Help me! What should I reply?

hoovedruid · 2019-07-04T15:09:32+00:00

If they are that lazy, not worth the effort. Move on.

philsmock · 2019-07-04T15:31:32+00:00

Just say "Na. I'm also lazy" and don't write again unless she does and does it in a more polite way

bittr_n_swt · 2019-07-04T19:28:53+00:00

1) she declined whatsapp so said Instagram hence wants followers

2) she couldn’t be asked to search you up. You’re not a priority and she doesn’t care

3) if you get a date with her and she turns up, I will give you 5 GOLD and 5 SILVER and eat my shoe

fndmb2bruh · 2019-07-04T15:39:43+00:00

The best reply is no reply.

Kiminski42 · 2019-07-04T15:11:16+00:00

Move on

its_going_down_ · 2019-07-04T16:35:57+00:00

Stop wasting your time and start having some standards

2019-07-04T16:32:02+00:00

She just wants IG followers

2019-07-04T15:07:24+00:00

Fuck her. If she’s too lazy to chat, do you honestly want to deal with that?

kikalovernik · 2019-07-04T15:26:51+00:00

"Its hard to find some basic bitch on instagram. You all look the same and love to travel"

guimafelipe · 2019-07-04T15:16:55+00:00

Wtf.

ak47demiks · 2019-07-04T16:55:38+00:00

Boys... she’s just playing, she’s not really lazy.

PM_dirty_pictures · 2019-07-04T16:32:08+00:00

Nothing. She's being very rude.

Amplifix · 2019-07-04T21:08:47+00:00

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JuelzyT · 2019-07-04T18:21:09+00:00

Who here also feels he won't take any of this spot on advice??

2019-07-04T15:45:09+00:00

"Oh ummm...okay" In person is fine

Through text there's no need to type that out. Next time just give your insta or ask for hers without the filler words

MBSCinsight · 2019-07-04T19:19:11+00:00

This one is SUPER EASY!!! Listen All you have to do is... MOVE THE FUCK ON!!

Don't chase anyone! If a girl tries to make you work hard work less! and start looking for other options.

DerFluesterer · 2019-07-04T20:25:12+00:00

Post her some page of an old dude and ask if it's her.

jamiechambers21 · 2019-07-04T17:13:09+00:00

Send your Instagram again. Then tell her to find you when she's not feeling lazy

Sexnovice · 2019-07-04T18:31:51+00:00

LOL “bye.”

-lighght- · 2019-07-04T18:56:21+00:00

Ditch her

RickyRP · 2019-07-04T20:12:04+00:00

I wouldn’t reply to this and neither should you

kraakhead_ · 2019-07-04T20:57:19+00:00

reply with ‘ nah , i have standards ‘

2019-07-04T21:08:33+00:00

Ignore her. Waste of time. She's putting in zero effort on her part to continue the communication.

U_Gunna_Eat_That · 2019-07-04T22:14:24+00:00

When I get responses like this I like to reply with "Ew" or "ohh you're one of those people" and then ghost

SlowCivicSi · 2019-07-04T23:06:19+00:00

Call her a stupid scumbag idiot

ClutchCrawford · 2019-07-04T23:51:10+00:00

I will find you and I will kill you.

KindnessWins · 2019-07-05T00:21:33+00:00

Type this "You sound like an insecure dumbfuck who plays mindgames to satiate a broken ego. Prove me wrong and send me your number. I'll text you :) "

2019-07-04T16:58:41+00:00

This girl is not interested in you and is only stringing you along for attention

hotshot117 · 2019-07-04T18:07:54+00:00

Just give no reply srs

Anything else might let you look desperate or pissed off

Just nothing is good

Apocolypse_Meow · 2019-07-04T17:06:00+00:00

She is playing with you. She doesn't always have to stroke your ego. Say something playful back. It's not that serious. Or fucking find her dude. How bad do you want this girl??

2019-07-04T19:12:53+00:00

2019-07-04T19:40:59+00:00

I agree with 'nah I'm lazy too'

she's probably an Instagram whore.

luismanson · 2019-07-04T20:51:11+00:00

Looks like:

a_ just looking for more followers

b_ not interested / wants to stalk you before

2019-07-04T21:06:56+00:00

Def forget it w her unless she shows greater interest

SexlessNights · 2019-07-04T22:03:40+00:00

“Not worth it”

amrit21chandi · 2019-07-04T22:19:44+00:00

Reply: hey, high-5 cuz i'm la........

2019-07-04T22:41:56+00:00

Seems like she’s not really all that invested or interested.

ZbrrZbrr · 2019-07-04T23:12:47+00:00

"I'll pass then", or something similar. Either she starts respecting you if she cares, or she will act all bitchy about it, or just ghost you.

In only one of these reactions she has value, your next answer will filter whether she has value or not.

SpinPlates · 2019-07-05T00:01:02+00:00

What a snobby bitch. I would block her immediately.

Stop and think about this. She's too lszy to send you her @, you really think she's going to leave the house a meet up with you?

She is clearly not attracted to you and is just bored. Move on.

StunnaShaq · 2019-07-05T00:06:04+00:00

Don't ever text her again

ILoveLeague · 2019-07-05T00:12:13+00:00

It happend the same thing with me last week. I tryed to talk to her but all of her answers were : 'yes', 'no', 'lol', ... you know those short answers. Then I made fun of her because of those answers, which she replied that she was lazy and she usually doesn't use the Happn App and asked me to follow her on Instagram, then the same excuse and she sent me her WhatsApp. It happend the same thing, short answers.

I ended up saying to her that "If you're not going to answer me properly/develop the conversation just because you're lazy then bye, I'm not going to lose my time.". She replied saying 'sorry' and tryed to blame me by saying 'if you don't want to talk with me then it's ok'. I was like "what!? Really?! "

2019-07-05T00:42:42+00:00

Move on but if you want to have fun, make her qualify herself. Even if she does qualify herself, put her last in line when it comes to priority.

PrimordialXY · 2019-07-04T15:07:40+00:00

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scratchyNutz · 2019-07-04T15:32:37+00:00

"Fuck off, you useless waste of time"

WildinCuzImYoung · 2019-07-04T17:37:43+00:00

"I do not negotiate with hoes"

blockboypolo · 2019-07-04T17:58:40+00:00

homie dude you are the male. at first you shoulda made the choice on what app it should go and second you just just said “i’ll pass” because you aren’t her fan and have better things to do than look her up if anything she should be looking you up

kaashir · 2019-07-04T18:10:32+00:00

“Nah. Thanks. I’m good.”

2019-07-04T18:37:34+00:00

“Damn, and here I thought you wasn’t like them”

kurdishboy47 · 2019-07-04T15:58:12+00:00

"I aint gon do all that now"

darth_pateius · 2019-07-04T16:52:47+00:00

"don't think I will"

jdcodring · 2019-07-04T19:50:28+00:00

Indulge her and see where it goes. Despite all the people telling you to drop it there’s no point. Your not signing away your first born child. Respond with some witty such as “should be easy to find such an amazing girl as yourself”.

Title	Help me! What should I reply?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	82
Comments	62
Date	July 4, 2019 2:59 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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