Hey guys, so briefing..

  • met a girl on tinder, took her for coffee. date went really well. i've been on over 60+ dates with women so I know when a date goes good/bad. after the date, we both texted briefly that we had a really good time, and during she said she wanted to see me again.

  • i ask her what her schedule looks like next week. she says that she's busy until january. (this was about 10 days ago)

  • i text her what days i'm free this week and don't receive a response.

  • here's where it gets interesting. I've read Mark Manson's models and it says to ask a girl--

"hey xxx, let me know when you'd like to meet again. If you're not interested, that's fine too." So I respond with that today. (so this was my 2nd text.)

She responds:

  • "hey happy new years!!

  • I got a new phone and didn't transfer contacts so I didn't get a chance to answer, but i've been super busy at work and had a really good time talking with you

  • just have so much going on right now

in 3 texts, so I respond,

  • "hey no problem, i understand how hard hard your job is (as i have a similar position), let me know what night you're free this week."

and she left me on read about an hour ago.

Not sure what to do at this point. I usually know what I'm doing, but this time I feel confused because she initiates interest, but may just be a terrible texter.

  • (disclaimer, prior to our date, she took long to text back or had to send a second text a day later, so she may just be a bad texter)

  • should I follow up with another text in a day? She shows interest, but seems very busy. So I'm unsure if it's unreceptive or not. I'm 23/m 7.7/10 and am very experienced with women so this is a weird situation for me. Thanks in advance guys.