Having trouble pulling and closing

brjohns994 · 2012-08-25T04:01:31+00:00

Get a wingman. A solid wingman.

tonylstewart · 2012-08-25T10:38:34+00:00

Don't worry about 'isolation' at a college house parties. I studied PUA shit in college and isolation is not very effective in the college environment. If these girls came together, there is a good chance they are leaving together, but no worries. Because they usually just make sure they end back at their respective places. After that, game time. Instead of trying to go straight for the f-close, go for the number close.

After you have her number, continue to interact with her til she leaves with her friends or the party is busted, etc. Wait about 30mins and send her funny a text that indicates you are along, and not going to sleep for awhile "Bro just threw up outside of Taco Bell, I'm dropping this guy off and netflixing the night away, what u up 2?"

You're going to have 1 of 3 responses:

1) A DTF (Down to Fuck) response that indicates she's still trying to party, not sleepy, bored, or stuck somewhere. From here it's all about the logistics of getting her to your place. If you don't want to be direct about hooking up, just say something about Netflix or a movie, they know what that means, but can play innocent.

2) On the border response that would use words like 'might' 'maybe' 'idk' like "I might be going to sleep." "Idk where we're going". From here you still have some work to do. If your phone game is solid, you can convince her to come over, but be careful. The fact that she is texting you back indicates she has some interest so if you try to push it on the first night you could fuck up an easy lay on another night.

3) No response. Nothing you can do it about that. Next time you see her just ignore her, but be social like you never met her. It will bug her. If she calls you out on it, just tell her to calm down, it's college and you meet a bunch of people.

RAZKAZ · 2012-08-25T06:21:12+00:00

How I've figured is at some point you need to make a take it or leave it deal and be ready for whatever the outcome may be. Sometimes it will work in your favor and other times not. Just do your best to build up for the moment as much as possible by allowing her to have one of the best times in her life. Keep in mind it's all about mutual fun and not just your own.

Title	Having trouble pulling and closing
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Date	August 25, 2012 2:57 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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