How do I make women/girls comfortable around through conversation?

STD_Tyler · 2020-07-12T12:56:34+00:00

There are two directions for the conversation to build comfort/rapport:

YOU: Talk about things that you like, that make you comfortable and happy. If you feel happy and relaxed, she will contract these feelings too. If you feel self conscious about what you say, you will be nervous and make her uncomfortable. Don't think too much, just vent (but no negative shit).

HER: Make her talk a lot about herself and reveal what she holds down inside, go deep. We feel connected to people we talk to , not to who we listen to. The more she reveals about herself, the more trust and comfort she feels around you. Especially if you are a good listener and relate to her.

Queen-of-meme · 2020-07-12T11:55:52+00:00

How do you talk to your friends?

You shouldn't see her as some scary achievement, but as talking normal with your friend. That's the secret.

Jaktenba · 2020-07-12T13:50:35+00:00

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1234689o · 2020-07-12T17:56:43+00:00

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hartlylove · 2020-07-13T20:06:09+00:00

My 2 cents, if your conversation skills are a bit lacking, ask her lots of questions about her and get HER talking. She’ll most likely ask you questions back and it will go back and forth. Don’t make it like an interrogation though. You want to ask a question and develop a bit on the answer before you move to the next one. Sounds dumb to say, but I’ve been on dates where it felt like I was in an interrogation and it wasn’t fun. If you can, make her laugh. We love when a man can make us laugh.

Dominus-Prime- · 2020-07-12T15:57:36+00:00

Stop talking in a manner that’s aimed at entertaining her. Talk about what you’re passionate about. As far as turning her on learn to flirt. Make her laugh, blush and think. The goal is to give the girl a taste of what it would be like to be with you

manonpoint_com · 2020-07-14T00:19:26+00:00

The best way I've found when comfort is the main issue is throw in a little bit of self-deprecating humor (not too much) and try to fish out what she's interested in and focus on that topic.

Title	How do I make women/girls comfortable around through conversation?
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Date	July 12, 2020 10:40 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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