How do I stay alpha in a relationship?

Soupertramp · 2012-05-14T00:57:49+00:00

I just wrote a post about this, mate. Enjoy :)

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/tlorg/my_relationship_manifesto_what_to_do_after_you/

my_little_mutation · 2012-05-14T03:26:34+00:00

You should be equals, not "alpha". You need to sit her down and be dead serious that she isn't treating you right, lay out what she's doing that makes you feel controlled, and tell her that you two either need to talk and work shit out or you're out.

The_Merkon · 2012-05-13T23:41:40+00:00

Learn to say no to her?

2012-05-15T19:52:54+00:00

Break up with her before she does it for you. If you're fantasizing about it then that should tell you something, you're not happy with the relationship. The power dynamic has been set as a precedent.... it's not gonna change now, guaranteed. Don't let her beat you to the punch, because she will definitely drop you for being so beta, sooner or later. You should dump her NOW, then use the confidence to not be someone else's lapdog. Step back from the situation and look at it from other's perspective.... Think about it: Does she take you for granted? Do you command her respect? Does she care about your approval? There are other fish in the sea dude. Man up, next her and feel good about it.

konyfan2012 · 2012-05-14T02:50:23+00:00

have you tried growing the fuck up?

2012-05-14T00:48:20+00:00

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xanderbuck · 2012-05-14T02:50:53+00:00

dude you're so pussy. Just do a quick in and out and dump her. Gotta stay alpha man!

Title	How do I stay alpha in a relationship?
Author	jakechophd
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	May 13, 2012 11:21 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/tllvl/how_do_i_stay_alpha_in_a_relationship/
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