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| 2 | Alternatives to redpill? I want to learn how to approach women. I also get told when I stop looking it happens but what’s that mean, stop talking to women?Sorry for late ass reply but yes I agree. Like feminism def benefits men more than people think. But I just don’t know how to approach people in like bars or a cafe or whatever. But I do get the feminism thing, I’ve taken a few sociology courses in college which were amazing | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Alternatives to redpill? I want to learn how to approach women. I also get told when I stop looking it happens but what’s that mean, stop talking to women?My friend circle hasn’t gotten bigger with women I just meet more men even thru my women friends. But how do I do it with strangers I don’t know? I have women friends but idk how to approach strangers. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Alternatives to redpill? I want to learn how to approach women. I also get told when I stop looking it happens but what’s that mean, stop talking to women?Sorry for the very late reply, something personal happened so I just haven’t been on. I totally agree but my main issue is what do I say? Like do I just go up to a girl and say hey I wanted to come up and talk to you cuz I thought you were pretty. Or like how do I approach a group of friends? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Alternatives to redpill? I want to learn how to approach women. I also get told when I stop looking it happens but what’s that mean, stop talking to women?But how do I avoid the friend only thing? Cuz if they wanna be friends then isn’t that it? Also isn’t it good to be upfront that you wanna date? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Alternatives to redpill? I want to learn how to approach women. I also get told when I stop looking it happens but what’s that mean, stop talking to women?I have friends but like I just don’t have as many as I’d like. Especially women friends but idk how to approach strangers. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Alternatives to redpill? I want to learn how to approach women. I also get told when I stop looking it happens but what’s that mean, stop talking to women?Eh i have recently cuz I knew her only three weeks. But I’m fine being her friend even tho she rejected me | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Alternatives to redpill? I want to learn how to approach women. I also get told when I stop looking it happens but what’s that mean, stop talking to women?Sorry for the very late reply, something personal happened so I just haven’t been on. I totally agree but my main issue is what do I say? Like I do a lot of that(except #1) but idk. Do I just be honest and say like, “hey I wanted to say I saw you and thought you were pretty and was hoping to talk to you” or something | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 08:03 AM |
| 1 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?Ok well I’m not gonna argue that because the data doesn’t seem to suggest that there’s some Inherent thing in every single woman that makes them unempathetic sociopaths. But okay lol | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 07:40 AM |
| 1 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?Ahh fair, cuz I’ve seen women go with dudes who are uglier than me but then I know there’s always gonna be men hotter and more successful but that’s good to know. | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 06:27 AM |
| 1 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?Then tell me how to fix it then | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 06:05 AM |
| 1 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?Okay I talk to a therapist and I’ve talked to multiple and what you’re saying is very outdated it’s not womens nature. No wonder went commit suicide at higher rates lol. Sorry but that’s toxic masculinity data doesn’t really show that women are that sociopathic because what you’re describing sounds pretty evil | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?Well what if the guy is less attractive and she’s still going for them? Like there’s always gonna be more so does that mean I’ll just be cheated on constantly? | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 05:59 AM |
| 2 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?Why? Women don’t care if men go to therapy unless you’re in a very conservative like South Korea but western countries are more accepting of mental health | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 05:58 AM |
| 4 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?Eh that’s toxic masculinity I’m not trying to be with a woman who has been told by society that crying isn’t “manly” it shows she’s probably uneducated or has some inner misogyny going on. If my girl won’t let me cry then she’s not worth it like that’s some socially constructed BS I can’t stand like I don’t cry all the time obviously but that mentality is why men have a high suicide rate. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?I am judge mental with who I like. Like in my experience too I find myself treated better by hotter people yet conventionally unattractive women tend to be less happy if I try to be polite. But yeah you’re right I just needa practice but I am judge mental cuz I don’t like the way I am a lot either so it’s insecurigy | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?Hmm interesting, that’s good though. I’ve never got that like I still complimented a girls hair style and her bf was a few feet away and I found they’re usually nicer. I guess the attachment just comes when I talk to them and if I like them cuz if I’m not attracted to them I can’t get that | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 03:58 AM |
| 3 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?Soo rejection from one girl is essentially a step to get with another girl in the future? That actually makes a lot of sense, I might have to screenshot what you said and save it if that’s fine | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?I need to try that it’s hard for me to have fun. Like I’ll be at the gym or yoga and doing my thing but as soon as I see a cute woman I’m like “fuck” | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?But care to what level? Cuz I do think there’s an extent some people are creepy or behave bad and SHOULD care what others think so I just don’t know that line. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?Oh true, that’s what scares me cuz idk how to rid it | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?To be honest maybe not a lot cuz mostly I just talk and make friends or I’ll compliment a persons outfit for example then stop. I complimented a cute girl at a cafe the other day and then I went back to my work cuz I just didn’t know how to continue but I also was kinda okay with ending it there | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?So I am In shape. I’m short but I dress well compared to most straight guys(I’ve been told), I workout daily, I have good hygiene. I’ve even thought of trying to get Botox or fix some things that I simply can’t thru medical procedures. My insecurities are hard to get out of, my friend whose hot when I was crying to her about something she said she was surprised how I was single cuz she says I’m an attractive guy. I also have friends who are attractive women. So I agree but I do therapy, yoga, me… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:01 AM |
| 0 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?My phone died and I wasn’t able to reply till now. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?I try that but it’s hard lol | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How long does it take for improvement usually? I don’t think I’m changing enough to see resultsThat’s a good way to think of it! Thanks | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Two questions lol How do I escalate after a compliment and are there alternatives to the MeetUp app to meet people?You don’t have to be high intensity flirting all the time. Compliment is sufficient enough to gauge interest. The fact they’re still talking to you enthusiastically means they’re interested to some degree. Thanks that actually helps know I dont need to everytime, sometimes when I read the stuff here I assume I do lol Just say “I have to get going but we should hang out sometime. Maybe coffee or food or something” thats super simple and great idea Idk how i havent thought of that lol. It is hard … | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to focus on yourself while also focusing on dating? Is it possible?Yeah for you you can do whatever. Like I still drink alcohol but go to kava bars so for you you don’t need kratom but if you want a girl whose less likely to be addicted to legit opiates and stronger stuff then kava/kratom bars are the place to go. Also van life sounds fun! And most women who like van life are always super cute IMO lol. Maybe it’s just my area but women love dudes who travel and do van life. You can always work remotely too | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | A man hit on me in a coffee shop, and although I’m taken, it was really adorable.For real it’s annoying but also I noticed more attractive single women are friendlier. Like the times I’ve gotten rude responses it’s always women who aren’t conventionally attractive. | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to focus on yourself while also focusing on dating? Is it possible?Well find a girl whose not addicted i guess? Lol go to a NA meeting or a kava bar. Actually yeah you’re in Florida they’ve got a lot of kava bars which usually have kratom and kratom is used a lot for opiate addicts getting off opiates so most likely you’ll run into someone whose quitting. I never have gotten addicted except I use kratom and I’ve met a lot of sober people at kava places cuz kava is used for alcoholics usually and kratom for opiate addicts who wanna stop. | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to focus on yourself while also focusing on dating? Is it possible?A lot of girls n california who go to festivals do all that. Honestly anime and books are becoming more mainstream, I know plenty of women who love anime. | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to focus on yourself while also focusing on dating? Is it possible?Most women don't care, idk where you live but here everyone does drugs LOL like weed, alcohol, psychdelics. A lot of coke too and it doesnt seem to discriminate on class | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to focus on yourself while also focusing on dating? Is it possible?That's fair I agree, I was thinking of a different type of creepy but I get that. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to focus on yourself while also focusing on dating? Is it possible?Yeah but idk how to relax | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 08:28 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to focus on yourself while also focusing on dating? Is it possible?Yeah but you shouldn’t creep girls out that means you’re doing it wrong.Like there’s gotta be ways without doing that cuz too many dudes are creepy and should NOT be. I don’t want to have to approach every single woman and act like they’re some trophy to get. Seems very objectifying. Unless maybe I’m misunderstanding what you’re saying. Maybe it works for you….whose Tyler? Is that the RSD dude who admitted to sexual assaulting women? Usually when people say Tyler about PÚA that’s what they mean … | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 08:28 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to focus on yourself while also focusing on dating? Is it possible?True I don’t like only approaching women and all. I have the book you meant so I’llkeep reading | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 04:26 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to focus on yourself while also focusing on dating? Is it possible?How do I have fun if I’m not getting any though? That’s my issue I workout and have a job yet that doesn’t do much, if anything at all. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to focus on yourself while also focusing on dating? Is it possible?It’s so exhausting doing that though I don’t have the energy to hit on every woman I see, it also feels oddly creepy. Like if I just focus on girls they’ll easily be able to tell I’m desperate | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 04:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you show interest or ask out someone if they’re working?I know their first name but how can I hang out without a number or socials? | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 04:46 AM |
| 1 | How do you show interest or ask out someone if they’re working?I’ve tried which is why I asked for the socials of these specific people but one of them ended up unfollowing me and making it so I’m not following her cuz she said her girlfriend thought it was weird. So it seems even rapport building doesn’t work for me | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | What are alternatives to learning social skills or talking to women?Form better lasting relationships with humans | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | What are alternatives to learning social skills or talking to women?I’m 25 so that does worry me. And yeah but then sometimes I figure, if it works and gets me laid then maybe I should? Yet I can’t cuz I’ve known guys who think that way and I always think, “if it wasn’t illegal you would have gotten your ass kicked by now” | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | What are alternatives to learning social skills or talking to women?Fair | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | What are alternatives to learning social skills or talking to women?Some but most friends who are women or know more can’t hang due to Covid or live miles away. The friends im with now are worse off than me. I think being around them has made me worse too I seem to never know when someone’s a friend. I keep in touch with a lot of people but I’m usually intimating convo first | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 08:39 PM |
| 1 | What are alternatives to learning social skills or talking to women?I can compliment a man or woman’s outfit or ask how their day is if they’re my cashier but no if I’m in public I usually won’t approach men or women unless approached or they say something | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | What are alternatives to learning social skills or talking to women?True but I hate those even more. I don’t know how to feel connected if I’m online or FaceTiming or whatever. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | What are alternatives to learning social skills or talking to women?Thanks! I’m not in an acting class but in a yoga class and I’m into my yoga teacher would it be weird to ask her to hang out? I didn’t join to hit on women but I tend to fall for people quickly. Which is why I want to try to be friends even though I’d date because knowing me I can be friends then just move on and try to date other women. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | What are alternatives to learning social skills or talking to women?That’s true :/ looking back a lot of rsd is also just drunk women too soo that’s just eh | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | What are alternatives to learning social skills or talking to women?It’s hard though with Covid and yeah that’s true I’ll try to do meet up but lately found not many things available in my area | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 08:32 PM |
| 1 | What are alternatives to learning social skills or talking to women?How though what do I say | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How tf do you approach groups when everyone is already taken and has their “clique”Hmm I’ll try that | /r/seduction | 28/10/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | How tf do you approach groups when everyone is already taken and has their “clique”But what do I even say? I’m very bad at keeping up convos and not just sitting back and listening. I’ll end up accidentally focusing on one of them. I might try that but it is hard for me to goof because I don’t have the energy. I’d have to force myself | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | How tf do you approach groups when everyone is already taken and has their “clique”My wing man(my friends) also aren’t the greatest. Tbh being around them has made it harder | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 07:40 PM |
| 2 | How tf do you approach groups when everyone is already taken and has their “clique”THIS! This happens so much even when you try befriending the annoying girl she just WONT give up. Lol | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How tf do you approach groups when everyone is already taken and has their “clique”Oof the befriending group is hard. How do you do it individually if it’s at a bar with no dancing? | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting jealous of other men?I’d say that except I’m not as good as the other men or as attractive. Usually I’m competing with taller more attractive men | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being desperate?I just graduated so its harder to do all that at my school. | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 02:36 AM |
| 0 | On the ethics of seduction (the book the Art of Seduction as well)Well I’d agree with most but for someone like me, how do I flirt? PUAs are sketchy but I can’t flirt to save my life because I don’t have the energy and I’m pretty monotone. Nor do I know conversation openers and how to continue conversations, most women who like me especially dating apps I’m not attracted too. So I’d do what you’re doing if it works because you’ve had three women ask you out so it’s working clearly lol | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 06:30 PM |
| 2 | On the ethics of seduction (the book the Art of Seduction as well)Are there any alternatives though? Especially on YouTube or whatever? I’m always having trouble finding it because it always ends up being some PUA bs | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Does weed impair anyone else's charisma/out going vibe?Yup, I think it makes me confident but it’s only in my head. I never do shit about it then I get pissed lol | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Any guys who had to resort to prostitutes to have sex, did you manage to get sex the normal way?I have before because it’s easier. It just takes longer to get it the normal way. It was random lol wish I could be more help but yeah be careful it is addicting and make sure they’re independent and not sex trafficked | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I practice pick up and trying to get dates without manipulation?What’s the difference between manipulation or just being normal? Isn’t manipulation doing shit to influence people | /r/seduction | 03/04/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Do rich men get hotter and/or more women?Nope. I have more money than a lot of my friends who have been in relationships and get laid more. Not rich but Im not worried financially | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 04:25 PM |
| 1 | How do I practice pick up and trying to get dates without manipulation?But how do you NOT manipulate? | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 04:09 PM |
| 2 | How do I keep convos going once started? Any advice?Damn...it worked lol | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 05:39 AM |
| 1 | How do I keep convos going once started? Any advice?I found one topic like she seems to be into sports and I wanna ask her to play a sport as way to hang out | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 03:05 AM |
| 1 | How do I know when a woman is consenting?I know | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I know when a woman is consenting?Ok well I hve everything except confidence and also how am I NOT treating women like humans? I mean this girl should’ve known my intentions since we were gonna do a first date a week ago. How do you “treat them” like humans. Humans are just animals and sex etc is natural part of it | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 04:02 AM |
| 1 | How do I know when a woman is consenting?I try both. I have some friends but they’re not in the same city anymore. Kind of sick of not having a gf or fuckbuddy lol This girl cancelled our first date so we made this I’d think I’d be implied it’s our date so idk. Why be friends? I need intimacy lol | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 03:55 AM |
| 1 | How do I know when a woman is consenting?True but when I danced with this girl and we were hella close like looking at each other and all. It was to make up for our first date that she had to cancel on but guess she blocked me on IG. Only thing I can think of is the dancing making hncomofrable but I asked her if she’s ok with it, she said it was ok. Then I said if not then let me know. | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 04:32 PM |
| 1 | How do I know when a woman is consenting?What? | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How do I know when a woman is consenting?I do my best to try that | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 04:03 PM |
| 0 | How do I know when a woman is consenting?How do you know I don’t have either? | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | How do I know when a woman is consenting?I do view them as humans. But I’d think if I asked if it’s ok and they said yes then it’s ok but it’s not so idk. I can’t make people comfortable how do I do that? Clearly I’m bad at it | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 11:29 AM |
| -1 | How do I know when a woman is consenting?Ok then what do you mean I’m lacking intelligenc | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 11:28 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?I said I don’t say this IRL. Also it’s different because they can control it. Lol | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?True | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 05:02 AM |
| 0 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?We’re all judge mental aren’t we? Yeah I don’t go around calling them ugly lol I’m not that mean but I do want a good looking girlfriend and idk how to get rid of that want. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 05:01 AM |
| 0 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?Yeah but my issue is meeting the girl first. | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 11:45 PM |
| 0 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?Damn, I’ve hired a lot of escorts hahahha. I wouldn’t brag about money tho. That’s why I don’t get the “have money” how would they know unless I’m flexing it | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 11:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?But how do they know? Like I have enough money to support people more than guy friends who have less money but more women. | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 02:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?A shrink? True but I’d rather not. I don’t want sex so much I’d do that. Maybe a bj or something but nothing more | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 02:44 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?It’s stopped boosting my confidence. I’m making gains it improved a little but now with dad bods being a trend and women saying they don’t care about muscle. They like face more, it’s discouraging. I get compliments by dudes more by going to the gym than by a girl. Being muscular, girls still choose skinny tall dudes. | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 12:31 AM |
| -1 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?Why can’t I be picky about fat girls? They chose to be fat. I think it’s only fair. My flaws aren’t controllable, I can’t run a few months, eat healthy to fix my flaws. That’s all I’m saying. Well quality girls usually approach the hotter guys first just like guys do with women. I think bro’s and players are who get women, I don’t think they’re lower “quality” women because of it. I can’t show my good personality if they don’t give me chance or I can’t approach because it doesn’t matter if I’m “… | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 12:30 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?That’s me. I’m confident in other areas and don’t give two shits. I find being good with women and social skills has more of a human value. We weren’t made to find some random person making money in finance successful. People judge on if you can get laid whether you’re gay or straight or whatever. In my life it seems people are becoming less about money and more talking about relationships. The only reason the other shit exists is capitalism IMO. Like if we weren’t in a modern capitalist society… | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 12:26 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?I’ve done all that and it’s just not satisfying. None of that matters because we’re all going to die lol. I find sex food drinking etc to be important. I’m very hedonistic in that way. Work doesn’t satisfy me because if you’re rich you’re still worthless. Working for others then dying. I have no end goal because I see the end as death so idk. I’ve tried focusing on other shit but I always think about the other stuff first like relationships. There’s nothing I’ve “always” wanted to do. | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 12:22 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?What internal value do we have? We’re all animals who are programmed biologically to spread genes. I may be cool but if my personality is good so is that hotter dude with the same personality plus looks so I lose. | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?Damn well idk if I can get the fuck it attitude without anti depressants. I had it but had no emotion, no happiness, empathy, anger, sadness. Just blank | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?I am but my league I find unattractive. I feel less worthy if I don’t because it will enforce my beliefs that I’m shit | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 12:16 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?Well it’s like she wasn’t dating me and it was so random. I don’t think I can get it again. Lol I find if I tel a girl she’s hot I’ll come off creepy and sexist | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 12:14 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?I have all that but not the confidence. I know my fashion is good since I’ve been complimented on it. Also usually gay guys hit on me which I love but I don’t like dick so I feel bad lol | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?I am financially stable. I also hit the gym a lot which is why I’m more into women who are hotter because they’re usually also active. | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 09:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?10,000 rejected romantically or any type of rejection. | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 09:36 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?Oh I’m well aware. That’s why I posted it. | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?Looks do matter the most, especially online. Your viewpoint is skewed from online. Does that actually have an effect? I have noticed now that I don’t hang with many women anymore(most graduated) and I’m more online I’ve become less confident. lol kinda same. i'm super short, have a bump in my nose, and stutter. unironically have sex, preferably with a hot girl who loves you, that's how I beat it. knowing I could score a really attractive girl made me confident I could do it more. don't use onlin… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling insecure and be more confident?Well I can’t change the way I look. They can lose weight. I care about their feelings yeah I get it. I know sound mean but it’s more of like I like being active and working out so to me if they’re obese or fat it shows they don’t. Which would harm me because I’d be tempted to live sedentary as well | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you continue conversations past small talk?Damn I can try. Not very passionate about much lol I’ll try that out tho | /r/seduction | 21/11/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you continue conversations past small talk?How? | /r/seduction | 21/11/19 07:04 PM |
| 14 | I’m a 21 year old virgin and I’m fed up!! I want to change my life.How many frats accept bids though for people only staying a year? | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 07:29 AM |
| 1 | How do I talk to classmates after class if I don't sit near them?Thanks! | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 07:24 AM |
| 1 | How do I talk to classmates after class if I don't sit near them?But like wouldnt that make her creeped out cuz i'd have to go out of my way | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being insecure and go for women I deem out of my league?Hmm I kinda want both hook ups or relationship. Btw sorry for the late ass response. Also, maybe me being 23 but looking hella young helps me look less threatening haha | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 03:47 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being insecure and go for women I deem out of my league?But at clubs how do u do that when you’re dancing? Talking is hard af and sometimes I just wanna dance. Also idk how I’d even open up conversations, I always feel like I’m too ugly to talk to them so they’re gonna assume I’m creepy or will reject me. | /r/seduction | 23/10/19 04:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being insecure and go for women I deem out of my league?Say what tho? Just like do you wanna dance? | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being insecure and go for women I deem out of my league?Okay for sure! What about if it’s in a club and I’m literally right behind her and she keeps looking? Lol | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being insecure and go for women I deem out of my league?But what do I do? What if she’s just creeped out and looking back for that reason? I had that happen at the club she kept looking kinda back but like what then? | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 03:20 AM |
| 1 | What are the best places for game except clubs and bars?I usually try to do things I like. I’m not not great at things or if I like it I’ll forget to socialize. Like yoga for example, I’ll do the yoga then leave. | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 09:25 PM |
| 2 | What are the best places for game except clubs and bars?Really? I’d think clubs would be easier since everyone’s drunk asf. But then again I’m writing this post so clearly it hasn’t worked enough. I’ll try dive bars, I’ve always avoided it because of my ego and not wanting to go alone. Day game I’ll check out. Beach seems a little difficult. Do you have any good articles you know of that I can check out? A lot of articles I’ve found are just Ads for expensive dating coaches lol | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to be super masculine when I game?Well like one of the comments talked about alpha and souboys. Good point, russel is really good! Yeah I’m probably not confident but I’m always scared of coming across too forward or creepy. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to be super masculine when I game?Umm no offense but Ben Shapiro is kind of dumb IMO. It seems like you’re saying I’d have to dumb myself down to get women. I disagree leftism is destroying the world, if leftism means “soyboys” can have a chance due to feminism then shouldn’t that be encouraged? I think the playing field should be equal. But that’s another topic. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Do I have to be super masculine when I game?Hmmm interesting. That’s true, abs are usually never seen. In my city it’s next to the beach so It’s more acceptable to take off my shirt but still there’s not many situations in life that you can do that. Tank top sure but ye I gave up on abs due to that. They’d have to find the rest of me attractive before getting to abs anyways :/ | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Do I have to be super masculine when I game?Yes there’s somewhat of a bias at my college. It’s a predominately white rich kid university and I’m not used to that since I hang out with mostly POC although I’m white. So I feel out of place when I’m around those types, they’re not all bad, I have friends in frats who are good guys but it’s their behavior and social skills that are different than what I’m used to. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Do I have to be super masculine when I game?Thank you! That actually helped lol. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Do I have to be super masculine when I game?I’d honestly rather have people like abs than height. At least I can get abs. I’ve always heard from other dudes tho that being well groomed can appear gay. I’m into dressing nice. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Do I have to be super masculine when I game?Bruh you’re not short. I’m 5’3, that’s short! Hahaha | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Do I have to be super masculine when I game?I what do you mean as a man though? Usually I think of it like the stereotypical buff dude drinking beers, doesn’t dress well or whatever. A lot of men in my life I’ve noticed push that like “man up” type image. If that makes sense. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Do I have to be super masculine when I game?And yes it’s an odd question lol | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Do I have to be super masculine when I game?Maybe some day. This isn’t the reddit I’ll show my face on LOL | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 06:09 AM |
| 1 | It's that I fear approaching, I often don't know what I'm supposed to say or start with at bars and clubs. Any tips?Just curious, isn’t bad to compliment them on looks? | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How can I get more confidence knowing I have traits women dislike?5'3. How do you manage to do that? I've only been with like two girls within this year. | /r/seduction | 02/08/19 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Do not ever listen dating advice from girls, everExactly, so the idea you gotta be friends is BS. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Do not ever listen dating advice from girls, everYeah the becoming friends one pisses me off sometimes because I know lots of couples who “were friends” like two weeks then dated soo wtf | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Do not ever listen dating advice from girls, everReally? Just curious would that apply to not talking to women at their workplace? There’s one cute girl I’ve met and I wanna talk to her but she works at the martial arts place and is also a student there. I remember I asked this on a subreddit and women told me to never flirt with someone working. Yet I swear some men I know have met their GF that way. Yet I’m never told WHERE appropriate places are except bars and clubs. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How can I use my speech impediment to my advantage?Thanks so much for the advice! | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 11:46 PM |
| 1 | How can I use my speech impediment to my advantage?Does body language actually work a lot though? | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 12:04 AM |
| 1 | How can I use my speech impediment to my advantage?Yeah I think my body is good(can be better) I’m obsessed with lifting now. My clothes I’ve been complimented on a lot. Especially outfits I have. I just find my voice turns women off though. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | How can I use my speech impediment to my advantage?Okay but how tf do I open if that way? Like I know some ASL but am I just gonna be using it till some girl sees me? | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 12:01 AM |
| 1 | How do I make myself seem more interested but not desperate or creepyYeah most people know she’s weird like that. She either hates you or loves you. My problem is the keeping it friendly, I’ve tried to flirt and the woman had no idea. Thanks I’ll keep practicing. | /r/seduction | 17/05/19 04:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I make myself seem more interested but not desperate or creepyNot using it as an excuse. Just wondering if it has an effect at all. Because yeah I’ve met an extreme feminist who hates me cuz I told her friend she was cute and if she wanted to dance and the “feminist” says I was weird to her friend but everyone else who was there didn’t care. And I’ve succeeded by doing the same so I’m just worried of that minority of feminists who are overly scared. LOL sorry that one experience made me paranoid for a few months, still does even tho I know what I did has w… | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 05:30 PM |
| 1 | How can I get women who I may not know to go to a party my club is hosting? I want more women than menOh I see what you mean. Umm it’s more so mine and my roommates. Maybe one or two of the women but not the ones who give a shit. I say it’s mine and roommates because usually parties are held at our house but we’re hosting it at an airbnb instead so it’s a larger place and a neighborhood more secluded so we don’t get noise complaints | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | How can I get women who I may not know to go to a party my club is hosting? I want more women than menBecause we’re letting randos come to the party lol usually it’s like our organization only | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 06:38 PM |
| 1 | How can I get women who I may not know to go to a party my club is hosting? I want more women than menIs there a way I can sneak it? Like I’m all for partying but when there’s more dudes than women it’s weird to me. I guess as a single guy I wanna get with a girl so I have this mentality but it’s more so too having the OPTION. Like sometimes it’s mostly people who are taken so it’s like damn it’s fun to flirt but that’s off the list | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 06:02 PM |
| 1 | How can I get women who I may not know to go to a party my club is hosting? I want more women than menWell I’m not very good at getting dates. I don’t wanna date anyone in the organization because none of the women in it are interested in me in that way. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 05:39 PM |
| 1 | How can I get women who I may not know to go to a party my club is hosting? I want more women than menYea it’s a co Ed but they wanna invite “cute guys” and imma be sexist and say I care more about myself getting with a girl than other random dudes coming. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | How To Pull A Girl From A ClubTrue I did this last night. Except her friends who were also part of my friend group split us up.(she’s single for a reason LOL). So always be careful because some women get overly protective even if the girl is leaning into you to try to kiss you and is enjoying the flirting and dancing. | /r/seduction | 28/10/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of parties(usually fraternities) that allow only women or specific individuals. Is that a bad way to meet women?That’s like the only motivation tho I have to flirt or talk to women tho. | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 11:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of parties(usually fraternities) that allow only women or specific individuals. Is that a bad way to meet women?I agree, I’m not even making fraternity parties cuz I’m not in one but I would much rather let single people in than couples if people ask to bring plus ones. Yet I’ve had some people say that’s bad cuz I’m being thirsty but idk it adds to the fun. But I’m the type of person who wants to escalate partying till the cops come LOL | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of parties(usually fraternities) that allow only women or specific individuals. Is that a bad way to meet women?Ye I’m thirsty but that’s why I kinda don’t want parties to be MAINLY couples. Idk if it’s a bad thing tho to be thirsty | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I make sure I don’t appear lonely?Eh you can be lonely and have everything. I have trouble relating to people to and I’m still lonely. I have tons of friends and I’m in numerous clubs and college orgs, I go to parties a lot and all that but I’m still lonely lol | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 03:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I make sure I don’t appear lonely?I don’t really get hookups though. And yeah o try to spend more time with women I’m into but a lot of women just aren’t into me. I’m probably not super outgoing or I’m probably boring which is why. Or just ugly but yeah hook ups aren’t my thing, but since this is a subreddit about seduction feel free to give me some sources. | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I make sure I don’t appear lonely?Your thoughts helped don’t worry. But yeah I see what you mean it’s just I’m never in a position anymore where I have the not trying. The closest is when I took my antidepressants which made me emotionally numb, I still wanted a girlfriend but I was unable to care as much. But it basically wiped away most my empathy so wasn’t good. Yet it still existed, I’ve just done everything possible I think. I could shoot for goals like graduating or finding a good job but I don’t really care about those be… | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 05:05 AM |
| 1 | How do I make sure I don’t appear lonely?I have and do do those things but it’s still there and I have been close and I’ve felt better so I don’t really believe in that stuff because I have everything except that it’s fun to share experiences with another person. | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | How do I make sure I don’t appear lonely?I’m trying to get to know her though to be my girlfriend. Isn’t that how it works? And yea I want someone I can spend time with, I’m not gonna settle for someone I don’t connect with or who has a shit personality. But there’s women who I want to get to know more and potentially date. How would they know? I swear everyone dates people because they want a relationship | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 12:32 AM |
| 1 | How do I make sure I don’t appear lonely?I just use anti depressants lol. I do all those other things, reaching my goals does make me happy when it comes to fitness. Work eh I’m in college but i just get to my goal of passing but it always goes back to the common denominator of wanting relationship. So you’re right but idk if that works for me because I try to do all that stuff. Tbh I’ve started therapy just to help it | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 09:30 PM |
| 2 | How do I make sure I don’t appear lonely?Well it can’t just be changed by thinking differently. At least in my case I find being with women actually does help it. I’m lonely in the sense I have everything else but ye there’s still that void. So I do agree then I guess but I wouldn’t say I can just “think” positively and it goes away. I do a lot to try to enjoy my own company and I do a lot but I do shit alone so much it’s tiring. | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I make sure I don’t appear lonely?How so? Just so I can know not to do it. Because I am needy but I try to hide it | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 09:03 PM |
| 3 | How do I make sure I don’t appear lonely?It’s not state of mind tho, I can’t just become unlonely by enjoying my company. Also new friends won’t really fix it either I have tons of friends lol | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Do looks actually not matter as much as confidence or is that BS?Those both sound bad. What’s left? | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Do looks actually not matter as much as confidence or is that BS?So I should not attempt talking to women then who are like 10s lol | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Do looks actually not matter as much as confidence or is that BS?I’ve heard about him. I’ll check him out | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 04:22 AM |
| 1 | How did you practice your conversation skills if your in a new country with no friends and with approach anxiety??Just make sure you are not being a stereotypical foreigner and respecting the culture and they should probably accept you. Depending on where you're at. | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Does dressing nice, grooming , taking care of your skin etc make women more attracted to you?Keep practicing. And yeah most numbers don't turn into dates, but the fact you have women friends and friends in general is a good sign. Maybe not all women find you sexual but it's good to have friends as a start. I understand what you mean, i'm 22 and never had a girl friend. I've only been on few dates myself so I feel ya. If you're a virgin don't worry about it, women don't really care. I have my skepticism about a lot of PUA stuff(especially people like RSDTyler) but I will admit it can hel… | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Does dressing nice, grooming , taking care of your skin etc make women more attracted to you?https://youtu.be/FWVDzn_aN-Q OOOOHHHH I thought you were talking about Armani Exchange. Yeah fuck Axe Thanks for the links! | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Does dressing nice, grooming , taking care of your skin etc make women more attracted to you?How do you know you’re not liked? Have you done the pick up and have it worked? I would assume tho the compliments mean they like you a little more than if you didn’t dress nice. | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Does dressing nice, grooming , taking care of your skin etc make women more attracted to you?Well what I mean too is also someone who takes that a step further where it’s clear this person takes some form of interest in dressing. Oddly enough I feel like most people don’t dress like slobs but they also don’t dress “nice” or have any style to them. | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Does dressing nice, grooming , taking care of your skin etc make women more attracted to you?I’ll check it out. Curious tho how AX is cheap? Are you referring to Armani because they’re pretty high end. | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Does dressing nice, grooming , taking care of your skin etc make women more attracted to you?Like pick up lines and shit. Not too sure tbh because idk what “neg” or anything means. Most of the PUA stuff I’ve seen is from like RSD or Todd valentine or what not. I don’t watch enough to know the difference...probably not magic tricks tho. I think moreso just talking to women in hopes of getting a date or what not. | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Does dressing nice, grooming , taking care of your skin etc make women more attracted to you?Makes sense. But if both were good at game, would you say the person who takes note in these areas would still have a greater chance? | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 03:05 AM |
| 1 | About how many approaches should one expect to go through before success following "the game"?Depends what video game, it wouldn't take the same but with things like RSD there are basically tutorials and walk throughs of "the game" so if you follow that then yes you should have the same exact results. I'm just saying PUA and "the game" seem iffy especially because someone who doesn't do PUA could approach the same, more, or less people and get results. | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | About how many approaches should one expect to go through before success following "the game"?Human interactions are complex and women will test you and luck will only take you so far. Anyone will test you, both men and women. Also, people intereste in PUA obviously want something more than just what would be their statistical share of intrinsicaly compatible mates. If you were happy with the numbers you are getting you wouldnt be looking for pickup advice would you? Well, if the pickup advice works then it should work right away not take a ton of approaches. The RSD vids and things i've… | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | About how many approaches should one expect to go through before success following "the game"?So then wouldnt it make sense just to be yourself because without PUA, within 100 approaches you're bound to find someone who will like you. Especially 500. | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 05:15 PM |
| 0 | About how many approaches should one expect to go through before success following "the game"?Yeah but there's gotta be some number or else RSD and PUA stuff is moreso based on luck. Like you can say you're good at a game when all it requires is luck. Like after about 5 tries it's really just luck rather than skill. Yet I find it preached that skill is key. | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 01:07 AM |
| 2 | About how many approaches should one expect to go through before success following "the game"?Okay that's what I thought. However, that mentality seems to be very prevalent in this subreddit and the RSD vids i've watched the comments seem to suggest it's like some magic thing. RSDJulien says he 'still gets rejected all the time' which suggests that it IS a numbers game of sorts. The girls he gets are ones who found him attractive before he opened his mouth. The ones who reject him depite his 'game', didn't. Can you show me where he says that? I'd like to actually hear it from a rsd coach… | /r/seduction | 05/07/18 10:09 PM |
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