Hello /seduction

Looking for some advice on what to do. Here is my current (hopefully unbiased) situation:

  • 25 years old, living at home (back to school, I will be graduating in May).

  • 6'1, 210lbs (ripped), decent hairline, hit the gym daily (I am in absolutely world-class shape currently).

  • 100% FA. Never been kissed. 1 Lay (prostitute). Zero friends. Zero social life.

  • Never been to a bar or club or participated in any form of nightlife.

  • Currently my life is mostly work/school/gym. Any free-time I have is unfortunately devoted to video games.

  • No transportation. I have a race-prepped s2000 from my previous life that I will probably have street legal by Feb. or so (depending on $), and a zx6r (motorcycle) that I have stored away a month ago, so currently it is bus or bust.

  • Had one 'girlfriend' when I was 19 who basically threw herself at me but I ended up getting her to fuck off (combination of me being a pussy and not seeing the point)

What I have done so far:

  • Had my (popular/fashionable) cousin pick out some clothes for me. I honestly used to look like a homeless guy compared to how I look now, and they make me feel good/confident as well. Also they really show off my body.

  • Tried to actively get a social life through my classmates. Unfortunately I go to an engineering school and many of the people I interact with are 4+ years younger than me and usually not very interested in doing anything besides 'nerd stuff' (aka gaming, LoL, DnD, Magic the Gathering, etc.). This is not getting me the results I want. The few that do go out don't seem to want to do anything with me. This may be simply due to very long distances (I commute from 35 miles away).

  • Started talking to people more. I have zero problems shooting the shit with most people.

  • Actually asked out several girls (6.5/10+ PUA standards) and they all said yes. I bailed on them due to me being a pussy.

  • Started getting back into kick-boxing (being good at this as a teen probably is what spared me from self-esteem issues now) and intramural sports.

  • Got a prostitute. Ended up lasting 50 mins or so and she ended up giving me some tips and didn't seem too depressed about fucking me. Don't feel any different and will probably do it again soon.

My (I am rather introspective) issues:

  • Aggressive/Callous personality & I cannot distinguish social limits. I routinely find myself preying on the weaker (I have a disproportionately large ego for a 25 year old who has done nothing in life, and think just about 99% of people I meet are weaker than me in some way....something else I am trying to work on) in social situations, usually with cruel jokes (picking on someone who is a little fat, or who has bad teeth, or whatever). It is basically impossible to offend me and I often forget that other people are much more sensitive than I am. I have been called an asshole on more than one occasion and have heard "How haven't you gotten your ass kicked yet" on several occasions from sober people. This doesn't bother me at all personally, but it is likely hindering my goals.

  • Boring as fuck. I would talk to women but where would I invite them. I am a bore. I have no life (as previously mentioned). I don't have any friends that I could talk about. I am also a piss-poor story-teller. Due to my personality I am unable to obtain friendships.

  • Too competitive. Everything is a competition for me. I am actively working on not being so tightly wound about everything and just having fun but it is difficult for me and I am not seeing much progress even after many months. One of the things that attracts me to (online) gaming is being able to dominate other players / gloat in my 'superiority'. It sounds silly & pathetic but it is what it is, and while my improvement may be minimal I am slowly mellowing out.

  • I cannot connect with people. I legitimately feel like I do not give a fuck about anyone. This is not a new issue from years of virgin brooding, but it is a way I have always felt. In H.S. I had everything needed to be a popular guy getting all the girls, but I ended up being a loner/loser, as I did not care about anything. I have gone 'out' a handful of times in the past 8 or so years and never really enjoyed it. A month ago I went out with my mother and I looked around at the people my age having a good time at the restaurant we were in and all I could think of was how I would rather be at the gym or dong something productive/'ego-stroking'.

  • Some insecurity about lack of social life/friends. I think I am getting over this and when I am asked about anything regarding this I just answer honestly. (Someone: "Why don't you have a FB?" Response: "Because I don't have any friends to put on there and it would look pathetic").

  • Inability to "relax & enjoy life". Goes together with inability to connect with people and being too competitive. I always need a goal to pursue. While this has helped in my professional, academic, and fitness goals it is not something that is very attractive to women.

What I am looking for:

What should I do now? I feel I have gone as far as I can by 'self-diagnosis' and self-improvement, and now I need some exterior opinions on what to do.

I am about as happy with my life as someone who in my situation (works, lives with parents, still in school at 25) could be, have a good routine going, and am genuinely rather happy in life. I have had a rather dark past and my life today is 180 degrees from where I was just three years ago. My one issue is not knowing how to continue in order to make another 180 degree (yes, I know) change and have the life I truly want by the time I graduate (May '14....already have multiple very lucrative job offers and will only get more), which is the one some of you seem to be living. Multiple FWBs, lots of young pussy, and to be desired by women everywhere.

If this belongs in /askseddit I apologize. I don't think this is your typical FA "nice-guy" whine post, so I hope that it will belong here.

Any advice is appreciated.