I'm hesitant to post my own examples as I know that this sub has a bad issue with 'hindsight bias' lol - By that, I mean that I could post a convo example from an infield by an amazing PUA that lead too a lay, but if I told you it was my convo and that the girl walked away, you'd all be like ''You bored her! Never ask a girl that bla bla bla''
Or I could post a bad interaction and tell you I got laid and you'd reply ''Yep. Good game. Verbals were on point!'' lol
Anyway, issue i'm having recently is that i'm struggling to think of what to say and to get a fun, engaging convo going with girls in bars who i've just opened.
I ask the usual things name/age/where from. I try to make some assumptions and cold reads about what they do for work. I make any observation that stand out (IF any actually do!). Ask what they do for fun etc.
But it seems that I kind of 'run out' of topics very soon, and unless the girl thinks you're a Greek God, she will tend to walk away the second that you are out of ammo lol. Not that I can never hook, but often I open and do that stuff, and I feel like she's waiting for me to say the most hilarious, interesting thing she's ever heard before she really contributes/engages, and i'm wracking my brains afterwards wondering what I could have said!
For those of you with good night game cold approach success, How do convos look for you? topics etc. Even some examples might be useful to the sub.
I know some people say 'talk about exciting stuff' but when pushed, they never seem able to give examples (hit 'n' run posters lol). Am I supposed to ask if she's ever been sky-diving or what the most exciting thing she has ever done is within 5 seconds of meeting her? I think that'd look a bit autistic. but that seems to be what some recommend
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