Hello reddit. First of all I thank you all for taking the time to read the post. Let me tell you my story first. I am currently heading to my second year of college and my first year of college was not that good. I went to parties but I did not do anything because I was scared and I did not enjoy any parties. My thoughts usually were "I could've played league instead being here." I couldn't even grind with a girl because that's how scared I am. My friends find me attractive and they say I have no excuse. Well I am going to a college party July 4th and I would like to have a great experience. The question I am asking is how do I make this a great experience? How do I make new friends? I want to know everyone and have fun with everyone. How do I deal with unreactive people when I talk to them? How do I actually dance with a girl? Like approach them in the party setting? I know I may seem like an idiot asking these questions but you guys are helping me a lot. Thank you very much