How do you apply inner game in set?

PixelBot · 2019-06-25T20:25:10+00:00

Inner game is about self-confidence.

Thus, are you willing to have a confident conversation, or are you saying things you think she wants to hear?

The trick is to be willing to have conversations with her (and also with your friends) and be brutally honest. If you have your own opininos MAN THE FUCK UP AND SAY THEM. Don't be a people pleaser. Self-confidence is being willing to speak your truth, regardless if she likes it or not. That's real inner game. And women find it sexy as hell.

Have your own opinions. She will try to test you on them. Stay your ground. That's it.

If she does/says something stupid, call her on it (don't be an asshole, but call her on it). If she's a bitch, call her on it. If she's kind and sweet, you can call her on that too.

You must be willing to stand your ground on things you believe in, don't try to be a people pleaser.

DriedUpPlum · 2019-06-25T20:59:08+00:00

Limited? HA :P.

PUA/gamey stuff is a diving board. Inner game is the physical structure the diving board is attatched to and raising it above the pool of water that is dating. You can do a cannon ball and make a lot of waves on the surface or you can try to get as deep as possible.

If you are going to pick only one method to work on it would be inner game.

All of it really is the application and presentation(big one there) of what gives some guys “it.” When I smile back from across the bar while I make strong but soft eye-contact then very quickly walk over to her and ask for her name. In that moment I’m treating her as if the only person I want to or need to be talking to is her. Yet, at any moment I could move on to the next conversation with someone new. At that moment she’s run into the first person that night or maybe even in weeks that has yet to decide if he wants to sleep with her. Even more shocking is she is quickly realizing her decision is a resounding YES provided you don’t fuck it up.

That’s their inner game.

Then the more PAU considered gamey shit comes into play about when she would be running her finely tuned game on you. You’re polarizing, making emotional connect, being direct, honest, kino escalating naturally but frequently. You’re throwing out a lot of feelers and getting as much feedback as you can and giving it in kind. DHV stories, neg’s, mirroring and well...You’re both playing games with eachother. You’re just letting her know that you know the rules and can play as well.

If she was on the fence then the early to late 2000s stuff will likely push her over to your side.

It’s all PUA as far as I’m concerned. It’s all increasing your chances significantly of having a healthy and enjoyable relationship with someone you wouldn’t have known otherwise. There is no magic bullet or secret phrase.

Imperator_Pyra · 2019-06-25T21:57:51+00:00

Just a clarification: outer game is what you do. Inner game is what's going on in your head. Therefore, you can't be "inner game only". But I know what you mean: you're talking about using scripted game vs unscripted game. But I'd like to point out that unscripted game does not mean just asking interview questions. Also, verbal game is not all there is - there's also physical game. You can communicate with girls on multiple levels - have a very "normal" and boring conversation verbally, while at the same time making the interaction interesting on a physical level.

_d3nnis_ · 2019-06-25T22:00:30+00:00

Apply it in life

Title	How do you apply inner game in set?
Author	eleminionur
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	June 25, 2019 7:30 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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