Guys with high lay counts - any advice?

Cody_Silver · 2019-07-25T04:45:05+00:00

Use the 80/20 rule and your process. Keep metrics, note succes and failure, and adjust process.

Let’s say you have an 80% success rate on a 4 step process at each step: asking for date, 1st date, 2nd date, and 3rd date with lay. Let’s also say you need a week to go on 3 dates. Your target is 9.

3rd Date: 9 is 80% of 11 2nd Date: 11 is 80% of 14 1st Date: 14 is 80% of 18 Ask out: 18 is 80% of 23

So, with this simple model you need to ask out 23 girls by Christmas.

Your results will vary. Maybe 90% of girls you ask out might say yes, but only 70% will go on a second date with you.

I used to further break out each step by category, cheerleaders have 90% conversion on 3rd date, drill team girls have 98% conversion, date to state park had 97.3 % conversion where rom/com movies had 78% conversion.

I never did any PUA stuff, just “Hi, how are you”.

Advanced class: target a pack of girls you would like to lay, get with Alpha girl, when you tire of her, hit on all her friends in one weekend, some will convert just to feel as pretty as their leader. If you are really lucky, you can watch some awesome cat fights at parties.

Using this process, my count was over 110 by fall quarter on my senior year of high school. Granted, it was the 1980s, before aids, and before women wanted to become men.

jimmiepop · 2019-07-25T01:52:23+00:00

Logistics First
Build a System
Set Activity Goals (vs. lay goals)
Post Activity & Field Reports

13ananaMan · 2019-07-25T01:51:19+00:00

What's your #? Mine's not that high but I've been with 9 girls since January

Haytch1234 · 2019-09-14T00:47:57+00:00

As cliche as it sounds confidence does matter alot. Confidence in yourself and having frame stronger than a girl. But also treat every approach as learning- It will help with rejection and outcome independence.

Approach. Keep interactions short and dont drag for too long. Ask her out and set up a date - which will lead to getting the number but also have her commit to seeing you. I found just asking for numbers from girls never worked. Its like they thought I was just collecting numbers and they dont mean shit.

Go on the date. Somewhere low stress. Like a quiet bar . Dont spend alot. Sit next to her or be next to her rather than across her so you can actually touch her.

Keep the talk light hearted . Come across as fun but dont expose too much. You need to come across as a grade A fuckboy if its purely sex you are after.

Dont flaunt your money or achievements. You can compliment her but dont over do it. Just enough.

I personally used to end alot of these dates with " So are we going to hang out at your place afterwards"?. And it worked everytime 😂.

But key thing is confidence. Communication is 90% body language and tone. You can say dumb shit but its the confidence women pick up on.

For reference Im 27 and lay count of 42. I dont know if its alot but its come to the point where Im bored of it all.

blakejsocial · 2019-07-25T02:33:49+00:00

Hey, I just made a post that might help you.

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/chhrfy/part_1_of_2_how_i_overcome_aa_and_became_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x

Title	Guys with high lay counts - any advice?
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