Well i'm starting to venture out into the wild after my divorce. But i'm finding really embarassing that as soon as I start to do some sort of kino or just flirting i'll begin to get an erection. No matter what else I think about I just won't go away. I was married for 5 years and just from hugging my wife I would get hard. I don't really know what to do or where to even begin searching for a solution. I'm beginning to meditate and that's helped with AA, but not with the damn erections.