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| 2 | Do all the hot girls like night parties?Partying is fun, try it for yourself more often homie | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 04:03 AM |
| 42 | What questions do you have about attracting women?I feel like I find it hard to strike the balance between "too funny/try hard" and just kind of boring Any advice? Also, cool guys always seem like they can have something fun and spontaneous they can do with people, any suggestions? | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else watch an RSD video and feel like they spent 20 minutes on someone rambling about some random shit and feel like they learned nothing?Sure there's some good shit in there, but the meaning gets lost sometimes when it's a 30 minute discussion of aligning your chakras rather than a 5 minute discussion about inner game | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Getting girls in college is EXPONENTIALLY harder than in the real world, but there are a few things that help you out and make it way easier.As a junior who hasn't been laid in two years I had so much hope going into this thread. I can't get laid or any action to save my fucking life | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Getting girls in college is EXPONENTIALLY harder than in the real world, but there are a few things that help you out and make it way easier.As a junior who hasn't been laid in two years... Rip Lmao I had hope going into this | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Getting girls in college is EXPONENTIALLY harder than in the real world, but there are a few things that help you out and make it way easier.And a shit ton of negative ones, lol, people were saying if you can't get a w in college you're ducked | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 12:41 AM |
| 0 | Getting girls in college is EXPONENTIALLY harder than in the real world, but there are a few things that help you out and make it way easier.This thread inspired hope until I read this. I'm sad now lol | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 12:24 AM |
| 1 | The top 6 traits any guy must have to be considered “cool” or “attractive”. (mega-post)Hey great post, but quick question for you. You say your 80% confident and will always be a bit nervous when you meet people. Does that mean youre still feel nervous to say certain things, but say those certain things anyway? | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 06:10 AM |
| 2 | The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Players (Pt. 1)Excellent man, thanks | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 01:32 PM |
| 2 | The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Players (Pt. 1)Hey can someone please explain, "The truth is, looks do matter- but they’re not relevant." Thanks | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Totally stumbled into this on accident but I had no idea this line would work so well. Feel free to try it out in your own venturesJust tested it, so far I'm 1/1 lol | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Back up Todd's Channel if you like his videosWhat do they do that's scammy? | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Would it be better to quit TRYING to be so damn charismatic/funny/interesting/witty/alpha, and instead just be normal and have the balls to go for it?What I'm trying to say is Ill try RSD Julien or Tyler shit. Where I'll start talking about random as fuck shit like this one time where Julien asked a girl, would you rather jack off a homeless person or a dog. Not saying I say that exact line, or something that raunchy, but something kind of silly like it. One or two might land, but not a lot of it does and it just becomes weird, cringey, and just not enjoyable. Would it be better for me to just be like when I'm with my closest friends, the rea… | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Would it be better to quit TRYING to be so damn charismatic/funny/interesting/witty/alpha, and instead just be normal and have the balls to go for it?Thanks for the advice! The only problem is I think I'm not like most people when it comes to improvement. I'm a perfectionist. Now that I'm more actively trying to pursue women, there are all these "traits" I need to improve, and it's got me wound up like a clock and acting all nervous trying to improve on them. I think I probably just need to be more comfortable, and I think giving up being perfect on a lot of these traits might help | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Would it be better to quit TRYING to be so damn charismatic/funny/interesting/witty/alpha, and instead just be normal and have the balls to go for it?But see, that's the problem. I go to "be more funny" or "be more alpha" and it just doesn't click that well. Then I start acting weird and not quite normal and it's a shit show. I think just being chill is going to be a lot easier to maintain, not quite as much method to keep in mind and shit to memorize. I'll probably be a lot more confident too because I won't be trying to "sell myself" Might not be as direct or effective as if I was naturally crazy goofy extraverted, but it'll be better than … | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 01:28 AM |
| 1 | A guy on a speed dating event being fed lines and rocking it. Proof that it doesn't matter what you say, but how you say it.Practice | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 02:59 PM |
| 1 | I think pick up has fucked me up and I don't know how to go back.Thanks man I'll give it a shot | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 11:55 PM |
| 1 | From being the funny kid who had no game to the confident man who happens to be funny, Seddit taught me a lot. Here are some of my own personal tips that I have learned outside of here:So how did you build confidence in the first place? | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 04:04 AM |
| 3 | Killing approach anxiety [tip]Lol if overweight trailer trash is your definition of hot then yeah | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 07:49 AM |
| 12 | The key is to stop caring what people think of you, especially what beautiful women think of you.so how do you become your own bad ass? | /r/seduction | 13/10/17 11:51 AM |
| 3 | There is a strong chance you're struggling with women because you're socially disconnected which is a MAJOR RED FLAG!So how do you connect socially? | /r/seduction | 25/09/17 07:20 AM |
| 1 | The Best Advice for Dating You Will Ever Hear.Thank you, awesome explanation | /r/seduction | 16/09/17 06:19 PM |
| 1 | The Best Advice for Dating You Will Ever Hear.How do you not be try hard? | /r/seduction | 16/09/17 10:43 AM |
| 2 | How to avoid text push/pull game turning into awkward power struggle?Most important I ever learned was not playing games. I know it's kind of weird because this is a subreddit all about "game" and shit, but I think game is trash. No body likes playing games (as seen by your girl) and the only people who do are people who will play games back to fuck with you. Now I'm not saying you should be at her beck and call. Just be the person "the game" wants you to be. Someone who is busy and has a lot going on in life, and sometimes that means you can't text back in a tim… | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 11:55 PM |
| 9 | How do I not seem desperate when I am utterly desperate?Have something more important going on in your life | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Any final tips? Attending a massive party in a couple of days (M18)Don't run around like a desperate fuck. Trust me. Focus only on having fun | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 11:35 PM |
| 1 | 12 Reasons Why Working Out is the Single Best Thing You Can Do to Attract WomenShit just saw. Guess mods are really not trying to ship aspects of self improvement | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 06:51 AM |
| 1 | 12 Reasons Why Working Out is the Single Best Thing You Can Do to Attract WomenWhat do you mean? | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 06:47 AM |
| 1 | 12 Reasons Why Working Out is the Single Best Thing You Can Do to Attract WomenLol why? | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 09:04 PM |
| 7 | 12 Reasons Why Working Out is the Single Best Thing You Can Do to Attract WomenSure they can, but I believe getting jacked makes it way easier. A lot of women find muscles sexy, so a guy might need a lot of "game" to compensate for what he might be lacking in that regard. If a guy already has a foot in the door because of appearance, he'll need way less game. And if a dude has solid game AND a great appearance... GAME OVER MAN!! | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 07:06 PM |
| 2 | 12 Reasons Why Working Out is the Single Best Thing You Can Do to Attract WomenI'm not actually saying everyone should take on that diet, I'm just saying if they were to quit eating bull shit they would lose weight. And thank you! | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 06:57 PM |
| 15 | 12 Reasons Why Working Out is the Single Best Thing You Can Do to Attract WomenMaybe, but why not max out what little you have? | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 08:54 AM |
| 4 | 12 Reasons Why Working Out is the Single Best Thing You Can Do to Attract WomenJust realized it came across different. I meant to say it was like the one biggest tool in the tool bag. The whole 80/20 principal | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 08:50 AM |
| 4 | The Power of Empathy in Romantic Relationships & How to Enhance It.Can we ban this fucks channel? He has a spam bot army, all accounts with 6-7 randomly generated letters spamming all sorts of dating subs | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I'm scared of walking up to a girl and she being under 18.cut off her foot and count the rings beforehand | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 09:35 AM |
| 1 | I discovered something that makes me feel incredibly less tense and nervous in social situationsActually, I don't care about that diagnosis. If you do what you always did, you will always get what you got. And it really seems like you're gunning to get what you always got. You're coming up with real good excuses to not even try to improve yourself. | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 08:30 AM |
| 1 | I discovered something that makes me feel incredibly less tense and nervous in social situationsfully professionally diagnosed deficiencie? | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 08:27 AM |
| 1 | I discovered something that makes me feel incredibly less tense and nervous in social situationsBecause you actually have to do something with it. Life is pretty bland if you just eat sleep work. Find something intrinsically rewarding or a hobby you love thats dank. | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 11:04 PM |
| 1 | I discovered something that makes me feel incredibly less tense and nervous in social situationsFrom the very same article I sent you And then there are the traits which ARE within our control: our lifestyle choices, our occupation, how we dress and groom ourselves, our health and fitness, our confidence, our lack of neediness, and our behavior. Another quote If you want to be with amazing women who are open, loving, independent, supportive and nurturing, then you need to become the male equivalent. You need to become an honest, open, and strong man who believes in himself, takes care of h… | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 05:51 AM |
| 1 | I discovered something that makes me feel incredibly less tense and nervous in social situationsI read it but forgot most of the content, i probably subliminally pulled some content out from there haha | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 10:12 PM |
| 1 | I discovered something that makes me feel incredibly less tense and nervous in social situationsappreciate it man! youre going to make it happen for someone else too | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 10:10 PM |
| 1 | I discovered something that makes me feel incredibly less tense and nervous in social situationsi know some cheeky bastards around here are probably are going to do nothing, say it next time they walk into a situation, realize they actually feel like they need someone, and get all pissy when it doesnt work. had to include it | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 10:09 PM |
| 1 | I discovered something that makes me feel incredibly less tense and nervous in social situationsthanks man! | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 10:07 PM |
| 2 | I discovered something that makes me feel incredibly less tense and nervous in social situationscounter solution; pretend like you're trying to collect as many strains of aids as possible. just make sure you snap out of it before you catch yourself trying to catch real aids | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 10:05 PM |
| 5 | I discovered something that makes me feel incredibly less tense and nervous in social situationsFollow up reply: Was just re reading through the thread under a less constrained time schedule and saw your comment again. One thing I wanted to add was, a lot of the time the "awkward as a general rule" thing comes from being needy. Drop the need, you would be a lot less awkward. Imagine your just an average pudgy dude with nothing going on in life, and you're about to approach an attractive girl. You'd probably think, this is the thing thats going to change my life and make me happy! Then in y… | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 10:03 PM |
| 3 | I discovered something that makes me feel incredibly less tense and nervous in social situationstook a lot longer than i thought, but Im gettin there! appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 09:41 PM |
| 5 | I discovered something that makes me feel incredibly less tense and nervous in social situationsYes This is the basis for the best rated book on women, "Models" by Mark Manson Check out this article which is like a snip it from his book: https://markmanson.net/attract-women I can also pm you the notes I took from the book | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 06:16 AM |
| 1 | What if you're kind of screwed up on the most basic level?I always thought it was a bs back story to help him sell products | /r/seduction | 02/07/17 02:35 PM |
| 1 | I'm so afraid of not being liked. What do I do?Any self improvement advice? | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Hey guys, last year I had it mostly together and things were going well, until I fucked it up with one girl and I lost almost all confidence. Today I feel like shit, and want to get back to where I was, but don't know how. Would you mind giving me a hand?So what's the permanent solution here? | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Hey guys, last year I had it mostly together and things were going well, until I fucked it up with one girl and I lost almost all confidence. Today I feel like shit, and want to get back to where I was, but don't know how. Would you mind giving me a hand?That's exactly what I asked for in the end of the post What do you do not to give a shit | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 06:53 AM |
| 1 | How to game "professionals" (strippers, escorts, etc...)You ever express interest at all or just be cool the entire time? | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 09:01 AM |
| 2 | I exchanged numbers with a coworker and told her we should hang out sometime. She hesitates but responds with "sure but just as friends" Where do I go from here?You're going to hang out as friends, have a good time, and keep her in your back pocket as a wing girl or cool friend | /r/seduction | 05/06/17 07:25 AM |
| 1 | How to differentiate between "not interested short reply texts" and texts that just happen to be short?On this girls Snapchat story I saw from a tiny clue she might have started working in the same restaurant chain as me. (It was delivery instructions to a guy in a speedo) I asked her and she said "haha, how did you know?" I told her about what tipped me off, and she asked if I worked delivery like her. I told her I did, but never had the honor of seeing a guy in a speedo, and asked her how it was. She then went into detail about how it was a prank and it was just a fully dressed dude in church. … | /r/seduction | 02/06/17 08:54 PM |
| 6 | When do I get to feel better?Always heard the cure for oneitis is to go out and nail a few more girls. You'll suddenly realize "the one" isn't that special | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 09:56 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean/what do you do when flirting is received poorly?I'm not really trying anything with this girl, just practicing flirting, don't really care about the friend zone, just wondering why she went so hard in the defensive direction | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 01:42 AM |
| 10 | Why can't me and my guy friends ever get girls in our social lives?Are your friends a group people want to be around? Do you all lead successful, fulfilling lives? If you all just sit around reading Reddit and playing video games, and maybe go out once a month, you're not going to be a group that people would like to spend time with. Now if you're a group that's always up to something, then you'll have people wanting to join in. | /r/seduction | 21/05/17 11:02 PM |
| 1 | I've had feelings for one of my best friends for almost three years and I've never been able to decide whether or not to tell her.The sub this book is crazy about is all about being honest. Give it a crack. However I might want to warn you, you want to be honest right from the get go. You're probably in way too deep. My advice would to just become a prize yourself, sleep with a bunch of other girls, then see what happens. | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 03:43 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Grocery Store Cafe Infield, Second Insta-Date!!!You did good, did what you could. Now it's just time to keep doing fun stuff/what makes you happy/ talk to more girls and see if she actually hits you up. Trust me, it's like the universe WANTS her to message you when you don't give a shit. | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Would you apologize in this scenario? Is this a good apology?Once again thank you. Where do you get all this wisdom from? Lol | /r/seduction | 02/05/17 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Would you apologize in this scenario? Is this a good apology?It really did help. Put things into good perspective. Idk if this changes things but I forgot to mention she hit me up over text several times just to see how I was doing. Eventually after her doing enough I invited her out but she flaked. I guess I just need to start moving on to other girls. But like I said I haven't met one that attractive that I clicked with. TBH she wasn't even THAT attractive. Like an 8, but I never get with girls like that. I'm not the most attractive guy, but I wonder if… | /r/seduction | 02/05/17 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Need help! How do I flake? [Serious]Hey don't sweat it. Just next time for reference chat every now and then between every few weeks to remember | /r/seduction | 30/04/17 08:30 AM |
| 9 | Need help! How do I flake? [Serious]own up to your autism how tf you seriously going to set up plans, especially when you know this girl lives far away then forget them? | /r/seduction | 30/04/17 07:30 AM |
| 4 | Got myself dinner at a girls house, how do I turn it into sex?Context man. What if shes just expecting to chill? | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 12:00 AM |
| 4 | Using a throwaway to remain anon, but - going through a depression (not diagnosed but I have been a zombie)due to finally losing virginity at 22, need help getting over this state, any tips would be helpful.Girls don't stop being hot once you get out of college. There's still plenty of opportunities out there | /r/seduction | 21/04/17 09:41 AM |
| 14 | Success and Attempts Go Hand in HandCan you please explain how time is running out in the early twenties? I just turned twenty and youre freaking me the fuck out | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 11:36 AM |
| 5 | I feel my girlfriend pulling away or losing interestPeople lose interest. That's just the way it is. Live your life have fun. Secondly the logistics of the relationship are fucked up. Like not showing up to any of her shit or not having seen her in like 2 months. How are you supposed to have a healthy relationship without seeing each other for that long? | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 06:45 AM |
| 1 | No matter how much I go out, I don't learn how to tease girls and be challengingNow you're overthinking it. And expecting anything if anyone is only going to lead to disappointment. Because people have free will and do whatever the fuck they want. Also, think about how fucked up that is. Let's put the shoe on the other foot Imagine on the internet there is some fat, disgusting, pos of a woman asking why you wont suckle on her toes. "I deserve it, I do my hair, I dress nice!" She might say. "But you're still disgusting, I don't like you!" You'd say. Then she would come back … | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 06:55 PM |
| 1 | No matter how much I go out, I don't learn how to tease girls and be challengingI disagree. Practice makes perfect and this shit is as hard/complicated as you make it. And I guess I meant to say social circle game in this context. | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 07:14 PM |
| 1 | No matter how much I go out, I don't learn how to tease girls and be challengingExactly. Well not exactly, I bet when you dress to the nines, you're doing it to pick up chicks. This automatically puts you in try hard mode. (Looking all desperate and shit) Now you just need to be able to dress well because you like looking good and flashing some fancy threads. Not because you're trying to pick up girls. Then you'd pull probably even harder. Because every lady's crazy about a sharp dressed man. | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 05:17 PM |
| 13 | No matter how much I go out, I don't learn how to tease girls and be challengingThis is going to sound strange. And probably make you angry. But almost any amount of desperation/nervousness is pretty noticeable. The times where I scored the most is where I tried the least. When I ran around parties looking to score, everyone noticed, no one liked it, and no one responded well. When I was out with only the goal of having fun, I didn't give a shit. I was laid back, cool, and just a good time. If I saw a girl I liked, I talked to her because I wanted to and said what I wanted … | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 09:32 AM |
| 1 | No matter how much I go out, I don't learn how to tease girls and be challengingAlso, maybe just work on easy day game for a while | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 09:01 AM |
| 11 | No matter how much I go out, I don't learn how to tease girls and be challengingProbably because you're nervous and it's plastered all over your face when you approach. I had the same issue. Quit trying so damn hard | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 08:58 AM |
| 18 | No matter how much I go out, I don't learn how to tease girls and be challengingI honestly think negs and a lot of pua tactics are super dumb. You're going to be super robotic and tripping over yourself saying "execute dhv tactic #9395. Am I alpha enough? How's my frame holding up? Pass the shit test" And no shit that's not going to work as an opener. Right off the bat your just fucking insulting her. Try just having a genuine conversation. And every once and a while crack a joke and tease her. "Oh there's that snobby rich girl side" 😏 (insert shit eating grin) | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Help me score this chickTake the fosho one. The other one is uninteresting. End of story | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 04:46 AM |
| 1 | What does Mark Manson say about approaching?I did, even took notes, just can't seem to find any that I took on approaching | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Its Offical Boys. I Got Lost in the Sauce, and I need help getting out. How do you get out of your damn head, feel cool, and just not worry about whats "Alpha" or "Beta". Almost every interaction I have now feels like a test.How am I supposed to do more if I'm fucking bugging out and feeling nervous, that can't possibly go over well | /r/seduction | 30/03/17 10:56 AM |
| 0 | The REAL reason you don't have a girlfriend (and why it's NOT your fault)do you have stats that prove that women get 200-300 matches a week? | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 06:24 AM |
| 1 | I just don't know how to make a girl feel interested in me.I really struggle with the whole "don't impress them" and "don't be boring" thing. Like wtf how do i juggle both | /r/seduction | 17/03/17 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Meeting girl for first time. She may/may not be with parents. HELP?It's easy to talk a big game but it might collapse in real life All you can do is what you do | /r/seduction | 17/03/17 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Meeting girl for first time. She may/may not be with parents. HELP?Relax. Have fun, be nice, and just get to know her, or her parents for that matter. Don't be so desperate homie | /r/seduction | 17/03/17 12:45 AM |
| 3 | How do you tease girls?So what are you supposed to ask them? | /r/seduction | 17/03/17 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Do I flock to the attractive girls like the other guys or waitIm not very good at playing games like intentionally shifting attention to someone else. I either end up under or over doing it and come across as weird. | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 08:44 PM |
| 1 | When Girls Want To Be "Friends First," Should I Continue?"Characteristics of someone oozing of desperation == pretending to be okay with rejection and saying they'll move on, lies about it and tries to go for the girl again even though the girl clearly doesn't like him. Can't take a hint, most likely won't accept a straightforward "no, not interested" either." accurate up until that last part with my current oneitis. damn that hit hard | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 07:40 AM |
| 9 | Cure Your Loneliness In 60 Secs Or LessWon't play for me for some reason. Anyone care to summarize? Thanks! | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 09:21 AM |
| 7 | 28M hooking up with girl claiming to just turn 18?Why even bother with that, hella creepy tbh | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 08:11 AM |
| 1 | So What is it that You do that Makes You Feel Like, "The Prize" or Raises Your Self Esteem?So what makes you not give a shit? | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 01:34 AM |
| 5 | "i don't have time for your pettiness today"I think you're over reacting a bit | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 09:44 PM |
| 5 | This cute girl was sad today what should I have done?Homie you're way too young for this shit and def overthinking it. Just have fun and make friends for now. Improve yourself and learn to love yourself without the need for love of others. Then let the hunt begin in college As for this girl, just be nice and try to be a friend. How would you have treated a bro in this situation | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 05:24 AM |
| 1 | FIELD REPORT: Hottie From TinderKills me every time | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 09:51 AM |
| 5 | How would you pick up a girl at a University and seduce her without having to spend money on a date and without having a private apartment/place for yourself?Shit dude, are times that tight? | /r/seduction | 24/02/17 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to do everything right and still have negative results? Really frustrated - [RANT]I think approaching outside of parties/clubs is not favorable. Sure there are videos of guys getting phone numbers but any girl will give up a phone number, they just won't call back. And once again, I think your "not trying" is different from the appropriate "not trying". Your not trying probably looked a lot like being all nervous and afraid of what to say or do next, and afraid of what someone will think of you. And probably not being the best version of yourself. An example of the appropriat… | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to do everything right and still have negative results? Really frustrated - [RANT]Jesus christ man. This is getting painful. You sound like such a fucking quitter. "I cold try lifting but it probably wouldn't work out for me so im not going to." I guaranee youll put hella mass on if you start lifting and eating. And once again, "How do I love myself if I have nothing women want" Its not about what the women want. Its about what you want. If you want to travel the world then do it. If you want to be a ninja bad ass, take some karate lessons. Want to cook then cook. Do that kin… | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to do everything right and still have negative results? Really frustrated - [RANT]this brings up another point 5) or whatever it is: Whos going to love you if you dont love yourself first? Learn to just be happy with yourself and things will start working, and first step is to quit talking shit about yourself. Talk to yourself like a five year old | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 05:22 AM |
| 1 | I am to goofy how do i stop?Just don't be needy. I was in the same boat not too long ago when I realized something. Trying to make people laugh and be funny was really off putting because it was obvious I was desperate for attention and validation. Now I make way less jokes, but people still think I'm hilarious because I say them when I think they're funny and not when other people will like them. Also, being slightly serious isn't a problem. Look at bond. The dude might be kind of witty, but he's pretty serious most of th… | /r/seduction | 15/02/17 09:05 PM |
| 7 | Is it possible to do everything right and still have negative results? Really frustrated - [RANT]There are a whole bunch of points I can throw around here. 1) desperation isn't a good smell on anyone. Quit trying to impress girls and just be impressive. It's so much easier to get laid when you're not trying it's stupid. One of the few things in life where trying less will get you more. Don't ever expect anything out of a girl. As a matter of fact, anticipate that she's a bitch. 2) maybe she really was working all day. That doesn't mean she lied about her boyfriend or anything. Unless you as… | /r/seduction | 15/02/17 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Help with gym girlRule of thumb; never hit on a girl at the gym or at work. They kind of have to go to those places to do what they need to do. Maybe invite her to a group outing first. Then maybe set something up. Also, we have to look at the bigger picture: If she rejects you, are you going to stop going to the gym out of fear of it being awkward. Pro tip; you shouldn't because health and gains are more important. Basically don't create a situation that stops you from the gym | /r/seduction | 09/02/17 03:56 PM |
| 1 | I try too hard and end up saying stupid shit or acting super goofy in groups, and it just naturally happens. How can I stop myself from being a total dork in that regard?Hey I realize this comment is way later, but I thought about something. What if me not saying anything or not trying to be goofy ends up making me boring? Like one of the dudes on the other end of the spectrum who are awkward for not saying anything? | /r/seduction | 30/12/16 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Tips or pointers for this text convo, think I messed up a littleSeems a little stiff and robotic. Work on your flow a little, I just would have been like, "Hey this is x, I met you earlier, just wanted to say I had a good time meeting you" or something. Just work on having more flow and keeping it easy | /r/seduction | 29/10/16 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Infield of Me Gaming A Hottie + Her Sister At Target lolI just feel like you're a good looking guy so its way easier for you to pick up hotties. Im kinda strange looking so i have to lower my standards. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Going into witness protection program after making a fool of myself in front of a girlId just pretend like it never happened | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 06:35 AM |
| 3 | Going into witness protection program after making a fool of myself in front of a girlHow is this a big deal? So fucking what, just move on | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 01:37 AM |
| 2 | 7 months of PUA, still a virgin but got with a girl I seriously fancied.Question, what do you do that helps attract these girls? | /r/seduction | 11/10/16 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Am I Doing Too Much...? but College...Wait, kind of confused, can you rephrase that? Like are you trying to say you used to just treat girls as friends? Or are you saying you still do? And when you say you can't treat them as just friends you mean you feel like you have to kind of make a move or something? | /r/seduction | 08/10/16 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Am I Doing Too Much...? but College...what is it that you do that makes girls flirt with you? | /r/seduction | 08/10/16 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Girls seem to come when you don't try. But then I read about all the things you have to try to get them. How do you achieve the balance of trying but not tryingBut how do you escalate then, because you're kind of "trying" at that point | /r/seduction | 07/10/16 08:02 PM |
| 2 | I know this post is going to open itself a lot to troll replies but... How I become "Cool"?So how do you achieve that? | /r/seduction | 02/10/16 05:10 PM |
| 2 | How to Overcome the "Nice Guy Syndrome"Two quick questions, I try to be a nice guy not by doing favors and stuff, by being likeable, and it's very repelling. How do I not be such a people pleaser? Also what do you do about social awkwardness? | /r/seduction | 02/10/16 04:23 AM |
| 4 | How do I fix people pleasing tendencies and fix my need to have everyone like me?Honestly I just thought his answer was pretty shitty | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 11:01 PM |
| 1 | There's a very large chance this isn't going to go well, but fuck it, I'm going to try and bust a move on my crush (that I've had a bit of a past with) soon.Hey so one quick update. I texted her and asked to hang out for the first time in a while and said this week isn't good because she has 3 tests and responsibilities for her charity work. Does that count as the typical rule of "not scheduling another date" or is that something legit because she provided reason? Also, she continued to text me after | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 10:21 PM |
| 2 | There's a very large chance this isn't going to go well, but fuck it, I'm going to try and bust a move on my crush (that I've had a bit of a past with) soon.Hey so one quick update. I texted her and asked to hang out for the first time in a while and said this week isn't good because she has 3 tests and responsibilities for her charity work. Does that count as the typical rule of "not scheduling another date" or is that something legit because she provided reason? Also she continued to text me after about random shit that I didn't bring up | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 10:21 PM |
| 1 | There's a very large chance this isn't going to go well, but fuck it, I'm going to try and bust a move on my crush (that I've had a bit of a past with) soon.Also, if I ask her out, should it be a group outing, or one on one? | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 08:25 PM |
| 1 | There's a very large chance this isn't going to go well, but fuck it, I'm going to try and bust a move on my crush (that I've had a bit of a past with) soon.Also, should it be one on one or a group outing? | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 08:24 PM |
| 1 | There's a very large chance this isn't going to go well, but fuck it, I'm going to try and bust a move on my crush (that I've had a bit of a past with) soon.Should it be a one on one date or should I just invite her to a group outing first? | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I fix people pleasing tendencies and fix my need to have everyone like me?What if I'm not trying to read a whole book, or I'm just looking for a straight answer? | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 06:49 PM |
| 1 | There's a very large chance this isn't going to go well, but fuck it, I'm going to try and bust a move on my crush (that I've had a bit of a past with) soon.Actually, forgot to mention this, we did make out before and she did express interest in sex, but things got in the way. Hopefully I can make it happen again | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 09:07 AM |
| 2 | There's a very large chance this isn't going to go well, but fuck it, I'm going to try and bust a move on my crush (that I've had a bit of a past with) soon.Note of importance I forgot to mention before, we have made our before, and she has expressed interest in sex before, but things got screwed up. Going to try and go for it again | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 09:06 AM |
| 1 | There's a very large chance this isn't going to go well, but fuck it, I'm going to try and bust a move on my crush (that I've had a bit of a past with) soon.Question. I have a real tendancy to want to make people like me, what do I do about that? Like how do I not givea shit about what other people think? | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 08:30 AM |
| 2 | There's a very large chance this isn't going to go well, but fuck it, I'm going to try and bust a move on my crush (that I've had a bit of a past with) soon.absolutely, and no, just ask her out, maybe invite her to an event, go for the kiss. Not really sure, just havent seen her in a while and feel like spending time with her | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 08:23 AM |
| 1 | There's a very large chance this isn't going to go well, but fuck it, I'm going to try and bust a move on my crush (that I've had a bit of a past with) soon.Also, I just get so nervous because shes always hanging out with cool dudes. I got to work on being a cooler kind of guy, but I think that comes after this. | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 07:46 AM |
| 2 | There's a very large chance this isn't going to go well, but fuck it, I'm going to try and bust a move on my crush (that I've had a bit of a past with) soon.nope, just ask her out, maybe go for the kiss | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 07:44 AM |
| 1 | [FR]Last night, I literally had a girl climbing all over me. Today she really didn't want anything to do with me. I don't get whats wrong with me, and why I can't attract girls in the long run.If she ignores your texts, not worth it homie | /r/seduction | 18/09/16 10:28 PM |
| 2 | [FR]Last night, I literally had a girl climbing all over me. Today she really didn't want anything to do with me. I don't get whats wrong with me, and why I can't attract girls in the long run.Also, what do you recommend for not wanting to try hard to make people like you? It's an innate trait of mine at this point | /r/seduction | 18/09/16 06:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Last night, I literally had a girl climbing all over me. Today she really didn't want anything to do with me. I don't get whats wrong with me, and why I can't attract girls in the long run.But social interactions are a two way street, it's kind of hard to be selfish | /r/seduction | 18/09/16 05:17 PM |
| 2 | /r/rateme seems to seems to think I'm a 6/10. A few questions on how I proceedI've just been having trouble with the girls I want and I'm just wondering if it's because of how I look. I mean I do great with girls I'm not into, it's the pretty ones I get fucked up by | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 05:57 PM |
| 1 | What to do about a friend that is way more attractive to you, and how to excite girls when you're a pretty cool and collected person?im interested | /r/seduction | 12/09/16 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Are Tinder Girls Always This Flakey? (2 Matches, both when getting down to the date go silent)I understand its far out, but I'm also busy this week, so its kind of rough you know? | /r/seduction | 05/09/16 06:56 AM |
| 1 | So my game is on point when I'm not even trying (examples inside). While this is awesome, how can I learn to "turn my game on" and apply it to girls I want?Sort of. Every time I caught a win, its never like the FRs posted here where dudes walked up, ran some game, and got results. I would like to know how to pull that off. | /r/seduction | 29/08/16 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Do you meditate? If yes, why? If not, why not?What kind of meditation do you do? | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 07:44 AM |
| 1 | I hit rock bottom. Where do I go from here?Awesome, thanks for the advice man! I'll definitely keep trying. I just want to ask how important is self amusement in all of this? I realize I get really anxious when dealing with many of these scenarios and try to win over other people, so I feel like I need to make myself happy. How critical would that be? | /r/seduction | 26/08/16 06:19 PM |
| 4 | 19 yo male in college. I'm starting to attract girls, but usually its not the type of girls I want. Would it be bad to change to fit the demographic that I want? If not, how do I do it?I never put this in but I didn't mean douche as an insult, but as like a description of how they look you know? | /r/seduction | 24/08/16 04:01 PM |
| 19 | Leaving a note on her carNo, thats fucking creepy. Its also chicken shit I honestly don't think that's the time to approach. | /r/seduction | 21/08/16 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Say you know a girl a little already and you've spent a bit of time together, but you're going on your first date... would inviting her home (without the intention of sleeping with her) be inappropriate?Why not sleep with her? | /r/seduction | 14/08/16 07:29 AM |
| 2 | How can I stop getting nervous?Everyone does man, it's a pretty natural reaction. The thing is just to chill out and have fun! | /r/seduction | 14/08/16 07:28 AM |
| 1 | I try too hard and end up saying stupid shit or acting super goofy in groups, and it just naturally happens. How can I stop myself from being a total dork in that regard?That's the problem. It's not authentic. It's absolutely retarded and seems attention grabby | /r/seduction | 13/08/16 08:18 PM |
| 1 | I try too hard and end up saying stupid shit or acting super goofy in groups, and it just naturally happens. How can I stop myself from being a total dork in that regard?But i don't really think I'm that weird and wacky, it just comes out in groups from a need for validation I believe | /r/seduction | 13/08/16 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Just started this whole "seduction" thing... The result of my number closeI just feel like that's added stress for everyone. Just go on her way, save her a bit of stress and embarrassment | /r/seduction | 29/07/16 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Need help to (over)analyze this occurrence!!!You're young so this over analysis shit makes sense. Reality of the situation is you got to slow down and chill the fuck out. The only other thing you can do is ask her out. I mean what else do you do? | /r/seduction | 29/07/16 06:02 AM |
| 4 | Just started this whole "seduction" thing... The result of my number closeI honestly think that's a terrible idea. Why would you immediately call her and make it awkward? If she's not into you then that's it, no point in calling her on it. | /r/seduction | 29/07/16 05:57 AM |
| 1 | I'm afraid of alienating or weirding people out when the topic of music comes up1) go to /r/lewronggeneration and browse a bit there. Maybe visit some of the top posts of all time there. Recognize if you have any tendencies similar to the people there. 2) Realize that there is no such thing as a "bad opinion". Imagine how stupid it would be if I were to belittle you for liking chocolate ice cream when I like vanilla. It's pretty much the same god damn thing. You'd probably think "okay asshole, just let me enjoy my fucking ice cream, I don't need a lecture why it blows. 3) l… | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Seducing people as an overweight female?From what I understand about human psychology, guys are much more picky about looks than women, so it seems like you got the short end of the stick in that regard. I know 12% body fat is considered the "looking good, but not ridiculously unobtainable" for males. I would do some research and find the equivalent for females and strive for it. | /r/seduction | 22/07/16 09:38 AM |
| 1 | IT IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME TO MAKE EYE CONTACT WITH WOMEN!I find it easier to maintain eye contact with girls than guys. Knowing that there is sexual tension there isawesome | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 09:21 PM |
| -2 | How To SEXUALISE Your Conversations With WomenI'd love to take a look if there are still copies! Thank you! | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Question: Where to F' close in airports or clubs?Hotel? | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Best way to get the friend of a girl you've already been with?But why take a chance at getting your dick in a knot when you can just go and find someone else who won't bring you any grief? | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 10:52 AM |
| 5 | Question: Where to F' close in airports or clubs?What the fuck are you doing where you're fucking in an airport? Take her back to your place homie, Jesus | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Best way to get the friend of a girl you've already been with?And there will be tons more who are attracted to you and fun to hang out with. Go ahead and go after this one if you want, but why would you go after it and possibly get your dick wrapped up into a knot? | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 07:26 AM |
| 3 | Best way to get the friend of a girl you've already been with?You don't. There are literally billions of girls out there, there is no reason to go after this one | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 04:14 AM |
| 1 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HMqZ2PPOLik This is what this post reminded me of | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 12:04 AM |
| 3 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here.This can be true or a ton of bull shit. If you know what a decent person is and act like a decent person, then this statment is true. If you act like an outlandish douche, then no, fuck you, thats your problem and no pseudo intellectual philosophical quotes are going to help you. | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Game for quiet introverted peopleBeing attractive in text is nearly pointless I'd suggest lowering your standard for what you should say. Speak your mind. Watch some comedians to see if you can learn and develop wit. | /r/seduction | 19/07/16 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Game for quiet introverted peopleIn addition to what I said about in my other reply, don't aim to make the girl fall for you through your flirty statements. Think about having fun with them. Like I never flirt with a girl and think "hey, flirting with her is going to make me score". I think "hey, I'm about to say some ridiculous, hysterical, and fun shit." | /r/seduction | 18/07/16 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Game for quiet introverted peopleSorta. It's not like you have a timer set on your phone and then launch into flirt mode. Flirting is essentially banter in a way. Just have fun with it, and she'll pick it up if she's having fun too | /r/seduction | 18/07/16 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Game for quiet introverted peoplethey need results How about offering something to go on instead of being a fucking twat? And quite frankly, I think I gave him enough to go on. | /r/seduction | 18/07/16 06:49 AM |
| 3 | Game for quiet introverted peopleBeing extroverted doesn't mean being incredibly witty or funny, it's just about being a part of the conversation. Ask questions or add bits related to the story, and you'll do well enough. Also, don't worry about talking all the time. People will be much more into a person who says less, but believes it is impactful, than someone who spits out a bunch of bull shit | /r/seduction | 17/07/16 08:26 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Quick Cold Approach Makeout while on Holiday w FamilyNo I agree, strong eye contact is the shit, but once again I don't think it melts total hotties like you claim unless you're pretty attractive yourself. I was in the same scenario this weekend, on vacation, and tried making eye contact with most potential hotties I see. Pretty sure none had any real interest, much less looked back multiple times and started giggling. I've always been told I'm operating at the 5-7 level in terms of the dime scale too | /r/seduction | 17/07/16 05:29 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Quick Cold Approach Makeout while on Holiday w FamilyWhen I hear stories like this and think I can never pull off anything like this. Op has to be a total man dime (10/10) to pull this shit off | /r/seduction | 17/07/16 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Being rejected isn't that big of a deal, but this rejection has me pissed off because it was bull shitMaybe. I struggle with girls and they're usually pretty few and far between! Thanks for the advice. I know you said don't lose your dignity over it, but I really appreciate it if I could get your opinion and know if I was the one who fucked up or if she over reacted. Thanks again! | /r/seduction | 15/07/16 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Most guys here will tell you to clean up if you're not good looking. What if you clean up and you're still not good looking?Say if I was coming with an empty tool box, (there's nothing too exciting about me) what should I start with? | /r/seduction | 14/07/16 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Most guys here will tell you to clean up if you're not good looking. What if you clean up and you're still not good looking?What would you include in said tool box? | /r/seduction | 14/07/16 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl sat next to me in the bus, was she interested in me?Only one way to find out homie! | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 09:23 AM |
| 1 | I used to joke around too much and try to be goofy to get validation. Now I'm trying to find a balance in being naturally funny, but not being too boring. What do I do?Okay, so just slow down and resist the urge to say shit for attention? | /r/seduction | 11/07/16 05:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The most pathetic FR you will ever readOne on hand, props for actually making a move and asking her out. A lot of men don't have the stones | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, I need help!http://postmasculine.com/shut-up-and-kiss-her/comment-page-1 | /r/seduction | 09/07/16 08:44 AM |
| 2 | It ended when everything was perfect and its unexplainableBruh, the minute she said you have to wait a month should have been the time you walked out, and or said "I don't play like that, text me when you're free and maybe we can do something". Even that is a bit much tho | /r/seduction | 09/07/16 08:43 AM |
| 3 | How do you know when to make your move and how often to?2nd date there should def be a kiss, 3rd probably make out if not fucking, 4th def fucking. Or whatever you actually want to do. If you think "damn I want to kiss this girl" then do it, regardless of outcome. Same applies with sex etc | /r/seduction | 05/07/16 10:28 PM |
| 3 | I have a hard time believing I am in the league of the women I'm attracted to, and even feel like there are guys leagues above me!So what do you think is solid for self esteem? I always hear hobbies, passions, and positive thoughts, but what do you think? | /r/seduction | 04/07/16 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Being rejected isn't that big of a deal, but this rejection has me pissed off because it was bull shitHey man, thanks for your time. I know thats the proper answer, but it still sucks a bit because like I said, girls have been few and far between for me. Especially pretty and cool ones. I'll get it here eventually | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 08:15 AM |
| 3 | [Question] I want to ask a girl out by facebook but I've never talked to her, I only saw her a couple of times a school. Should I go for it? if so what do I do?I'd just say move on homie. There are many beautiful women out there. | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 05:41 AM |
| 1 | [update]: Mixed signals, not sure if I'm too deep in the friend zoneFuck it homie, you can't make her do anything. You act like the real fucking prize you are, and show her your not down to play games or be a B string player and move the fuck on. If she wants you she'll hit you up. Chances are she'll want you when she hits you up. | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 05:07 AM |
| 4 | [Question] How to ease away from being the role of an emotional tampon without being a complete dickThere isn't a door to have left open in the future. Just treat her like a guy friend. You wouldn't go way too far out of your way for one of your guy friends unless he is a really close friend. Same logic in my book. | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 05:04 AM |
| 3 | Why do pickup gurus give such absurd advice?While I agree that that's not helpful, and could easily be explained in a much more appropriate fashion, the answer is in there. Don't TRY! Don't think "aw man, if I say this I could probably make her laugh!" Or "I hope this makes her laugh!" Just say what's on your mind and makes YOU laugh. Don't really care if it's funny or not, and don't say it for the sake of being funny, say it because you want to! I know that's rough, but hopefully it makes sense | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Frustrating one sided conversations - I just want to give upThat's naturally how things are most of the time. Or just back up and let them front the load, trust me, if they want to talk to you, they will | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 10:32 PM |
| 1 | What was the one thing that made the biggest difference for you?Would you mind elaborating on giving a fuck? I always hear this but don't quite totally understand | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Was this a typical flake, or did I just read too far into it and simply assumed she flaked?Excellent points all around. The reason I let her "take the lead" was because I heard the theory that if they're into you, they'll hit you up, and this has worked for me on several occasions before. Thanks for your input by the way! | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 09:14 AM |
| 3 | Girl I met on tinder. I wanted to get rid of the virginity. Then pussied out. Hehehee feelsbadfamWhy? | /r/seduction | 26/06/16 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Was this a typical flake, or did I just read too far into it and simply assumed she flaked?Theres a bit of back story where I could kind of confirm she was, but hey, thats probably a safe call too. | /r/seduction | 25/06/16 11:03 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about newbies trying "day game"?Tyler talks a lot about getting into meditation and stuff for those that are autistic or have anxiety issues. Maybe that would help. | /r/seduction | 23/06/16 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Male,18 Going to make a move on the girl I liked for 4 years.This doesn't sound like that good of a plan at all. First off, you have a "plan". "Plans" are straight garbage because they never work, and they aren't just going to make some girl like you when they unravel. Secondly, it sounds like you're kind of inviting yourself to this birthday party. The third, and most glaring issue, is the self confidence. You work on this immediately. Without it, you won't have any success what so ever. I think once you get self confidence in line, you might stand a rea… | /r/seduction | 23/06/16 10:01 AM |
| 1 | After breaking dry-spell. Absolute zero desire for sexHow did you get to god mode in a month? | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 02:58 AM |
| 6 | Rejected by girl, should I keep trying?Regardless, on to the next one. Everybody up in this bitch talks about abundance mentality and I feel like you should take note. Imagine you have a bag of chips. You aren't going to lose your shit over one chip that you accidentally dropped right? Just reach into the bag and grab the next chip. | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 08:07 PM |
| 16 | Rejected by girl, should I keep trying?This bitch gave you herpes. On to the next one | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Neill Strauss expertly negs Jessica Alba after being challenged to run game on her. Nobody notices. (3.58)Dude they're such assholes to him!!! | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 05:27 AM |
| 4 | If you're a virgin or heavily unexperienced, should you take the "gimmes" (aka girls who are unnatrractive, but are into you)?I guess. On one hand I feel like I should lower my standards so I could just stick my dick in a hole and get rid of the v card, but on the other I wouldn't have the type of sex I would like to have where I'm like eating her out and its passionate and shit. | /r/seduction | 17/06/16 09:07 AM |
| 2 | If you're a virgin or heavily unexperienced, should you take the "gimmes" (aka girls who are unnatrractive, but are into you)?Maybe I'm a bit dense, but could you please explain this? | /r/seduction | 17/06/16 07:56 AM |
| 1 | If you're a virgin or heavily unexperienced, should you take the "gimmes" (aka girls who are unnatrractive, but are into you)?Question though, why? | /r/seduction | 17/06/16 07:01 AM |
| 1 | I feel like my number 1 reason why i turn off girls is because how annoying i am.Thanks for the advice. I catch myself joking a bunch and could tell I probably go a bit over board with it sometimes. If you have any more advice for dancing monkey syndrome I would love to hear it | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 08:36 PM |
| 1 | I feel like my number 1 reason why i turn off girls is because how annoying i am.Say this is a bit of a "learned behavior" where one is used to doing this most of their life. How would one break it? | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Help - Reading flirty, touchy-feely girls and women!1) Depends. How was she touching before, how was she touching now? 2) Depends. Is she talking about something deep? It's hard to dick around when discussing something serious | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 08:17 PM |
| 14 | I feel like my number 1 reason why i turn off girls is because how annoying i am.Jesus man slow down. Even your text seems a million miles an hour. Notice most people who aren't weird or are super attractive are usually slow in their movements and speech. The difficult part is also slowing down your thoughts. | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Short guy problemsAs another commented said, compensate by being well rounded. Proper posture too. | /r/seduction | 14/06/16 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like the girls I find unattractive or am not interested in usually are attracted to me, while those I am interested in don't find me attractive?The key I've been missing all this time! But for real, if you are supposed to show interest (as this sub often suggests) doesn't that already make your behavior a bit different? | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like the girls I find unattractive or am not interested in usually are attracted to me, while those I am interested in don't find me attractive?Thanks again! Another question I have is if your supposed to show a bit of interest, doesn't that shape your behavior a bit different than around girls you don't care about? | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 11:28 PM |
| 2 | I've been following seddit's advice and started smiling at girls I make eye contact with when I walk down the street. Lately I've been getting a few smiles back! In this context, is a smile a sign to approach, or are they just being friendly?Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 10:10 PM |
| 3 | How To Become More Attractive To Women (VIDEO)TL;DW: 1)Embrace being different 2) Accept you are enough RIGHT NOW! 3)She's human like you 4)Embrace your sexual desire 5)Build a life worth living! (Social circle, interests, hobbies, passions) | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like the girls I find unattractive or am not interested in usually are attracted to me, while those I am interested in don't find me attractive?Thanks for your input! The question I now have is how do I practice/get better at this? | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like the girls I find unattractive or am not interested in usually are attracted to me, while those I am interested in don't find me attractive?Solid answer, thank you for your input. The question is how do I practice this? Just telling myself this mid conversation or something? | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like the girls I find unattractive or am not interested in usually are attracted to me, while those I am interested in don't find me attractive?That makes sense, and seems very obvious. My only question is how do I become more at ease around beautiful women, and default that natural urge to appease them? | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Looks matter enormously. Seductions useless if you are ugly.Who says below average? Also, what have you done to actually improve? Have you gone to the gym, changed wardrobe, got an appropriate hair cut? | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Looks matter enormously. Seductions useless if you are ugly.Post pics, i doubt you're as bad looking as you say you are | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 11:02 PM |
| 2 | IM GOING FOR ITUPDATE? | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 11:00 PM |
| 4 | If you suck at reading signals from women (like me) what are some things to look for?Fuck all this noise and read this http://postmasculine.com/shut-up-and-kiss-her/comment-page-1 | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 10:39 PM |
| 4 | First date went well and I am about to ask her out again tonight. This time I will use the word "date"IMO, escalate more. She might be a bit concerned if you aren't moving a bit faster. | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 10:35 PM |
| 17 | Pickup advice for those below 21 but 18 or older?No access to bars, you're still kind of in that weird "age gap" area where if you hit on someone over 21 its kind of weird | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Approach anxiety issues: how can I get over the fear of being judged by other people and coming off as a creep?Mark Manson said something along the lines of, "You can't be a total hunk and amazing piece of ass to some women without being a total creep to others." Learn to approach the group and pay attention to the group as a whole, then slowly single people out. Also, just don't act like a fucking creep. How do you not be a creep? Practice proper posture, speak loudly,slowly, and calmly, present yourself well, dont touch her inappropriately, don't make weirdly sexual statements in a weird time or settin… | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Are self-limiting beliefs really just that?I prefer to think, "Why shouldn't I be able to pull these girls?" "There's nothing that separates me from the dude's getting laid" | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Is She Impossible To Get?You said she is 21 right? If she managed to reach 21 without even kissing a guy, I think there are a couple red flags. I don't know this lady and can't speak on her behalf, but I feel like if I did, just based on that alone I would be HIGHLY skeptical, if not giving up on the chase entirely. My advice is to bounce. Hard. | /r/seduction | 08/06/16 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Is She Impossible To Get?Looks like your post got removed, but I think I remember a bit. I don't think having strong family ties would mess with ones love life. I don't remember if this was specified in the post or not, but was she a virgin? I know you said she's never had a boyfriend, but has she had sex? | /r/seduction | 08/06/16 12:51 AM |
| 5 | The hottest girl you've ever seen walks into the room, what do you do?The smart and theoretical side of me says do the only thing you can do: approach and introduce yourself/run your game (be it direct or indirect). I would probably end up complementing her on something not based on her looks (maybe her outfit or something she discussed) and then give her my number and take off after a few minutes and appear to have something to do. The realistic side of me: Probably chicken out. Soon enough I'll be on the smart and theoretical level. | /r/seduction | 08/06/16 12:44 AM |
| 2 | How do you respond to a text like this?Move on. Not everything is a shit test | /r/seduction | 07/06/16 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Pretty sure I maxed my looks or I'm just unconventionality good looking. Should I keep pursuing more attractive girls, or should I just lower my standards? Advice appreciated! (pics inside)Thank you dude. I'm just at that point where I'm tired of 8s and 9s eluding me and really want to close that gap! | /r/seduction | 07/06/16 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Pretty sure I maxed my looks or I'm just unconventionality good looking. Should I keep pursuing more attractive girls, or should I just lower my standards? Advice appreciated! (pics inside)Do you have personal experience in PPL? And would I be able to put on a decent amount of mass by the end of summer? | /r/seduction | 06/06/16 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Is She Impossible To Get?What do you mean by family oriented and family bonds? | /r/seduction | 06/06/16 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Pretty sure I maxed my looks or I'm just unconventionality good looking. Should I keep pursuing more attractive girls, or should I just lower my standards? Advice appreciated! (pics inside)Ty homie, off to the gym shortly | /r/seduction | 06/06/16 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Pretty sure I maxed my looks or I'm just unconventionality good looking. Should I keep pursuing more attractive girls, or should I just lower my standards? Advice appreciated! (pics inside)Ty homie, I'll be off to the gym shortly | /r/seduction | 06/06/16 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Pretty sure I maxed my looks or I'm just unconventionality good looking. Should I keep pursuing more attractive girls, or should I just lower my standards? Advice appreciated! (pics inside)But would that actually help at all? Like can I climb that 1-10 scale with just muscle mass alone? | /r/seduction | 06/06/16 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Am I just lazy or am I picking up the wrong hobbies?Youre right, I am young. But I really don't know what I want to be passionate about you know? I mean I like hiking and traveling and stuff, but I don't know if that brings about the same kind of interest as guitar or what not. | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Everyone says "you have to make a move" or "always escalate and make your intentions known". But then you turn right around and here "don't try and don't have a motive". So what am I supposed to do? Try or not try?Okay, so say I'm doing. I'm kinoing, I'm flirting, I'm doing all I can do bed this girl. Is it a good or bad things to have an end game in mind? To go for what you want? | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 07:43 PM |
| 9 | I get more female attention when I'm not actively trying to get numbers or something out of the interaction.It makes sense, but at the same time I feel like its a bit contradictory. For instance, if their is a girl I want to have sex with, that will be on my mind. If you look for signs, and make moves on these supposed signs, you're kind of following that ulterior motive thing. I mean, where does it really cross from "trying and not trying"? And what about that advice about attempting to escalate around here as long as she totally hasn't shut you down? | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Attracting girls, but not the girls I want. Is the whole "there are no leagues" thing bull shit?Forgive me for being skeptical, but how do I believe you? First off, you could look like Channing Tatum for all I know. Also, it seems like you make a living off selling game advice, so it could be just telling me and people like me what they want to hear. Maybe you're right, but you can see where I'm skeptical | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 03:22 AM |
| 7 | Attracting girls, but not the girls I want. Is the whole "there are no leagues" thing bull shit?So what is it that makes YOU cool? How are you so certain that you're cool? | /r/seduction | 28/05/16 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Attracting girls, but not the girls I want. Is the whole "there are no leagues" thing bull shit?So what does it take to genuinely not give a fuck the way you do? Obviously the answer is confidence, but what is it you do/think that gives you confidence? | /r/seduction | 28/05/16 09:21 PM |
| 1 | The Key to Approach AnyoneI'm in the same boat with the being weird thing. | /r/seduction | 27/05/16 04:13 AM |
| -2 | How do I change this deep rooted mindset that I am weird?I just feel like the weird ones don't hook up with the girls they want to | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How do I change this deep rooted mindset that I am weird?I'm actually ENTJ! | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 05:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I change this deep rooted mindset that I am weird?This was awesome, thanks man! | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 09:58 AM |
| -4 | How do I change this deep rooted mindset that I am weird?The problem is I'm not that interested in connecting with weirdos. And how do I be a little less deep if thats the case? I'd like to be normal (even though I pretty much am) | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 09:46 AM |
| 3 | How do I change this deep rooted mindset that I am weird?"How do I repair break lines?" "Repair them" Solid advice bro | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 09:45 AM |
| 1 | At the start of the school year, I'll be moving into a student apartment complex. What could my roommates and I do to make our apartment a cool place people want to hang out? (Gimmicks, events, parties, etc)That's a given | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 11:11 PM |
| 8 | Never stop Kino [FR] [drunk repotr]Get off your phone you drunk bastard | /r/seduction | 15/05/16 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Girl is on the fence about me. What do I do?Not singling her out of course, I want to sleep with tons of other girls as well, but sleeping with her would be pretty cool too. | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Girl is on the fence about me. What do I do?Not singling her out of course, I want to sleep with tons of other girls as well, but sleeping with her would be pretty cool too. | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Girl is on the fence about me. What do I do?The answer is move on and I totally understand it. Oneitis and all that. but in your personal opinion, could I still sleep with this girl if I come back from summer a better, sexier version of myself? Once again, I know thats feeding into that scarcity mindset, but this girl is insanely hot and I'd love to be able to pull it off. | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 06:43 PM |
| 1 | About to lose my virginity in a few hours. Any last minute tips?Yo, how do you change positions? Do you just say something or just kind of make it happen? | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 12:47 AM |
| 1 | About to lose my virginity in a few hours. Any last minute tips?How do you change positions. Do you tell her or just make it happen or what? | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 12:46 AM |
| 1 | About to lose my virginity in a few hours. Any last minute tips?Question. How do you Change positions? Would I say something or just make it happen or what? | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 12:46 AM |
| 0 | About to lose my virginity in a few hours. Any last minute tips?She is rather promiscuous.... I know it's not worth it, but I'd helllllllla love to eat this girl ouy | /r/seduction | 08/05/16 10:43 PM |
| 1 | About to lose my virginity in a few hours. Any last minute tips?I've never eaten a girl out before, should I try to on my first go or nah? | /r/seduction | 08/05/16 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you achieve full fulfillment/outcome independence/confidence?Its been a thought, but I don't know if I want to go on medication and stuff. I also question if I actually need it or not. Like what if its all just mindset and not actual depression. | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 05:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you achieve full fulfillment/outcome independence/confidence?Thanks for the input! Being 100% honest, I really don't have a purpose. I mean, I'm slowly becoming a firefighter, but I don't really know if that is a "purpose" or not. I work out, but not as hard or consistently as I should. I'm in a fraternity and do stuff for that, but it isn't really making progress and I don't get as much satisfaction out of it as I should. I really just need to work on my thought process | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Why You Need to Start Pursuing the Hottest Girls You Know Right Now (And What I Learned from Personal Experience)For sure. Quick question. My friend said that the girl thinks im cool but isn't looking for a serious relationship right now, but wants to keep talking to me and see where it goes. She then texted me and asked to get dinner Is that a cop out line or something kind of legit? | /r/seduction | 04/05/16 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Some approaching/conversation tips by WoujoTips on confidence/feeling fulfilled? | /r/seduction | 03/05/16 05:52 AM |
| 2 | I have the problem RSDTyler talks about where "my mind runs deep and is highly analytical". How do I stay in the present moment like he does and just have fun?Sounds solid, just need to figure out how to stand my ground in the present and not shrink into my head | /r/seduction | 14/04/16 01:58 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Last Night's Shit Show, The Good, The Bad, and The UglyBut not in the genuine attraction kind of way. Its more of a mission kind of way. | /r/seduction | 03/04/16 04:23 PM |
| 1 | How to keep calm and be more confident during conversations with attractive women or high value people?Thanks for the input man, but how do you have the ability to go for it with no shame? How do you just mack on girls without caring or coming off desperate? | /r/seduction | 01/04/16 07:32 AM |
| 1 | How to keep calm and be more confident during conversations with attractive women or high value people?Thanks dude! | /r/seduction | 31/03/16 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Newbies: Try the "Honest Beta" approach.Waiting for more comments to come to a consensus on this. | /r/seduction | 29/02/16 11:49 PM |
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