How imporant is 'sporting a package' while grinding? [NSFW]

elorthrowme · 2012-12-13T22:09:14+00:00

I don't think its hygiene or unattractiveness.

It's always IOI's/she seems interested/sometimes even K-close/ then on to dance floor > and then she leaves.

I may think our grooves are not matching up, or maybe I need to learn how to grind better.

Regardless, its hard to sport a boner when A)you're drinking & B)When you've conditioned you're self to think it's bad to show that in public.

Last night, she was all into it. Letting me touch whereever, whenever. Then one of her friends takes a picture and she freaks and leaves. After a while I ask her again, and she's completely not interested.

chismes · 2012-12-14T00:10:09+00:00

Seems to me like you're just having bad luck.

I don't think the package is at all important. It better be limp or it will hurt to grind. Plus, the butt is not as sensitive as to feel dat bulge, especially when there are layers of clothing everywhere - but it is sensitive enough to sense when someone is bumping into it and how that someone is bumping into it.

So you should just try to practice dancing by yourself (seriously... match your hips to the beat) and just be okay with saying sayonara to girls who don't appreciate your moves. They're missing out, anyway.

redx211 · 2012-12-14T12:46:50+00:00

I've always wondered this, I wish there was a woman present to answer this. Should I try to not get a boner? Or should I go for the full-fledged raging boner?

heckz · 2012-12-14T18:01:59+00:00

WTF man the point of dancing isn't getting a boner and rubbing it on people. If you get one you get one if you don't you don't. In fact its more creepy than not if you do have a random boner with someone you don't even know. Whiskey dick is not relevant to dancing.

SinSlayer · 2012-12-13T22:01:30+00:00

Either A) You're not very attractive/have bad hygiene, B) You can't dance, or C) You're trying to grind them with a chubby.

Basically, whatever you are doing is turning them off and sending them running. And for the record, regardless of how hot you think you are, no woman wants to dance with a guy she just meet who keeps trying to grind his erect penis into her hips/ass/pelvis. Keep a little space between you and just dance. Then offer to buy her a drink and chat her up until her next favorite song comes on.

Title	How imporant is 'sporting a package' while grinding? [NSFW]
Author	elorthrowme
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	December 13, 2012 9:43 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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