once a week, often more. Just keep applying the steps. You're not going to convert every time.

quinnmcd · 2019-05-01T13:38:32+00:00

Did you escalate? Did you let her do the most of the talking in the date? Did you empathize how much y’all have in common? Where you intentions clear and what you wanted to do?

The best thing that started doing to get second dates is giving them memorable first date. I rarely got second dates after going out to eat, going to the movies and other overdone dates. Once I started taking girls dancing, to the arcade and to concerts for a girl date I usually got a second date. Make activities for your dates. You don’t have to talk all the time, because you’re doing something most of the time, it also gives your opportunities to tease them, touch them and have fun.

Don’t put pressure on yourself, realize that either it work or it won’t. The end of your post makes it seems like you’re desperate. Women and tell when you’re desperate. Understanding that you just may not be their type is important. Chemistry is more complex than we realize. It can be also he fabricated to an extent.

SafetyChild105 · 2019-05-02T10:07:33+00:00

Bro you may not be smooth enough, or you didn’t make your intentions known. Usually these things go hand in hand. You want to be smooth/seductive to the girl, but still show a little human side don’t be a smooth robot, but don’t be her dancing monkey. Making your Intentions know is kinda hard to do it subtly, but I’ll try to give you some pointer. Visualize having good sex with her, where she’s enjoys it. Try to express that through the eye. I noticed girls take way more interest in me when I sharpen my eye like a I have a fuck the world or judgey look. This is great for having girls interested in you, but can be to strong all the time. So lighten it up with a smirk and make sure it is subtle or soften the glare a little bit. I now do this just by habit and I will have girls just giggle at me for no reason and then realize I’m doing it. Also if she say something that is kinda sexual, just repeat it back to her with a slow voice and the seductive look. Or just look at her and say oh really(or some shit like that). Have open body language just don’t be that guy that spread his legs everywhere and spreads his arms out. Just be normal and chill. Language is a pretty new concept in our history/evolution and most of seduction is facial expressions and body language, with a subtle amount tone of voice.

Words are more complex, you have to feel the intent behind every word or they don’t work. I saw this girl getting surrounded by a bunch of guys at a party. I went up to her talked stronger than them(remember I’m short) and just ignored them and chatted her up. I had my intention showing in my face most of the time. I fucked her from saying shit like, oh so you are smart maybe we should study some time, I wonder what we will study though? Do you know? I turned a conversation about school sexual quickly, but not to bluntly with just a bit of word play and a look of desire. I also said hey you can teach me stuff and I can teach you stuff. This shit is so dumb sounding now that I look back on it but it worked. It’s all about intention, but also know where you are at. This was at a party, but in class I would t go this hard. I would just give them that smug look and that deep eye contact.

Tease her a little bit, like you would as a child. They love that shit it’s playful just don’t say something uncalibrated.

Lead them into the right answer. If you want to girl that’s fun make her guide herself into being that fun person. I will ask are you adventuress because I get the feeling that your a stay at home book worm. They say some shit and you tease them. If she says yes I will say something like well let’s play a game, but make her agree with it before she knows that game to prove that she is adventurous. Depending on how you feel you can go with a risky game like the ice passing game or a simple game like would you rather but tease her for her answers. If she says she not adventurous tell her oh shit I was thinking this could work, but I guess it’s just not meant to be, because I only like girls with a little wild side to them. Either way you make her give you answer you can play with to some extent, but you have to get used to this and practice.

Also use words that kinda sound gay, like naughty and kinky. I hate for myself saying it, but using words with some slight sexual undertones work.

It really works bro, I’m an average looking guy that’s short as fuck and this shit works. I’m also dyslexic and didn’t learn to talk properly until 6th grade. So my communication skill are lacking.

I can explain more, but usually this is what most guys like in practical skill. So you need make your intentions know or she will talk to you like you’re one of the girls or she will think oh he’s not taking steps so he’s not interested in me; and sometimes when they think he’s not interested in me they can become closed off, because they have weak egos and have to protect themselves. Kinda like the fox and the sour grapes(he can’t reach the grapes so they must be sour anyways).

I’m addied out and went on a rant. I reread it and edited it.

Title	Guys, I need some help
Author	Omega_322
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	May 1, 2019 12:41 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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