Recently became exclusive fwb with this girl I’ve been on and off with for a couple months. She only agreed when I made it clear I didn’t expect anything long term as she didn’t want anything serious.

However, I may have shot myself in the foot because now I can’t help being needy given that I can only hit up her and only her for sex.

As soon as we had the above conversation, I dropped her off and asked if I can see her again that night, she replied maybe. So I call her that afternoon, no reply, call her again after an hour, she says she was napping and might go hang out with friends. I say I’ll pick her up after just let me know when she is done, she says ok. 11pm rolls around, no response from her. So I call her, turns out she felt sick so stayed home, I was like, you should’ve told me so I wasn’t waiting for you, she’s like ok, so I’m like, when can I see you then, she says how about tm, so we plan for that.

Next day, get a text from her in the morning, she’s canceling because she still feels sick and she’s going to the doctor. I ask her to call me afterwards. She does and after chatting a bit, I mention how she’s been kinda leading me on with the meetups, she says let’s talk about it later and she’ll call me later in the day. She doesn’t. That was yesterday.

I was going to let her chill for a bit today but I couldn’t resist and texted her this morning to check in and asked her to call me. I know I can’t expect all her time or for her to always be available, but is it reasonable to expect her to communicate with me in a consistent and timely manner?

I feel like I did too much though, how can I recover from this?

It was fine before, when I was seeing other people as I would hit her up maybe 2-3 times a week and it was ok getting a reply from her 12-24 hours later and she’s usually always down to actually meet up but now I’m feeling a lot more needy and invested in her responses.

This shit has been consuming my day and I can’t focus on anything else.