Background - I am confident in talking to women, opening and closing quite well. But, it's through my initiation that I get my results. When at a bar/club I get quite a reasonable amount of 'eyes' from women and sometimes I just don't feel like making the first move, even though I know the girl has already given me the indicator that she's interested.

Because of this I sometimes feel like I'm portraying the image of a 'pompous prick' which works against me until I talk to them, at which point they warm to me. I want to become more approachable and maintain a warmer aura.

I have so far started smiling a lot more, especially when I get a girls attention and has proved to be better. But I am seriously tired of this image I feel I'm portraying. Help!

edit: It seems like I'm just being a bit lazy. Thanks for the responses!