I'm an extreme hardcase loser (30+, dateless virgin, autistic) and lately the frustration of being in this position has been terrible. I haven't been able to stem the tide, as waves of resentment and bitter envy wash over my mind.

I've recently seen woman on Reddit, for example, put up a post saying "I need [use your imagination here]" and sit back as hundreds of replies come in, and then choose one of those guys.

I actually asked this woman in PM, who claims to be 24 years old and highly sexual, how it works. It's exactly as I said. She waits a day for hundreds of replies, chooses one (presumably the best.) That's it. Over and done.

I have tried similar things (without being overt or posting pictures) for years. I can count about 15 unique replies at best. ALL of these conversations fizzled out or stopped replying once I sent a return message, and not after I sent a pic (I couldn't even get that far.)

It takes ONE DAY for that woman. And over and done.

That's just one example. Every day I have to be a 30+ guy who is a dateless virgin because of social difficulty--and no other reason--and it will likely be that way for my entire life. I can't lead even 1/10th of a normal person's life, so like, what can we say?

I only have to leave my house to watch guys who have social skills on a silver platter, and I know they're "all set", for that one reason. I'm on the opposite end with a strange neurology that doesn't allow me to learn new skills, if we break it down to its core. So I cannot assimilate social fluency, as a result.

How do you wrap your mind around it? Folks with exponentially greater potential or individuals (some of them men) who put up one profile on one site, for 1-7 days and they find what they want, and it's over and done. I don't know how to assimilate these facts AND still believe I have value. Can you?