I noticed that I am improving my conversation skills slowly but I still lack the basic mechanics into a good conversation. I feel like I need to listen better but I have always sucked at listening. I am still trying to find conversations to talk about and trying to remove those “silent moments” when you have nothing to say. How do I become better at conversation? I noticed if I stop thinking about what to say most stuff come naturally or if I know a women is comfortable with me. Also I am having difficult time for a girl to invest into me or ask me questions. I feel like I am always the one asking the questions and they either respond yes or no or whatever.