Hey guys, as I've been scouring this sub, I've become amazed at some of the great feedback here from an awesome community and wanted to throw a few situations I'm in out.

-Background, I'm 24, 7ish/10, fit, dated a ton of women, but am in 2 peculiar situations in which I don't have a plan and wanted help:

  • One situation is a girl that I've been interacting with on social media for over a year. We follow and like each others posts on snap, twitter and IG and interact in DM's on occasion. Never constant but I've said she's my twin and she agreed.

  • Now I normally wouldn't care enough to have to make a post out of it, but I never have asked her out and am plotting ways to right now. I usually DM dive for girls I'm just trying to smash, but I definitely have a crush on her as she has all of the same interests and is my taste and see her as relationship material.

  • My original thought process was to wait until the summer to ask her to go to a concert that we both share interest in, or marathon or beach invite. That would be the best way to go, right? My issue is I'm unsure if she sees me as a friend or someone she would go on a date with as we've never met.

Another completely different situation with a different girl: I worked with a girl last week for the first time. I flirted with her and she responded by laughing at most of my jokes and got her IG before we left to see if she was single (she was). I normally would wait a few weeks to ask out, but she lives in a dorm and goes back home in May. We're not on schedule together the rest of the month. Should I DM dive now to ask her out or wait until next month?

Thank you guy so much. Love the fraternity here.