Hey everyone! Hopefully you guys have some pointers for me going to cold approach a girl at the gym. I’ve been telling myself to do it for the past week but every time I’m in the moment there at the gym and see the girl, my mind goes blank. I’m usually pretty good at carrying a conversation but suck at breaking the ice.

I’m a (22m) and don’t think I’m ugly or have low self esteem with myself. I’ve been going to the gym for years but the only way I’ve ever met a girl is through social media and I already knew we shared interest in each other.

Anyway my approach I was thinking of doing was something like “excuse me miss, I’ve seen you around here before but have never gotten the chance to talk to you, how about we go grab some coffee this weekend and actually get to know each other?”

Please let me know if I’m a total weirdo for thinking of something like that lol. Or if you actually think it’s good or can help clean that up for me or give me something better. I always hear that the gym is not the place for hitting on girls but others say it’s fine. I just don’t wanna come off as a weirdo because that’s what guys get described as for doing so at the gym. I appreciate your help!