So I’m short, I can be shy because my speech impediment makes it hard for me to be understood. My voice is nasally so people always have to ask me to repeat or they think I’m saying something else, I CANNOT fix it with therapy. I also have a deformed nose. I dress well, I go to the gym etc but women prefer face. Reading on reddit, talking to women IRL it seems like men who are tall and have nice faces get cute girls.

I know some women find me attractive but they’re usually women I’m not attracted to. I’m picky because I want a girl who fits my lifestyle of trying to be active yet women who are very inactive tend to like me.

How tf can I gain confidence and use seduction? I really want to believe this shit works but most the guys who preach it seem to already be average height or average looking. I’m below average.

I appear confident to others or appear uninterested btw so I’m not constantly bitching IRL. I know personality matters a little but I’m starting to think it doesn’t.