So I would consider myself a late bloomer, as I just recently started dating [19M]. I've mainly been using Tinder to go on these dates and in the past 2 months ive been on around 8 dates.

My issue is, with certain girls I do a much better job on the date than with other girls. For example, with some girls I feel intimidated, my jokes aren't as funny, I am scared to initiate any kino, and I feel like I don't know what to say a lot of the time. But with other girls, like a date I went on recently, I feel like I am in control, I am making her laugh, I am coming up with funny puns or stories on the spot, we are goofing off together, I initiate hand holding, kissing, etc, and I am even talking with confidence to random strangers like the barista. But I'd say with 70% of the girls im the complete opposite, I am boring to be with.

Is this just a compatibility issue or is it an issue with me? What are some ways I can fix this issue? Any help would be appreciated.