Anyone here feel like there is just too much content to memorize and effectively utilize? What is the bare minimum you actually need and to memorize?

iamthesage · 2016-09-06T10:57:48+00:00

Just start hi or start approaching every girl you find attractive. That's all. Just focus on talking to girls.

Everything else will fall into places. It's amazing how well our brains learn and adapt to be experiences.. Forget about everything else. Trust me.. It works. You will get better. Trust the process. No need to memorize anything..

Just fucking take action..

Life_Uncivilized · 2016-09-06T16:03:44+00:00

As long as you remember to make a move, you'll learn the rest naturally

Woujo · 2016-09-06T12:16:26+00:00

Anyone here feel like there is just too much content to memorize and effectively utilize?

Yes, that's exactly why 90% of PUA shit is useless. You can't have a genuine interaction with another human being when you are thinking of every little tip and trick you've ever learned. It's literally just too much information and there is no way you can have a response in your toolkit to every possible situation.

That's why it's more important to actually become confident and live an awesome life. A lot of these tips and tricks are trying to get you to mimic a confident person, but its impossible because being confident is an EMOTION and you can't mimic that. It's better to naturally become that awesome person.

TheStumblingWolf · 2016-09-06T12:43:27+00:00

Focus on 1 or 2 things at a time.

zhantoo · 2016-09-06T14:34:14+00:00

My suggestion would be to read a bare minimum of theory. Maybe 1-2 hours max. Get the core principles - and bot techniques in your head. This like confidence (not getting the confidence, but understanding the importance of it). And other important traits. Understand what an opener is etc. Only the basics of the basics.

A good way to do this, is to find a pickup dictionary, and make sure you understand - not remember what each word means.

When you have accomplished this you can start approaching. Maybe look for a wing also.

Them do a lot of approaches. I would say the first 20-50 or so, don't analyse what goes wrong, just do it. Then, when you hit the point where you stop shooting bricks. Don't wait till it isn't scary, just the moment you stop feeling like you're about to die, you can start analyzing where your sticking points are.

Each of those, you can Google, and read relevant theory about. But it's important to practice those things a lot.

It might help to go practice very specific on those things, using exercises that will harm your chance of pulling in the specific set, but develops a particular skill.

I would suggest around 1-2 hours of theory per 10 active outside real gaming at this point. If you are out 5 hours, but are choding in a corner for 4 of them, then it counts as 1 hour. If you are gaming, but not practicing the relevant theory, it doesn't count towards the time neither.

When you get to a point where you feel you got the basics. You're funny, confident, not afraid of going after what you want etc.

Then you can start working on more advanced techniques/experimental shit. Whatever you find, it being hypnosis, nlp, dressing up as Santa Claus etc.

If you disagree, or feel I've missed something feel free to comment all of you.

RaptorFalcon · 2016-09-06T15:01:28+00:00

Be confident
Have fun
Don't care about the outcome

darthjedibinks · 2016-09-06T15:47:28+00:00

Get off that couch. Talk to a lot of people. Put yourself in awkward positions. Slowly you will learn the art of attracting people. Note! not just girls but everyone around you.

What you learn this way is like swimming, you will never forget it.

Snazzy_Serval · 2016-09-06T17:40:55+00:00

I have the exact same issue.

My biggest problem right now is that I've read so much PUA material it's all getting jumbled in my head.

The basics of seduction is

Open

Attract

Close

The problem is that there is just so much material out there that I'm having trouble actually finding stuff that I can use. It's just information overload.

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-09-06T19:20:59+00:00

make honest approaches with all demographics / venues. then come back and write in detail what happened, list successes / failures / what should have been done differently then commit to changes.

rmbarnes · 2016-09-06T20:10:42+00:00

Memorize one really simple direct opener, have a few stock talking points, and read about basic assumption stacking. That will get you through the first 100 approaches.

ceedubbs · 2016-09-06T16:17:59+00:00

I have honestly read this and thought there were all these things I need to memorize and practice (and maybe there are some). But honestly, I get to the date, it all leaves my mind BUT.. I have gone on 3 dates since reading this stuff...and what works for me is is A) Being more comfortable/calm B) Just trying saying or doing something that you normally wouldn't..for me it is touching, before reading here I would never touch a girl and then somehow expect her to want to kiss me at the end haha

crazjayz · 2016-09-06T13:48:23+00:00

Bare minimum? Say hi, smile, and be polite. Everything else is just some variation of those 3.

Title	Anyone here feel like there is just too much content to memorize and effectively utilize? What is the bare minimum you actually need and to memorize?
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Date	September 6, 2016 8:43 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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