Here's an interesting question. How should your opening game be played differently if you think you're potentially going to date a girl, rather than just try to hook up once or twice. Should it be different at all?

gozarthegozarian · 2011-10-07T18:58:28+00:00

Basically if you are going to just hook up in your mind that means that either you think she is lower on your scale in terms of looks or she has a personality flaw that you are willing to overlook in order to get some action. If you game a hot girl you are more likely to consider her a potential gf am I right? The hot girl will spur your game on and give you motivation but you are more likely to be in your head and fuck up with this kind of thinking. You will care less about the interaction with a girl you just want to hook up with and therefore....you will be more successful. It's weird isn't it? This is why this kind of mindset is bad but we fall into it. Game the hot chicks like you game the average chicks. Treat hook ups and potential girlfriends the same. Hope that helps.

revente · 2011-10-07T18:46:45+00:00

Why do you even think about the relationship with a girl before you even introduce yourself? Get to know her -> evaluate what is she worth as a person-> decide to fuck/date her. Not the other way.

notlurkinganymoar · 2011-10-07T20:10:20+00:00

Good question. My gut tells me, "no," but I often try harder when I am really interested in the girl and end up going down in flames. So I don't know what the real answer is.

2011-10-07T21:58:27+00:00

How can I possibly know that before having a conversation with someone?

marco161091 · 2011-10-07T19:04:50+00:00

Kind of a strange question. How can you know you're potentially going to date a girl BEFORE your opening game?

It's only after you're in the Attraction stage that you can even see the slightest potential of dating her and you certainly wouldn't be sure until well into the Comfort stage.

koshercowboy · 2011-10-07T21:26:34+00:00

well, first you decide what you want out of her.

hookups = impress, over-flirt, neg, entertain, regale, escalate excitement

date = be a gentleman and be patient as fuck. do nothing but get her number on first night. be entertaining but not overtly entertaining. just be a nice guy. as it was said in "The Tao of Steve": Be Desired, be Excellent and be Gone.

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