How can I stop getting nervous?

upandup123 · 2016-08-14T07:28:37+00:00

Everyone does man, it's a pretty natural reaction.

The thing is just to chill out and have fun!

rocacu · 2016-08-14T20:01:41+00:00

The more you do it, the easier it gets.

Xane3x · 2016-08-14T07:30:03+00:00

Exposure yourself to this situation over and over again. Eventually you won't be nervous

specialperson123 · 2016-08-14T07:58:44+00:00

play the guitar.

letsgetrandy · 2016-08-15T21:43:38+00:00

I took up photography as a hobby, about 15 years ago. After spending some time learning technique, framing, exposure, etc., and really honing my craft, I decided that my favorite subjects were people, and I started focusing on that.

Prior to this, I was fairly shy, and I too had a tendency to get a little awkward/uncomfortable around beautiful people. But then I made one of the best decisions of my life...

I decided to focus my photographic efforts on nude art. I started with friends who I was able to convince into helping me learn, but when I had figured out lighting and posing and started having good stuff to show for myself, I began hiring models to pose for me.

Usually 2-3 times a month, I would have a gorgeous model in my home, stark naked for several hours, doing whatever I asked her to, and making conversation in the mean time.

As you can imagine, after a few months of this, I was entirely comfortable talking to beautiful people, because my life was filled with all the gorgeous women who all the other guys are afraid to talk to... and there they were in my home... and naked! And I had the photographic evidence to prove it.

I'm not saying everyone should try to repeat exactly this experience.... maybe photography isn't necessarily your thing... but the point is simply this: find a way to surround yourself with gorgeous people who you have to talk to... and do this enough that eventually, you don't think anything of it.

Title	How can I stop getting nervous?
Author	Swiftwaters
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	August 14, 2016 7:16 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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