I'd like to hear some of you guys' tips with getting better socially during semesters. Personally, I seem to make big leaps of improvement during breaks, when I have time to focus on reflecting on social experience and improving, rather than studying for this final or reading this chapter or making this presentation for this or that class.

Last semester, with my part time job on top of full time college, it was hard to find time to actually reflect, read, and improve. Maybe it was because I had a serious relationship (that'll inevitably take up some of my focus/time, etc.), but now I'm out of it. I seemed to have lost a lot of knowledge I had before the relationship about the game. Given I traded it for some invaluable relationship experience and knowledge, from no considerable knowledge regarding relationship management with girls.

Some theories for next semester:

  • Just take action and stop worrying about girls' reactions. Then when I actually have some reference points, I can reflect real quick and get back to studying or going out.
  • Schedule times/days for outings, or make time once or twice a week to reflect on dating.
  • Approach girls on campus before/after classes, chill there all day instead of commuting back and forth; because that's the best venue in all honesty for me.

Any tips you guys use who're in college?