How do you keep the conversation going?

ShellReaver · 2013-10-05T01:13:46+00:00

I'm relatively new to gaming, but here's what I know.

Be inquisitive but don't interrogate.
Be genuine with your conversation. Don't attempt to talk about something you don't understand.
Insert a joke here and there get her to smile and laugh.
Listen to what she says, pick a single comment out of it, and ask about it or discuss. That way you aren't worrying about remembering every detail.

But remember, watch her body language and such too. No reason to struggle to keep talking if she's ready to escalate the encounter.

Edit: oh, also Confidence! The more confident you are, the easier natural conversation comes.

2013-10-05T06:55:06+00:00

I normally stare at the girl, with the emotion of "why arent you talking?", it puts a pressure on her to start the conversation off rather than you caving in. Girls are programmed to talk, if they're comfortable with you, they'll keep talking.

Ask open ended questions, something like "What school do you go to" is a small response question, play a game with her trying to guess what subject/career she's interested in, and get to deeply know why she is interested in this subject, show honesty and actual interest in this too by keeping eye contact. Girls can always tell when a guy is not interested in what they're saying. Good luck.

InnerReadingVoice · 2013-10-05T19:39:51+00:00

I guess this is basic knowledge, but FORD is good to have in the back of your mind; Family, Occupation, Relationships, Dreams.

Try finding out about them without acting like a Secret Service interrogator. That also keeps the conversation about them, which is a good thing as people generally like to talk about stuff they know, in this case themselves.

JMcNeil18 · 2013-10-05T02:34:08+00:00

I do three things when talking to girls

First let me say the video "How to Hold a Conversation like a Man" is great! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI

Anyway the first thing is to make statements, don't ask questions. Instead of saying, "Do you like movies?" say "You look like a movie buff." It doesn't allow them to give you a yes or no answer, and if you're right they freak out and are amazed. Two, have a few questions in reserve in case conversation starts going flat (FORD...Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams). Three, let her lead the damn conversation. Be okay with silence and let her do the talking or ask the questions. This shit shouldn't be one-sided and turn into an interview. It works well. Conversation starts to die down and you don't have a response, she notices, she gets uncomfortable, then she asks a question or starts talking.

2013-10-05T02:29:40+00:00

There is one very important thing I learned about this. If you have to ask that question you are doing it wrong. There is no such thing as a guide. You have to view the conversation like an exchange of what you essence is. If you go through the conversation in your head before it won't be really valid. I think it is like this: The more you bring into a conversation of your own character the more attractive you are. You won't be interesting to anybody if you are just talking to talk. No. You have to be telling something about yourself with the way you talk. There is just one thing to remember. Every thing has its own time (or timing). Don't reveal something strange about yourself too fast. It's okay to say something strange when you got to know each other enough. So: Just talk and bring as much of yourself into what you are saying as long as you don't get weird. And believe in what you are saying. Nobody will believe or feel anything about what you say if you don't believe in it. Why would you want to talk to someone who doesn't believe what he is saying.. it's about confidence.

Title	How do you keep the conversation going?
Author	giffengoods
Upvotes	6
Comments	5
Date	October 4, 2013 11:34 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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