How do I approach[Just do it doesnt seem to work]

J_Dilla_ · 2016-06-06T13:07:07+00:00

There are an infinite of correct responses to this but Rob Judge had a good mindset on this.

He said instead of approaching and pursuing women, seek the truth...yes "seek the truth". As wack as that sounds it's genius. You don't go after women trying to get laid (although you want to get laid), you don't go after women trying to get a girlfriend (even though you might want a girlfriend), you don't go after her because you want her number/Facebook/Snapchat etc., you go after her because you want the truth. The truth about you, the truth about her, the truth about you and her together, the truth about women, the truth about you and women. Every approach, every interaction, you uncover more truths about all this sh*t.

The truth is all you can expect from an interaction with a woman. Sex, a relationship, a number, a kiss, a hug, that's all a side effect of "the truth". Rejection, a slap, a drink thrown over your head, that's all a side effect of "the truth" too, the harsh truth so to speak. So all you can hope to get is finding out the truth.

How do you go about getting the truth? In relation to the concept as a whole many thing, but it all starts with "putting your pimp foot forward" (stolen from Rob again) and going up to her. You may be nervous, you may not want to do it...but without it you'll never know the truth....and what's gonna hurt more? You getting slapped and getting rejected or you never knowing if that girl you see could be someone that could be instrumental in your life. I know which one hurts me more. The hurt from a slap hurts for minutes, a drink over my head dries in a half hour...but the hurt from not approaching and pursuing countless women that have slipped away will stay with me until I die. Seek the truth my dude, it'll never let you down.

-Dilla

ItsCorruption · 2016-06-06T11:47:27+00:00

Same goes for me I always start to panic :(

vikrammervyn · 2016-06-06T17:22:19+00:00

Thanks a lot JDilla I think that would help a lot... ok and I here's another question... am I bombing you? if you think so feel free to answer whenever you want. So my question is see, if lets say you know this girl you like for a long while and you guys are in high school together same class or you are working. I know first impression is the best and stuff and I seemed to her as a friend first.... blah... blah...blah BUT is there absolutely no way I can fix it and me in a happy and fulfilled relationship with her? Thank you again

Title	How do I approach[Just do it doesnt seem to work]
Author	vikrammervyn
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	June 6, 2016 10:47 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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