I read a while back how to get a girl back in 30 days. It included a special cut off letter designed to royally fuck with the girls head to get her to stop her shit and turn things around for the better. It worked once. I would like to try it again but better this time... now that my financial state is better I can actually make a fully fledged go at it instead of the shitty time I had being unemployed.

So here is an excerpt of what he says:

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  1. The overall goal of your note is to display calmness. When your ex-girlfriend finds out how calm you are now about the breakup, it will throw her off.

  2. Avoid writing anything clingy or whiny. You want to make it sound like you're cool with the situation as it is now, and she has no effect on you anymore. (You're no longer an unattractive beta male.)

  3. Also make sure the letter is not argumentative and doesn't blame her for what happened. Remember: you want her to think you're cool with the break up now. You want her to wonder what's changed and what's going on with you. Arouse her curiosity.

  4. Write the note fast and keep it brief, definitely no more than a page. Although you want the note to be legible, make it appear you scribbled it in a hurry because you didn't put a lot of effort into it.

  5. Tell her you agree with her decision to break up with you.

  6. Make a comment about how you think she's an amazing woman but you've realized she's still really young and not ready for a relationship, and that your mistake was in believing she was ready. (IF she's older, drop the "really young" part and just say "not ready".)

  7. If you did something bad, like lied to her or cheated on her to make her dump you, briefly apologize for it and explain how specifically you would avoid ever doing it again. (If you didn't do anything like that, however, then don't apologize. An alpha male only apologizes when there is something to apologize for.)

  8. Tell her something big and exciting just happened in your life, and that you'll need to tell her about it sometime.

  9. Tell her that for now, you're giving her some time for herself.

  10. Close the note by saying, "Maybe we can at least be friends again at some point."

  11. Leave the door open for friendship and don't say anything permanent like "We're through." Don't allow your ex to let go of you completely. Giving her hope that you can change and the two of you can pan out will prevent her from moving on and becoming happy in her new life.

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So far what I have is this...

"I just wanted to let you know that we are broken up and I agree with that. I have something big and exciting things that are going on in my life recently, and I need to tell you about it sometime. You are an amazing woman but I don't think you were ready for a committed relationship. For now, I am going to give you some time for yourself, but maybe we can become friends again sometime in the future when you are ready. I will send money for the kids things and will want to see them in a few weeks. Give them hugs and kisses from me."

Help me craft that into a thing of beauty would ya. Thanks guys you rock.