How do I stop getting jealous when coming to this sub?

Woujo · 2017-03-11T02:10:11+00:00

A lot of guys are lying. Men's egos are deeply tied to how many girls they fuck and nobody wants to admit they're not slaying lots of puss. Second, a lot of the guys that do get laid a lot also go out a lot, and they have a low success rate. Fucking 20 girls in a year isn't as impressive if you're going out every single night and approaching 100 girls a night. There are other things in life to fucking girls.

Finally, jealousy is just a bad emotion. There will always be somebody to be jealous of. If you can't enjoy what you have you will always be miserable.

crawleydown · 2017-03-10T18:56:08+00:00

Firstly, you are super young, so Don't worry too much.

Personally, I come to this sub because I find there is VERY LITTLE in terms of bragging and success stories! Especially compared to some forums.

When I read the Rooshv Forums, I feel like killing myself!! Loads of guys claiming to get laid about 4 nights per week from tinder and cold approaches with hot young college girls and the 'i just got laid' thread, where the same names post over and over and must have lay counts approaching 500!!

Similar things on other PUA forums with people always talking about their threesomes and guys in their 40's apparently banging teenage virgins etc! This sub is very tame in comparison and doesn't induce my jealousy much in general! :)

I'm 30 and have approached lots and have only had sex with literally a handful of girls so I natrually feel envy when I read pickup forums, so I try to avoid them

Looks and location are HUGE factors in success, in my eyes. Most of the guys who slay are actually just very good looking guys (who MISTAKENLY attribute their success to their game as opposed to their looks) They also live in ideal areas as far as game goes.

makethegirlsdance · 2017-03-10T19:30:37+00:00

I tend to agree that this sub is very mild with any kind of bragging. Honestly, I come to this sub because there are plenty of posts where guys admit they don't do well and I like to read the suggestions and also it is nice to see that it's not just you struggling with girls. Keep at it. The best advice is when you think you're good enough improve yourself more. People take notice of someone successful in life, and with that comes likability and relationships.

savior100 · 2017-03-10T19:23:49+00:00

the men who are sleeping with that many women have been "gaming" for years and you need to approach a lot of women to hit the triple digit notch count. A lot as in, going out 4 nights a week and hitting up 20-30 girls in one night.

Xanarxses · 2017-03-10T19:34:02+00:00

Those dudes probably game for years.

The only way you'd have some sort of tangible reason to be jealous is if you've also been gaming for years but unlike them have gotten nothing.

I know that these mofos have way more balls than I do and thus deserve the pussy far more than i do.

Simply put.

letsgetrandy · 2017-03-10T19:35:29+00:00

I pull what I pull now, largely as a result of all the years I've put into improving myself. When you're 18, living with parents, no career, probably no car, no life skills, and no money, of course it's going to be hard.

When you're 40, living in a fancy loft, earning a ton of money, dressing well, and have 25 years of practice with pickup, it's naturally going to be much easier.

abstractpickupartist · 2017-03-11T03:40:35+00:00

Seriously? I read this forum pretty regularly, and i must have missed that. But then, I don't read the posts that are trying to sell something.

People that are sleeping with a new girl every night don't have time to post. And someone who has actually slept with 300 women wouldn't be here unless they wanted to help - so they wouldn't mention it.

Title	How do I stop getting jealous when coming to this sub?
Author	Pvqwer
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	March 10, 2017 6:30 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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