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how can I push her away? my examples

wartorle · 2015-04-23T19:49:51+00:00

So sometimes people say I get too attached and girls can sense this. So I think I need to push them away a little. What do you guys say? The only thing I can...

wartorle

April 23, 2015

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Title	how can I push her away? my examples
Author	wartorle
Upvotes	1
Comments	24
Date	April 23, 2015 7:49 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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Don't listen to what girls say... look at what they're doing.

What people say will throw you countless curveballs. I mean this throughout life. There's just games and bulllshit and straight talk is rare. However it's especially is true with women and sex and dating. Games and shit testing and god knows what else will come out of their mouths.

On the other hand, what people are doing isn't gonna throw you a curve ball. What people are doing is gonna be the fucking blunt truth.

Basically what I'm saying is the old cliche: actions speak louder than words. Not only that, but they speak more honestly than words.

So let's look at the actions:

She could be at home relaxing and watching her favorite thing to watch. Or working on what she needs to work on. Yet she is choosing to spend this time with you.
She is ok with you touching her. Something she would very blatantly stop a non attractive person from doing.
She is pulling your body closer to hers.
She let you have your head laying on her thighs.

So on the side of the thought "she wants to fuck me" you have all the above actions. ...And on the side of the thought "Idk if she does" you have one five word sentence she spat out.

Escalate.

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okay so with the same girl that I like. Went out last night, we both got drunk and we started kissing and making out. She stopped and said I don't want to lead you on ( not sure what this means). Any way we continued making out.

Went back to hers, and we didn't have sex or anything because she she is saving herself. But Im okay with that.

Any we spent the whole next morning and evening in bed, just cuddling and laying on top of each other watching films and talking She didnt mention all the kissing, but she hinted at it.

Then after all that she starts mentioning the guy she likes. it was a short conversation, but it was still there. I mean here I was laying my head on her chest, while she had her legs over me. My hands by her ass.

Buy anyway I do not not if this girl wants a relationship with me or the other guy. She gave me compliments like if I became a teacher all the female students would fancy me.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Don't react to what women are saying.

Act, based on what they are doing.

That's a principle that would honestly solve a decent chunk of posts in this sub.

You followed that principle in a "micro" way by just continuing to make out with her after she said she doesn't wanna lead you on. You, out of instinct (nice job), didn't react to what she said, but rather acted on what she was doing.

So if you can apply the principle in a micro way in that moment... you can apply the principle in a macro way in your pursuit of this girl. Don't react to and worry about the conversations about other guy(s). Shrug your shoulders and act on her actions, like time spent with you, fondling, making out with you.

(P.s If you ever get annoyed with girls talking about guys, just tell her let's move on, it's about you and her right now. This is good because one, it will get the conversation to a better place, and two, it demonstrates a level of control and standards that's very attractive.)

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Wont telling her that I like her give the ball in her court??

Well she has been texting me lots. Even tho I have been ignoring her.

She has been texting a lot since monday, everyday, even tho I have been blunt.

Well after the morning I stayed, she has been texting me constantly despite me giving blunt replies. on monday, I ignored one text, she then sent two more an hour apart each, I ignored these. Then she sends a third, she said she is scared that I was angry that her room was a mess (yes this is random, I never come across anything like this).

Well the other guy, offered her sex once, and she ran away. so yes she is saving herself for marriage.

tuesday- she texts more, I am quite blunt, but she tries to try one of our inside jokes regarding love and popularity.

wednesday - she sends a picture of her room which is now clean. I am much more myself, teasing her etc.

today she sent 9 messages in a row of her explaining her views that she disagrees with open relationships. I just asked her view on relationships as she talked about it.

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