How do I keep phone conversations interesting? I'm having trouble with a boring girl.

2011-07-26T20:30:41+00:00

What the hell do I say to her?

"Are you free right now to meet for coffee instead of talking on the phone?" or if you are bold "Want to come over to my place to hang out?"

puaCurveBall · 2011-07-26T20:11:00+00:00

this girl really likes me(100 confirmed)..I already established attraction.

Why are you talking to her then?

Edit: In case it was too subtle, if she is into you then you should be making out and physically escalating instead of trying to have some conversation. Keep the phone calls to "Meet me at X for Y"

If your goal is a relationship rather than sex, then you should move onto a different girl that you can actually have good conversation with.(without "Trying")

gold_key · 2011-07-26T20:20:22+00:00

I would purposely miss her call and text her back that I am busy. The bonus part of that is it makes your value go up since you seem like an important guy with lots of stuff going on.

5960312 · 2011-07-26T20:56:28+00:00

I used 'moral dilemmas' and u can get a good 5 min convo out of it

for example 'a cashier gives you more change than you were owed but you don't discover this til you get home do you go back and return it? ' people cant resist expressing their moral logic in a sense - also i make shit up - i say a friend of mine wants to date his friends ex - is this ever okay? - or try other openers on her. good luck!

Brimshae · 2011-07-26T21:28:22+00:00

I'm having trouble with a boring girl.

Well, there's a problem If the problem's not you, that leaves only one other point of failure.

HumanSockPuppet · 2011-07-26T21:30:57+00:00

If you know she's into you, you should be past talking with her on the phone. Start inviting her out with you to activities you already have planned (emphasize the fact that you have a busy life outside of your conversations with her).

It's easier to find things to talk about when you're sharing an experience together.

ShamwowTseDung · 2011-07-27T03:26:12+00:00

stop calling her often, keep the convo short, only to set up time to meet up.

i personally dislike anything that doesn't allow me to get some face to face time.

but besides that, you're not here to be her shoulder to lean and cry on, cut the "talks until sunrise" crap, make a date, meet up and whatnot.

heckz · 2011-07-27T16:19:42+00:00

Meet in person.

testmypatience · 2011-07-27T01:18:03+00:00

You don't have to answer if you don't want to. I am positive she has that frame of mind unless she wants with you bad in which case she will always be waiting on your calls or will get back to you quick as she can and try to explain herself. BTW don't explain yourself unless you were rescuing babies from a burning building or feeding penguins or some cool shit.

Title	How do I keep phone conversations interesting? I'm having trouble with a boring girl.
Author	QDEISR
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	July 26, 2011 8:05 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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