How can you keep/maintain a girlfriend when they just like to chase ?

axe122 · 2020-01-24T06:43:49+00:00

Let her bring up exclusively that way it’s her idea. You can let a girl know you like her and tell her you love her and shot when she says it to you.

Wait till she brings up relationship and decide if you want that with her or not. Then keep the same attitude and behaviors that got her , decisive, assertive,leader ....... still flirt with her and challenge her. When my girls tells me how much she likes me or can’t wait to see me sometimes I reciprocate and sometimes I play it more indifferently or joke about the fact I’m being indifferent cuz obviously she’s my girl and I wanna see her.

You just wanna let a relationship be her idea and keep her on her toes. Don’t get a title and act the way you think a boyfriends supposed to act cuz that’s how guys get dumped after 6-9months all the time. Titles really don’t mean shit, even marriage, it’s just a trust thing but people walk away from both LTR and marriage all the time without even tryna work on it anymore so don’t get hung up on titles. Just have fun with her wait till she wants exclusivity, decide what you want. Then don’t become a different person, don’t become the idea of what you think a boyfriend or husband does just keep doing the same things you did to get her in the first place while showing a little more direct affection. Like 40% indifference 60% she knows where she stands is probably about how the smoothest relationships work.

The indifference thing is cuz she has to know your willing to leave if she’s not holding up her end of the relationship or she’ll lose respect for you slowly and start thinking about moving on.

You want her doing 70% of the initiation of conversation. She won’t dump you if she’s chasing you, it’s when she knows exactly where she stands 100% and knows your not gonna leave that they start to lose interest for whatever reason. They don’t operate like men and require much more stimulation long term. Guys would be happy staying in and having sex every Friday night, they still want dates and excitement throughout the whole relationship.

It’s really not a lot of work once you know what to do and if you accept this is what it is and make the best of it. You wanna learn to enjoy the process of dating and enjoy taking your girlfriend out. Read the book how to be a 3% man boy Corey Wayne will explain all this stuff to you.

RiteWriter · 2020-01-25T01:47:29+00:00

I just walked away from a guy who took this too far and really loved him. Broke me.

dominiquebache · 2020-01-24T05:45:08+00:00

By honesty! Ever tried?

2020-01-24T21:20:24+00:00

“I’m not looking for anything casual, I want a relationship.”

Let her make the next move.

Chasing is not the same as initiating.

Title	How can you keep/maintain a girlfriend when they just like to chase ?
Author	Danielitoa27
Upvotes	3
Comments	42
Date	January 24, 2020 5:43 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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