How do you end your text message conversations?

Emerzon · 2013-06-12T09:03:05+00:00

I tend to stop if there's clearly no use for a reply. I struggle to explain this, but if it takes any effort at all to keep it going, don't.

Salg5873 · 2013-06-12T12:30:52+00:00

Tell her that you are off to ( insert crazy adventure here). That way later on in the day she will ask about it.

jimmyayo · 2013-06-12T17:30:23+00:00

I text usually with statements. I keep them short, sporadic and self-entertaining.

Be abrupt. Make her be the inquisitive one. You don't want her to feel like she "has" you by giving too much reward via text. Reward her when you're actually hanging out instead. That way, when you're not around her and just texting, she'll want to brush through the text shit and hurry and meet with you again, for that feeling of validation and reward.

puaSenator · 2013-06-14T05:19:16+00:00

When the conversation has come to an end. A lot of guys, especially, will want to keep talking to this girl they are interested in, so they'll want to try and keep the convo going... This comes off as needy.

In fact, I often don't respond to texts that I just don't know how to answer. For instance, I just got a text from a girl that said, "I just woke up!" -- I had no idea how to respond to that. "Ummm good for you?" I dunno, so I didn't. 10 minutes later she's asking me to go grab a few drinks. I will most likely fuck her when we're done.

2013-06-12T14:31:54+00:00

you don't reply. the girl needs to realize you are not going to talk to her if you are boring.

if she says something boring. if your text game has been going great she should initiate contact again after realizing her text was godawful. if your text game hasn't been great you should probably just give up.

2013-06-14T11:07:29+00:00

think of it this way:

I've NEVER felt like NOT texting/messaging back was hurting my relationship with a girl. E.g. girl reacted coldly to me after I didn't text back. (Unless it was a question that clearly required a response, but even then, its rare that you will lose any status).

Therefore, I never text for the sake of texting. I'll send one or two funny texts, and cut it off then. I make sure every text has purpose and is worth reading, if its not, I don't text.

2013-06-14T14:02:49+00:00

It just depends on the situation. Half the time I'll stop replying because I generally hit the sheets pretty early and either just don't reply or say good night.

2013-06-12T13:37:41+00:00

ask them out. thats why you're texting.

2013-06-14T00:54:29+00:00

there is no right or wrong way to end your texting. just enjoy the texting, and whatever happens to be the last thing you have to say IS GOOD ENOUGH. there are no rules or conventions you need to follow.

the fact you are asking this question means you are trying to manage an impression. stop this. there is no need to care what she thinks about your texting. the only rule i would follow is to always speak in statements - that is, never (or rarely) ask questions. this also applies to real life. say what you want unapolagetically, without looking for her reaction. this shows you aren't seeking her validation, and that is attractive.

SpaceToaster · 2013-06-13T03:09:53+00:00

This is too much fun, I wish we could .... but I've got to work now
This is too much fun, I wish we could .... but I've got to study now
This is too much fun, I wish we could .... but I've got to go now
This is too much fun, I wish we could .... but I've got to go sailing now
This is too much fun, I wish we could .... but I've got to go practice guitar now
This is too much fun, I wish we could .... but I've got to go jamming with friends now
This is too much fun, I wish we could .... but I've got to go play tennis now

The ... is important since it keeps her guessing what you have in mind. If that ever comes up in conversation say I'd rather show you what I had in mind than tell you. But not in public...

Flashh101 · 2022-08-15T03:51:26+00:00

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Title	How do you end your text message conversations?
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Date	June 12, 2013 8:48 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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