How exactly does one 'love oneself'?

Boris_Yonkavich · 2017-04-08T20:12:40+00:00

Read or listen to "The Subtle Art of not Giving a Fuck" by Mark Manson. I recommend listening to it, much better that way.

abstractpickupartist · 2017-04-09T03:15:17+00:00

I hate myself because I have no success with women whatsoever.

Stop keeping score by women.

Set some goals for yourself, and keep them. (backpack across Europe, do a color run, take up MMA). Anything that will satisfy YOU.

Find value in your actions, not seeking it from others. (You probably aren't even seeking it from women, you just want to show them to the world).

Models also a good book. Counseling is an option as well.

JE163 · 2017-04-08T20:35:07+00:00

You seem to have some great realizations already but you may want to add guided journaling to your routine that focus on the feelings of self love.

LakeoftheDead · 2017-04-08T23:21:44+00:00

Celebrate the every day small achievements. Small gains lead to large gains over time. Rome was not built in a day. Give yourself some credit for the effort you are putting in. In time that effort will equal success. Dont expect it overnight... and dont set predetermined timelines for success. Just keep at it.

Spiritofchokedout · 2017-04-09T00:03:54+00:00

Love means you recognize the flaws and accept them, not that you beat those flaws.

RichardBandler · 2017-04-09T03:49:47+00:00

Try doing some gratitude journal exercises

recyclablebanthas · 2017-04-10T16:43:24+00:00

I've learned that my hatred towards women is a direct reflection of my own self loathing....

Tale as old as time. One of my ex-GFs always sabotages her relationships due to her self-loathing as well.

I think loving oneself is a strange process. But maybe part of it lies in realizing that you are always there for yourself. There are all sorts of videos on this. 1, 2, 3

Title	How exactly does one 'love oneself'?
Author	gtrman571
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	April 8, 2017 7:37 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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