How do you flirt?

J_A_B_88 · 2014-06-11T22:59:57+00:00

There is no set way of flirting. You said it yourself though, it's mutual playfulness. Check this post out from a few weeks ago. The search bar is a plethora of information

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/24p8ki/how_does_one_flirt/

DaygameCoach · 2014-06-11T23:35:02+00:00

I tease, banter, roleplay, future project, and then add sexual escalation into it. I sometimes use push pull as well.

2014-06-12T04:01:15+00:00

Teach! If you can communicate any topic to a wide group of people, it will help you learn how to talk to people. Teaching is one of the highest form of communication. Male or female in the end it doesn't matter, who you are talking or teaching with. The important aspect to remember is that being able to change your message and/or tailor it to your audience is very important in teaching. One of the more important aspect of teaching is learning how to get feedback from your audience. Think of flirting as a way of getting feedback. When you get some feedback you need to know how to change your response to keep getting positive feedback. At the end of the day, flirting is just another form of talking to a person with who you are trying to build an attraction.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-06-12T04:15:24+00:00

Develop a personality. Give her some compliments on what she's wearing/style or her hair. Laugh with her, make some jokes. Flirting can also be called vibing which is just having a fun and light conversation with a girl, don't over think it and speak your mind

Heyoka7 · 2014-06-12T02:31:02+00:00

I start by ignoring them with alpha male body language. Not pushy flashy bullshit. More like discovery channel gorillas who are chill and kind, but will fuck shit up if they need to. The first step is fear/respect. Then I open up later after I find something worth complimenting them about. After they get respect and know that I approve of them I open up, tease them and reserve the right to criticise out of genuine concern. Mostly its just playful and I stay kind. The initial impression was one of respect/mystery so they don't find my playfulness boyish later. They think they are seeing a special side of me. I might say..I'm usually all work, but there is something about you that makes me feel like a little kid who is playing with his friend. (Notice that. I friendzone them.) Then I can neg and tease and we are just buddies. Buddies drink, challenge each other. Have a heart to heart. Thats when I get intel. Find out what she wants and what she lacks. Then I reveal a deep secret...guess what? Amazingly I am the perfect fit. Make an excuse to leave for an important meeting so it puts pressure to get all of this out. Then I'll call and pretend to cancel and yell at someone that the investors can fucking wait. She'll get shocked at seeing the alpha side I opened with. Use that off balancing to make out with her. If she asks about business I say that the most important person in my life is right here..that I have investors lined up on this thing...bam..continue....melt...plays into their bullshit fantasies. It makes her think you are a rich guy that will put her first. This way I can friendzone a number of women at once and store them for later. They feel lucky to know someone who is kind and powerful. It makes them feel safe and all you have to do is ask them questions..and then fill what they lack. Since you aren't begging them or following them you don't owe them monogomy, promises or anything. Your work/mission in life is important and it gives you excuses to be distant. Yes this contradicts the phone call...good...its confusing as hell. confused people are easily led.

Title	How do you flirt?
Author	Curseyouthrowaway
Upvotes	10
Comments	10
Date	June 11, 2014 9:33 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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